What the hell is going on with these Leo's

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I am still fuming and trying to understand how in the world did everything went so wrong last night. Yesterday was my birthdate. I had made prior plans with a Leo friend of mines a week earlier to go out and have fun on my birthdate. I should have noticed the sign right then and there and went out with my guy friends instead. I asked her if she could spend part of the day with me just doing the girl thing getting the hair done, pedi, mani, shopping for stuff to go out in later on. The girl knew I had the hair appointment and she literally had me running around chasing behind some old fart trying to get money out of him and I kept telling her I had to go. Never mind the guy running from her. So she asked me to drop her off at the bus, which I did. Then she got real upset cuz I guess she really thought that I was gonna drive way east to drop her off home knowing that I have to head far south and far west to get to the hair appointment. I swear to you at the moment I realized AGAIN how self centered she is. I ended up being the last person to leave out of the salon four hours later cuz I was late to the appointment and I had to wait. Didn't even get to do the other pampering stuff I had in mind. So I called her and told did she get ready. No she isn't ready still upset about the incident of me dropping her off at the bus stop. She says I don't have anything to where I said it's okay I can bring some stuff I think would like nice on you over from my closet. She said fine. (Oh, never mind she wanted to go to another county to go buy a dress she saw...WTF!!!) When I get there the girl took an hour to get ready not to mention she did have something to where and ended up wearing her clothes. So we get to club. I pay her way to get in. Were only in there for one hour and she wants to leave. I'm like why just relax enjoy yourself and lets just have fun. The girl nagged me so bad I said fugg it lets go. So we outside and I asked her can we sit down for a second so I can smoke a cig since it was a long azz walk to the car. So we did. Now some guy approaches her and she had me just sitting there for six whole damn minutes talking to the guy (i already fininshed my cig way b4). So I'm like lets go if were gonna go. She's telling me to hold on. WTH, wasnt it your idea to go home. Now that your getting some damn attention your in a freaking great mood. I just walked off. When she finally caught up. I just let her have it. After a year of marcisstic self centeredness
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I should have noticed the sign right then and there and went out with my guy friends instead. I asked her if she could spend part of the day with me just doing the girl thing getting the hair done, pedi, mani, shopping for stuff to go out in later on. The girl knew I had the hair appointment and she literally had me running around chasing behind some old fart trying to get money out of him and I kept telling her I had to go.

So wait? She had YOU asking a guy for money ... for herself? Really? Okay .....


I pay her way to get in. Were only in there for one hour and she wants to leave. I'm like why just relax enjoy yourself and lets just have fun. The girl nagged me so bad I said fugg it lets go. So we outside and I asked her can we sit down for a second so I can smoke a cig since it was a long azz walk to the car. So we did. Now some guy approaches her and she had me just sitting there for six whole damn minutes talking to the guy (i already fininshed my cig way b4). So I'm like lets go if were gonna go. She's telling me to hold on. WTH, wasnt it your idea to go home. Now that your getting some damn attention your in a freaking great mood.


You are very nice, you know why? Because theres no way I would have paid her way into a club, nope -- she had money already, remember? You are the one who had to get money from a guy for her, right?

Honestly, if she does this stuff on a regular basis, I think she may take advantage of your kindness, only because she knows that she can get away with it.
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I should have noticed the sign right then and there and went out with my guy friends instead. I asked her if she could spend part of the day with me just doing the girl thing getting the hair done, pedi, mani, shopping for stuff to go out in later on. The girl knew I had the hair appointment and she literally had me running around chasing behind some old fart trying to get money out of him and I kept telling her I had to go.

So wait? She had YOU asking a guy for money ... for herself? Really? Okay .....

SEE THE PROBLEM IS SHE DOESN'T HAVE A CAR. THE GIRL CHANGES MEN LIKE UNDERWEAR. SHE SHOULD BE A PROFESSIONAL HOOKER!! I WAS STUCK DRIVING HER AROUND CHASING AFTER A GUY FOR HER TO GET 1OO BUCK FROM HIM. SAD THING IS THE GUY WAS AVOIDING HER. THAT'S HOW SHE LIVE HER LIFE. I DON'T LOOK AT PEOPLE FOR EVERY NEGATIVE THAT THEY HAVE IN THEM I LOOK AT THEIR POSITIVE. JUST IN CASE YOUR ASKING HOW IN THE WORLD I ENDED UP BEING FRIENDS WITH HER. WE MET THROUGH A MUTUAL FRIEND I'VE KNOWN SINCE I WAS 13. SHE WAS LIVING WITH HER AT THE TIME. AND I NOTICED HOW THE OTHER GIRL WAS TREATING HER BAD. HERE I GO FEELING SORRY FOR HER AND WE CLICKED AND I WOULD PICK UP HER SON FOR FROM SCHOOL OR TAKE HIM THEIR SOMETIME. I WOULD BUY HER FOOD AND COOK FOR THEM. WE WOULD GO TO CHURCH TOGETHER. ITS LIKE SHE INSTANTLY BECAME A SISTER. AND I TREATED OUR SISTERLY RELATIONSHIP BETTER THAN MY REAL SISTERS.


I pay her way to get in. Were only in there for one hour and she wants to leave. I'm like why just relax enjoy yourself and lets just have fun. The girl nagged me so bad I said fugg it lets go. So we outside and I asked her can we sit down for a second so I can smoke a cig since it was a long azz walk to the car. So we did. Now some guy approaches her and she had me just sitting there for six whole damn minutes talking to the guy (i already fininshed my cig way b4). So I'm like lets go if were gonna go. She's telling me to hold on. WTH, wasnt it your idea to go home. Now that your getting some damn attention your in a freaking great mood.


You are very nice, you know why? Because theres no way I would have paid her way into a club, nope -- she had money already, remember? You are the one who had to get money from a guy for her, right?

THE WORST PART OF IT ALL IS DA GIRL ACTED AS IF SHE DIDN'T HAVE ANY MONEY AT ALL. I WAS BUYING THE DRINKS FOR HER. BUT AT THE EN
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BrightasOrion
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Posted by deemnsout4ever
Leos can be utter cunts when the spotlight isn't on them, it isn't a case of 'ooohh,I didn't realise' despite how loud they mew...
At least you got your hair done.

You should've reminded her who the birthday girl is too (with emphasis on words such as 'fucker' and 'selfish cunt' ,etc)



OH!! YEAH. I EXPLODED ON HER. AND I MADE SURE EVERYONE KNEW ABOUT IT. I LET EVERYONE KNEW THAT SHE WAS A FUCKING SELFISH WHORING BITCH THAT WILL SUCK AND SCREW YOU AND YOUR DADDY FOR TWENTY DOLLARS. I MEAN SHE WAS IN SHOCK SHE DIDN'T EVEN GET A CHANCE TO SPEAK BUT YES YES I LET HER HAVE IT. SHE'S SEEN MY STING ON ONE OTHER PERSON AND THAT TIME I WAS PROTECTING HER FROM SO CALLED GETTING RAPED ON HER DATE WHILE I WAS WATHCING HER SON. SHE SEEN HOW I REACTED WITH THAT GUY.
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Posted by deemnsout4ever
I'm on the Libra/Scorpio cusp,Libra rising...
most important point of your predicament..it was your Birthday, it should be you who's taking the piss and getting away with this shit !!😛



I KNOW.. AND THAT'S WHAT BOTHERED ME. I GAVE HER THE SATISFACTION OF SHOWING UP TO HER BDAY PARTY EVEN WHEN WE HAD ARGUED A COUPLE DAYS B4 YOU KNOW. STOPPED WORKING ON STAFFING THE NURSES SHCEDULE WHICH IS ONE OF THE MOST STRESSFUL PART OF MY WEEK AT WORK AND AT HOME AND SHE KNOWS THAT, TO COME TO HER BORING BDAY PARTY TO EAT CHIPS, RICE ADN KFC CHICKEN. EVEN WHEN I WAS UNCOMFORTABLE ABOUT IT I SANG HER HAPPY BDAY AND DIDN'T ACT PETTY OR CHILDISH. I GAVE HER HER DAY WITH RESPECT. I EVEN EXTENDED TO RESOLVE OUR ARGUMENT TO THE GIRL (WHICH SHE SHRUGGED)AFTER THE PARTY TO NOT HAVE ANY RESENTMENT BETWEEN US. LOL!!! BOY AM I DUMB...
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SEE THE PROBLEM IS SHE DOESN'T HAVE A CAR. THE GIRL CHANGES MEN LIKE UNDERWEAR. SHE SHOULD BE A PROFESSIONAL HOOKER!! I WAS STUCK DRIVING HER AROUND CHASING AFTER A GUY FOR HER TO GET 1OO BUCK FROM HIM. SAD THING IS THE GUY WAS AVOIDING HER. THAT'S HOW SHE LIVE HER LIFE. I DON'T LOOK AT PEOPLE FOR EVERY NEGATIVE THAT THEY HAVE IN THEM I LOOK AT THEIR POSITIVE. JUST IN CASE YOUR ASKING HOW IN THE WORLD I ENDED UP BEING FRIENDS WITH HER. WE MET THROUGH A MUTUAL FRIEND I'VE KNOWN SINCE I WAS 13.

I see, so you have known her for a while ... okay well ...

Thats still no excuse for her to take advantage of you like this.
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Posted by deemnsout4ever
I'm on the Libra/Scorpio cusp,Libra rising...
most important point of your predicament..it was your Birthday, it should be you who's taking the piss and getting away with this shit !!😛



I KNOW.. AND THAT'S WHAT BOTHERED ME. I GAVE HER THE SATISFACTION OF SHOWING UP TO HER BDAY PARTY EVEN WHEN WE HAD ARGUED A COUPLE DAYS B4 YOU KNOW. STOPPED WORKING ON STAFFING THE NURSES SHCEDULE WHICH IS ONE OF THE MOST STRESSFUL PART OF MY WEEK AT WORK AND AT HOME AND SHE KNOWS THAT, TO COME TO HER BORING BDAY PARTY TO EAT CHIPS, RICE ADN KFC CHICKEN. EVEN WHEN I WAS UNCOMFORTABLE ABOUT IT I SANG HER HAPPY BDAY AND DIDN'T ACT PETTY OR CHILDISH. I GAVE HER HER DAY WITH RESPECT. I EVEN EXTENDED TO RESOLVE OUR ARGUMENT TO THE GIRL (WHICH SHE SHRUGGED)AFTER THE PARTY TO NOT HAVE ANY RESENTMENT BETWEEN US. LOL!!! BOY AM I DUMB...
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Right, and she couldn't show you respect on your birthday. Thats terrible. If you are on the Libra-Scorpio cusps, then that means you are a naturally nice person 🙂 Most of the ones I know on the cusp are. You need to move away from her a bit. After not contacting her for a while, she'll get the hint. If she doesn't get the hint, than forget her.

You know, I stopped conversating with my leo friend for almost a year. She killed me and I did not answer ... the only time I spoke to her was when she was kicked out of her parents house. I thought it was a fair exchanged after the way she treated me 😉
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I have a Leo girlfriend who said something quite mean to me on facebook, I confronted her, and she then pretended she didnt say it, deleted it... even though I had still had it in my email lol... since then I have maintained friendship with her... but once somebody lies to me, they go on my list of people that I dont think much of... kind of 'not really friend' list..

Friendships are supposed to be easy, nice, trusting and caring.. if they become dramas, then I drop them. There are always nicer new friendships waiting to take their place 🙂
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I guess its my Virgo cusp but I am not at all bothered about not being in the spotlight, especially when its a friends shining moment. I would've stayed at the club as long as you wanted regardless of whether or not I was bored, tired, hungry, etc. Sure, we can be self-centered and dramatic but honestly, I would NEVER skip out on plans made with a friend or ruin their night. I am EXTREMELY dependable and NEVER balk on my word. My friends can ALWAYS depend on me to be where I say I will. Ive always felt that Leos are actually very honest and dependable. If we dont want to go or something comes up we just tell you. It is what it is. So, I have to say she sounds selfish for sure and maybe it does have something do with her Sun sign, but you need to look at her other placements as well.
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I have my own tale with my LEO 'friend' for this weekend. My birthday was yesterday. My Leo guy friend calls me EVERY effn day. Sorry, but sometimes I do not wish to talk and lately I have been more sympathetic and picked up his calls on a regular basis. So he talks for an hour and asks me in the end if he can call me back later.

This time I told him, LEO.. you call me every day, why don't we just meet in person, have a cup of coffee and talk face-to-face? He usually tells me that it has been a long time since he saw me last... and supposedly he has a thing for me, but I keep those things tucked on a friendship level. We know each other for the past more than 2 years.

So he says ok to the idea of meeting but will let me know that day. He calls at 4pm and leaves a message saying he will call at 5pm. 5 comes and goes. I am ready to see him if he says 'now is a good time!'. Come 6 pm, he still hasn't called. I call him. He doesn't pick up and also his voicemail is not in service (intentionally!). He leaves multiple voicemails on my phone, but has his off.

Next day at his regular calling hour he calls. I am always very kind to him but this time he gets to hear sh*t from me. He apologizes repeatedly, but I don't think he got my point. He thinks, he never promised to meet me. It was an open, undecided event. I said to him, listen, you said you will call back, you didn't. I waited for an hour above the time you said you will call. I called you and you ignored my phone. He said he was on the phone with his cousin. He normally interrupts me when he gets outside calls from others, but he saw me calling and didn't pick up my call. That is absurdly selfish!


The other Leo guy I was dating hasn't even sent me a happy birthday wish.


Hey Ike -- thanks for explaining.

I have to exclude my Leo women friends though. They have been exceptionally good towards me, but am not so lucky with the guys so it appears.



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Posted by deemnsout4ever
Leo chicks love the Scorpio men though, imo
I dunno, in small doses, Leo men are okay, but too many clashes, and the two signs outlooks regarding power,responsibility and entitlement are far from similar, in my experiences ,Ike



Not this one. So far my least compatible has been with a Scorp. We never dated, but we are great friends and considered giving it a go, but upon closer consideration I was like.... hell to the no..... his ass was too damn aggravating for this lady. Stubborn, too emotional (I hate whiney ass men - prob my Aqua influence) and totally incourageable. But I love him to death as a friend.

Leo men, never been attracted to one on more than a friedship level although I do have several that as friends and I adore them. And everyone that I do know are very attractive, we are just too much alike and do better just having fun together.
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Posted by deemnsout4ever
Leo chicks love the Scorpio men though, imo
I dunno, in small doses, Leo men are okay, but too many clashes, and the two signs outlooks regarding power,responsibility and entitlement are far from similar, in my experiences ,Ike



Leo women and men always seem to hook up. I dated a scorp for 5.5 years. When Scorps are into you, they love hard. But they can be sensitive and then act like everything is ok when they are really upset...That is what annoyed me. Being a Leo, I am direct...just say what you feel.
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I guess its my Virgo cusp but I am not at all bothered about not being in the spotlight, especially when its a friends shining moment. I would've stayed at the club as long as you wanted regardless of whether or not I was bored, tired, hungry, etc. Sure, we can be self-centered and dramatic but honestly, I would NEVER skip out on plans made with a friend or ruin their night. I am EXTREMELY dependable and NEVER balk on my word. My friends can ALWAYS depend on me to be where I say I will. Ive always felt that Leos are actually very honest and dependable. If we dont want to go or something comes up we just tell you. It is what it is. So, I have to say she sounds selfish for sure and maybe it does have something do with her Sun sign, but you need to look at her other placements as well.



I am the same way...I was born on the leo virgo cusp too. I am known as the most dependable and very honest.