Who will a Scorpio choose as a friend between an Aquarius and a Cancer?

Hi. I want to share my story to get some insight from Scorpios.

I'm a married Cancer woman and my husband is an Aquarius.

My husband met a Scorpio man when he was dating me and they became good friends and they talk quite often. I was also introduced to this man and we clicked so well and now he's good friends with me too. So he talks to both of us.

It's been a while since my marriage is not doing well because of incompatibility and intimacy problems. We've been married for 4 years and we don't have babies. My husband has ZERO passion in bed and I don't think he's going to change because this has been going on for a long time.

We also have other problems so sometimes I don't see a future with him anymore and I thought about a separation which only led to disaster. He basically threatened me telling me that he would make my life impossible if I left him and some other stuff. He got super angry to the point of scarying me.

So things are pretty bad and I wonder what would happen if my husband and I split. Will the Scorpio be more loyal as a friend to my husband or to me? Because I think like he would have to choose between one of us. My husband is an angry man and he will hate me and talk trash about me if I leave him. He won't take it well.

Our Scorpio friend will never know the truth about our marriage issues so I feel that I'll end up losing his friendship because he will choose my husband since he became friends with him first. It's sad because he was really nice and gentle and it would break my heart if he turns he's back on me.

How would you act if you were in the Scorpio guy's position?

I think the real focus for you should be how you're going to get out of your unhappy marriage first. I'm getting the vibe that what's really driving your question is if you may have any kind of shot with this person if you were to leave your current relationship. Fair question mind you, but it shouldn't be the driver for whether you divorce or not. You have no children involved, so IMO you have one of the most ideal situations a person can have when seeking a divorce. You basically never have to see this person ever again and you can start over.
Back to your original questing, couple of things missing to give a better answer. Such as how is their relationship, are they buds, hang out etc? Has he seen or been around you two when you've argued? Personally, I can't stand Aquariuses lol

Well my husband and this Scorpio buddy talk every now and then but only by text. They don't hang out in person that much and it's mostly my husband that initiates the conversations with him.

I think he got the vibe that my husband and I don't click very well the last time he hanged out with us because you can tell that my husband and I are from two different worlds.

The Scorpio and I have many things in common and that's why we became good friends.

I just think I deserve better because my marriage is not the best I expected and that's why I want to somehow get out of this marriage. But I'm worried that not only will I loose my marriage but also my friends if my husband talks trash about me out of revenge.

I really wished the Scorpio man knew the REAL truth but he will never know the reason why I'm leaving my husband unless he asks me. I hope he doesn't think I'm a bad wife or heartless person without knowing why I made this decision😢

One of my best guy friends is a cancer, but I thank his aqua moon for our friendship 💛

Then I was fwb’s with an aqua (who coincidentally had cancer moon I think). That was fun. We still message each other from time to time; he’s funny.

LOL at your roundabout way of saying you want to fuck your husband's friend.

Posted by SpaceBird
Why on earth do people think she wants to fuck this scorpio? They could just be friends ...

Really?? You can't see it? Lol

Posted by Melody0007
Well my husband and this Scorpio buddy talk every now and then but only by text. They don't hang out in person that much and it's mostly my husband that initiates the conversations with him.
I think he got the vibe that my husband and I don't click very well the last time he hanged out with us because you can tell that my husband and I are from two different worlds.

The Scorpio and I have many things in common and that's why we became good friends.

I just think I deserve better because my marriage is not the best I expected and that's why I want to somehow get out of this marriage. But I'm worried that not only will I loose my marriage but also my friends if my husband talks trash about me out of revenge.

I really wished the Scorpio man knew the REAL truth but he will never know the reason why I'm leaving my husband unless he asks me. I hope he doesn't think I'm a bad wife or heartless person without knowing why I made this decision

well ..it sounds like u DESIRE teh scorpio man and its "typical"u would say ur aqua husband has no passion in bed. -_-

why do u care so much about the scorpio man more and his thoughts?

if the scorpio man desired u, i dont think a husband or boyfriend or anyone could stop him...IF u desired him back..

but i guess cause u didnt have good sex with your aqua husband...

u want to have wild horny sex with the scorpio huh?? come on spill it. lol

it's all over this post. 😛 😆

Posted by JJM1120

Posted by SpaceBird
Why on earth do people think she wants to treetrunk this scorpio? They could just be friends ...

Really?? You can't see it? Lol click to expand

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lmao!!!

oh i wasn't the only one. 😆

Posted by Whorpio
One of my best guy friends is a cancer, but I thank his aqua moon for our friendship 💛

Then I was fwb’s with an aqua (who coincidentally had cancer moon I think). That was fun. We still message each other from time to time; he’s funny.

aw that's so sweet. on the 1st one.

and lol@ the 2nd one on fwb 😛

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Whorpio
One of my best guy friends is a cancer, but I thank his aqua moon for our friendship 💛

Then I was fwb’s with an aqua (who coincidentally had cancer moon I think). That was fun. We still message each other from time to time; he’s funny.

aw that's so sweet. on the 1st one.
and lol@ the 2nd one on fwb

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In theory it might sound sweet, but the 1st one deleted me on Snapchat after he got a girlfriend (even tho I had a bf by then so our friendship wasn’t flirty no mo). I think his gf had something to do with that, so I’ve had to lay low on his Facebook page so she don’t get jealous or sumn 😢 Feels sad man

Just to clarify, I don't even know the Scorpio guy too well to want to get involved with him. But as far as I've known him he seems like a nice man, something hard to find these days which is why I don't want to loose him as a friend. I don't know what's so bad about that.

I know marriage is hard and you have to sacrifice to stick to that person but I can't stay with someone that is not into sex. Sorry I'm not a Scorp but I do like sex!! The least thing I want is to cheat on my husband and that's why I would prefer to leave him before I do anything stupid. It's so easy to cheat now a days. You can even do it online but it's not my thing.

After the divorce I will have to REALLY get to know a guy WELL before getting involved because after this experience I don't want more drama. I've had enough and I learned my lesson because I rushed to get married with someone I didn't know too well. Living with my husband was a different thing than just dating him.

Also my experiences with men have been bad and I have trust issues with them. One of the things I appreciate about the Scorpio is that he seems different than most of the jerk guys I've known but then again I don't know him that much. But i think I better forget about him and his friendship and just focus on my future and making things better for myself.

Oh man, Cancers and Aquas are my best friends!

I wouldn't choose to be honest, ultimately I feel that Cancers are more loyal and my cancer friend has proven that to me but my aqua best friend has stood the test of time.

honestly, I think you should be more focused on your marriage than posting about your Scorpio friend who has nothing to do with the marriage LOL

there's obviously more to this......

Also.. I don't know how it is for all people, but I personally will never be with someone who was with my friend. There's too many people on this planet for me to go for sloppy seconds.

Honey..I think you concern should be getting out of that marriage. Fuck that scorp. You sound like you are in a lonely place. Do you have some other close friends? I just think you need to be focus on being in a healthy place.

Posted by Melody0007
Hi. I want to share my story to get some insight from Scorpios.
I'm a married Cancer woman and my husband is an Aquarius.
My husband met a Scorpio man when he was dating me and they became good friends and they talk quite often. I was also introduced to this man and we clicked so well and now he's good friends with me too. So he talks to both of us.

It's been a while since my marriage is not doing well because of incompatibility and intimacy problems. We've been married for 4 years and we don't have babies. My husband has ZERO passion in bed and I don't think he's going to change because this has been going on for a long time.

We also have other problems so sometimes I don't see a future with him anymore and I thought about a separation which only led to disaster. He basically threatened me telling me that he would make my life impossible if I left him and some other stuff. He got super angry to the point of scarying me.

So things are pretty bad and I wonder what would happen if my husband and I split. Will the Scorpio be more loyal as a friend to my husband or to me? Because I think like he would have to choose between one of us. My husband is an angry man and he will hate me and talk trash about me if I leave him. He won't take it well.

Our Scorpio friend will never know the truth about our marriage issues so I feel that I'll end up losing his friendship because he will choose my husband since he became friends with him first. It's sad because he was really nice and gentle and it would break my heart if he turns he's back on me.
How would you act if you were in the Scorpio guy's position?

Dump you both. Too much drama.

Posted by HoovesofTopaz

Posted by Melody0007
Well my husband and this Scorpio buddy talk every now and then but only by text. They don't hang out in person that much and it's mostly my husband that initiates the conversations with him.
I think he got the vibe that my husband and I don't click very well the last time he hanged out with us because you can tell that my husband and I are from two different worlds.

The Scorpio and I have many things in common and that's why we became good friends.

I just think I deserve better because my marriage is not the best I expected and that's why I want to somehow get out of this marriage. But I'm worried that not only will I loose my marriage but also my friends if my husband talks trash about me out of revenge.

I really wished the Scorpio man knew the REAL truth but he will never know the reason why I'm leaving my husband unless he asks me. I hope he doesn't think I'm a bad wife or heartless person without knowing why I made this decision

Why are you so worried about what this other guy thinks of you?

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She wants the Scorp. She won't admit it though.

Posted by Andalusia
LOL at your roundabout way of saying you want to fuck your husband's friend.

*love*

i just noticed "we dont have babies"...

hm

virgo