vesper
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Why 2 of my men in my life always end up with cancer women?
Posted by PeanutButterandElly
Why does it matter? Are you comparing yourself to the other women? If you figure out what cancer ladies got do you think it can help you resolve something for yourself?
If these relationships were quite some time ago,ask yourself why you are probing that area of your life. Sounds like you have unfinished business of some sort.
Funny Relax- It's not like that! It's just a curiosity, what's wrong with that?
Do you even think I can change or resolved when all I do here is create a thread and ask questions?
Posted by PeanutButterandEllyIm questioning because I want to know why?Posted by vesperI didn't say there was anything wrong. Lol. Just questioning why you were questioning.Posted by PeanutButterandElly
Why does it matter? Are you comparing yourself to the other women? If you figure out what cancer ladies got do you think it can help you resolve something for yourself?
If these relationships were quite some time ago,ask yourself why you are probing that area of your life. Sounds like you have unfinished business of some sort.
Funny Relax- It's not like that! It's just a curiosity, what's wrong with that?
Do you even think I can change or resolved when all I do here is create a thread and ask questions?
I don't really know what your saying in your third sentence. Is English your second language?click to expand
Yes, english is my 2nd language is it really that bad?
Posted by vesperyou probably dont dote on them the way they do. not as eager to show your emotions probably. scorpios are an acquired taste but you will find someone who will understand and appreciate your passion one day.
First I didn't date all of them at once and second I'm not seeing any of them anymore long time ago..
I just found out when I did some digging in the surface- so the question is I don't know the reason why this 2 signs are attracted to Cancer women; one of them is Leo with a cancer woman and the other is an Aquarius involved with cancer woman as well? just why?
By the way I'm Scorpio.
Posted by vesperWhy would you care anyways? Tbh it is likely the two pairings would not last. As a Leo myself I get annoyed of Cancer's pessimistic attitude and constant worrying of me. Aquas can do without the emotional aspects and they also don't like being worried over.
First I didn't date all of them at once and second I'm not seeing any of them anymore long time ago..
I just found out when I did some digging in the surface- so the question is I don't know the reason why this 2 signs are attracted to Cancer women; one of them is Leo with a cancer woman and the other is an Aquarius involved with cancer woman as well? just why?
By the way I'm Scorpio.
lol ...these are strange pairings ...but don't worry about it ... there has a been a women of ever sign wondering why their ex went after a hot scorpio or smart virgo ...a cute aries and the list goes on and on ...but if I was were you I would try a CAPRICORN ...Scorpio women and capricorn men were made for each other ...or maybe pisces, cancer, taurus and virgo ....VIRGOS LOVE SCORPIO WOMEN..
Posted by Cancan26Yea, it's just curiosity why this men ended up with a cancer women instead. I know they have the qualities that we don't have in scorpios; i can clearly understand that. But why Cancer when it's a bad match but you never know opposites do attract lol.
lol ...these are strange pairings ...but don't worry about it ... there has a been a women of ever sign wondering why their ex went after a hot scorpio or smart virgo ...a cute aries and the list goes on and on ...but if I was were you I would try a CAPRICORN ...Scorpio women and capricorn men were made for each other ...or maybe pisces, cancer, taurus and virgo ....VIRGOS LOVE SCORPIO WOMEN..
well, Capricorn never really met one in real life. For now I'm just chilling and not worry about getting into another one but thank you 😄
Posted by SolesanCare?Posted by vesperWhy would you care anyways? Tbh it is likely the two pairings would not last. As a Leo myself I get annoyed of Cancer's pessimistic attitude and constant worrying of me. Aquas can do without the emotional aspects and they also don't like being worried over.
First I didn't date all of them at once and second I'm not seeing any of them anymore long time ago..
I just found out when I did some digging in the surface- so the question is I don't know the reason why this 2 signs are attracted to Cancer women; one of them is Leo with a cancer woman and the other is an Aquarius involved with cancer woman as well? just why?
By the way I'm Scorpio.click to expand
Please can anyone understand the word ''CURIOSITY'' not even one of you answer my basic questions.
Actually there's 1-2 here already understood where i'm coming from with approach of kindness.
Posted by Gob_Shite
Who cares? Stop being a stalker and move on...
Hahaha Stalker is good when you don't fully have the answers and you might as well guarantee that it will save you from trouble next time. ahem.
Posted by AbbyNormalPosted by vesperyou probably dont dote on them the way they do. not as eager to show your emotions probably. scorpios are an acquired taste but you will find someone who will understand and appreciate your passion one day.
First I didn't date all of them at once and second I'm not seeing any of them anymore long time ago..
I just found out when I did some digging in the surface- so the question is I don't know the reason why this 2 signs are attracted to Cancer women; one of them is Leo with a cancer woman and the other is an Aquarius involved with cancer woman as well? just why?
By the way I'm Scorpio.click to expand
Thank you, you and the other person here kindly understood the question where this thread is coming from.
Posted by PeanutButterandEllyPosted by vesperI was not insulting you. The grammar was off and it confused me. If I know English is your second language, I can try and write my questions in a more understandable style as well.Posted by PeanutButterandEllyIm questioning because I want to know why?Posted by vesperI didn't say there was anything wrong. Lol. Just questioning why you were questioning.Posted by PeanutButterandElly
Why does it matter? Are you comparing yourself to the other women? If you figure out what cancer ladies got do you think it can help you resolve something for yourself?
If these relationships were quite some time ago,ask yourself why you are probing that area of your life. Sounds like you have unfinished business of some sort.
Funny Relax- It's not like that! It's just a curiosity, what's wrong with that?
Do you even think I can change or resolved when all I do here is create a thread and ask questions?
I don't really know what your saying in your third sentence. Is English your second language?
Yes, english is my 2nd language is it really that bad?
The conversation is becoming defensive though. Good luck finding out why your ex's like cancer women I guess? Lolclick to expand
Of course you didn't! who else will come out with a very arrogant answers. when i'm only trying to see who can actually answer my thread without getting judge. pff!
NO its been done and its very kind of you to offer.
Posted by DatariesgirlAggressive and unbending just how?
Perhaps you're too aggressive or unbending compared to Cancer women.
Oh probably because, I kindly let them into my life and at the same time was being taking advantage because I was too nice and probably too naive. Was I too aggressive and unbending?
That's why i have to walk grow some balls, act like an adult and just walk away that is less deserving.
was I wrong for being who i am?
Posted by vesperPosted by DatariesgirlAggressive and unbending just how?
Perhaps you're too aggressive or unbending compared to Cancer women.
Oh probably because, I kindly let them into my life and at the same time was being taking advantage because I was too nice and probably too naive. Was I too aggressive and unbending?
That's why i have to walk grow some balls, act like an adult and just walk away that is less deserving into my life.
was I wrong for being who i am?click to expand
Your exes 7th house might be in a water sign it's probably why they are drawn to you in the first place besides all three of you being fixed signs. I also agree with others above it doesn't matter forget about them they're in the past for a reason right
Posted by WiseOwl
Your exes 7th house might be in a water sign it's probably why they are drawn to you in the first place besides all three of you being fixed signs. I also agree with others above it doesn't matter forget about them they're in the past for a reason right
You're absolutely right they have water signs on there placements 🙂
Yes its already in the past and I accept that already. Just CURIOUS you know. CURIOSITY sometimes will make you question too right?
Posted by vesperKindness? I'm not even attacking you and only asking why? I gave you my point of view of dating a Cancer woman. Yes I have dated a cancer woman in the past and it didn't last long. You're so defensive.Posted by SolesanCare?Posted by vesperWhy would you care anyways? Tbh it is likely the two pairings would not last. As a Leo myself I get annoyed of Cancer's pessimistic attitude and constant worrying of me. Aquas can do without the emotional aspects and they also don't like being worried over.
First I didn't date all of them at once and second I'm not seeing any of them anymore long time ago..
I just found out when I did some digging in the surface- so the question is I don't know the reason why this 2 signs are attracted to Cancer women; one of them is Leo with a cancer woman and the other is an Aquarius involved with cancer woman as well? just why?
By the way I'm Scorpio.
Please can anyone understand the word ''CURIOSITY'' not even one of you answer my basic questions.
Actually there's 1-2 here already understood where i'm coming from with approach of kindness.
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Posted by vespernp, i know the ex quotient can be a confusing and unforgiving one. two of my exs are with women 10 years younger. one of my theories is that they needed someone more dependent, and maybe a little less set in their ways. who knows tho. its best really not to dwell on the past and rather focus on the present and what kind of future you really want. work towards making yourself the best you that you can be. you can start taking steps towards making that future a reality and when you are least expecting it, and in the best place to love another, he will find you. once you feel healthy alone, try making a wish list for your future husband to send out into the universe.Posted by AbbyNormalPosted by vesperyou probably dont dote on them the way they do. not as eager to show your emotions probably. scorpios are an acquired taste but you will find someone who will understand and appreciate your passion one day.
First I didn't date all of them at once and second I'm not seeing any of them anymore long time ago..
I just found out when I did some digging in the surface- so the question is I don't know the reason why this 2 signs are attracted to Cancer women; one of them is Leo with a cancer woman and the other is an Aquarius involved with cancer woman as well? just why?
By the way I'm Scorpio.
Thank you, you and the other person here kindly understood the question where this thread is coming from.
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Posted by vesperWhat are their 7th houses? And 5th? And or 8th? And venus. Any pluto aspects?
First I didn't date all of them at once and second I'm not seeing any of them anymore long time ago..
I just found out when I did some digging in the surface- so the question is I don't know the reason why this 2 signs are attracted to Cancer women; one of them is Leo with a cancer woman and the other is an Aquarius involved with cancer woman as well? just why?
By the way I'm Scorpio.
These cancer women, do their risings conjunct i portant planets? Many things to consider....
Posted by Arielle83That's amazing, will at least they have something in common 🙂
Leo likes the attention we give.
Aqua likes our quirky sense of humour
now i know.
Posted by bricklemarkOk I'll do my best to give you the date of birth:Posted by vesperWhat are their 7th houses? And 5th? And or 8th? And venus. Any pluto aspects?
First I didn't date all of them at once and second I'm not seeing any of them anymore long time ago..
I just found out when I did some digging in the surface- so the question is I don't know the reason why this 2 signs are attracted to Cancer women; one of them is Leo with a cancer woman and the other is an Aquarius involved with cancer woman as well? just why?
By the way I'm Scorpio.
These cancer women, do their risings conjunct i portant planets? Many things to consider....click to expand
CANCER Woman: June 25, 1993
LEO Man: August 13, 1985
CANCER woman: July 8, 1988
AQUARIUS man: Feb 1, 1988
😄
Yeah could be other placements. Not always the sun sign doing the driving.
Posted by vesperPosted by Cancan26Yea, it's just curiosity why this men ended up with a cancer women instead. I know they have the qualities that we don't have in scorpios; i can clearly understand that. But why Cancer when it's a bad match but you never know opposites do attract lol.
lol ...these are strange pairings ...but don't worry about it ... there has a been a women of ever sign wondering why their ex went after a hot scorpio or smart virgo ...a cute aries and the list goes on and on ...but if I was were you I would try a CAPRICORN ...Scorpio women and capricorn men were made for each other ...or maybe pisces, cancer, taurus and virgo ....VIRGOS LOVE SCORPIO WOMEN..
well, Capricorn never really met one in real life. For now I'm just chilling and not worry about getting into another one but thank you 😄click to expand
They could have other things in their charts. I'm a cancer.. my aqua ex and I had the same moon only a degree apart.
Posted by clippityclopEx? what happened?Posted by vesperPosted by Cancan26Yea, it's just curiosity why this men ended up with a cancer women instead. I know they have the qualities that we don't have in scorpios; i can clearly understand that. But why Cancer when it's a bad match but you never know opposites do attract lol.
lol ...these are strange pairings ...but don't worry about it ... there has a been a women of ever sign wondering why their ex went after a hot scorpio or smart virgo ...a cute aries and the list goes on and on ...but if I was were you I would try a CAPRICORN ...Scorpio women and capricorn men were made for each other ...or maybe pisces, cancer, taurus and virgo ....VIRGOS LOVE SCORPIO WOMEN..
well, Capricorn never really met one in real life. For now I'm just chilling and not worry about getting into another one but thank you 😄
They could have other things in their charts. I'm a cancer.. my aqua ex and I had the same moon only a degree apart.
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Well the Aqua have Pisces in Venus, Cancer Moon and hmm Aqua Sun, probably that's one of the reason why his attracted to Water signs.
Posted by DivaCanLeoPosted by Gob_Shitenigga you know better. i'm talking about CRAB women. We the SHEET.Posted by DivaCanLeo
good sex, nice smiles, cozy atmosphere, possibly good food
fun. not all serious.
And what non-Cancer sign are you talking about?
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So your a Leo, Oh I'm sure there's better than a good food and sex! what makes you attracted to Cancer women?
Posted by kissmygritsYes, it could be!
Yeah could be other placements. Not always the sun sign doing the driving.
Posted by vesperHaha probably him being an aqua and me being a cancer in the end. I was really emotional and needed more reassurance. He thought I was annoying and was very distant. He didn't invite me out with his friends, thus I started hanging out with mine more and making new ones. Then eventually we grew apart and yeah. :/ longest break up ever though. It took two years haha.Posted by clippityclopEx? what happened?Posted by vesperPosted by Cancan26Yea, it's just curiosity why this men ended up with a cancer women instead. I know they have the qualities that we don't have in scorpios; i can clearly understand that. But why Cancer when it's a bad match but you never know opposites do attract lol.
lol ...these are strange pairings ...but don't worry about it ... there has a been a women of ever sign wondering why their ex went after a hot scorpio or smart virgo ...a cute aries and the list goes on and on ...but if I was were you I would try a CAPRICORN ...Scorpio women and capricorn men were made for each other ...or maybe pisces, cancer, taurus and virgo ....VIRGOS LOVE SCORPIO WOMEN..
well, Capricorn never really met one in real life. For now I'm just chilling and not worry about getting into another one but thank you 😄
They could have other things in their charts. I'm a cancer.. my aqua ex and I had the same moon only a degree apart.
Well the Aqua have Pisces in Venus, Cancer Moon and hmm Aqua Sun, probably that's one of the reason why his attracted to Water signs.
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By the way I'm Scorpio.