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Posted by RainDancerRight? Things that come easy rarely bring me satisfaction.Posted by duchesslibroI'm a scorp Venus too and I prefer some dominance around here.
This is so interesting. I'm Scorpio dom and Scorpio Venus and my husband has all Aqua Mars, Leo Merc, Taurus Moon. I was just telling him last night how I like a challenge. Yum.
Make me work for what I want.click to expand




Posted by BlackMambaPosted by Sn1p3r187basically
So does this mean Cardinals like a Cancer or a Capricorn crave another cardinal or a mutable?click to expand

Posted by ArriusThis is so off base. Had nothing to do with anything.
So basically, to feel most "alive," if someone throws a left hook at you, the thing to do is to lean into it?
smdh

Posted by flowingwater
Aquamermaid - Aqua married to Scorpio man
Lisabethur - Aqua married to Scorpio man
Tachi - Scorpio married to Taurus man
Sultrykitty - Leo married to Aqua man
Kalin - Scorpio dating Leo man
Scorpio4242 - Scorpio dating Leo man
Shall I keep going?
Posted by flowingwaterI'm an aqua lady....marrying my Scorpio next year 🙂
Aquamermaid - Aqua married to Scorpio man
Lisabethur - Aqua married to Scorpio man
Tachi - Scorpio married to Taurus man
Sultrykitty - Leo married to Aqua man
Kalin - Scorpio dating Leo man
Scorpio4242 - Scorpio dating Leo man
Shall I keep going?



Posted by flowingwaterPosted by 13thNot even if we made your favorite meal with kitty at the end of it?Posted by flowingwater
Aquamermaid - Aqua married to Scorpio man
Lisabethur - Aqua married to Scorpio man
Tachi - Scorpio married to Taurus man
Sultrykitty - Leo married to Aqua man
Kalin - Scorpio dating Leo man
Scorpio4242 - Scorpio dating Leo man
Shall I keep going?
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I couldnt imagine being married to one (leo and aqua) I would never want to go home lol ....Maybe its something in my chart that wants NOTHING to do with either sign I guess....fawk the fixed sign, add Gemini and Virgo too....holy sheeete the virgo would make me shoot myself with all the questions, a gem? forget abt it......All fawkin girls give me a headache but I could deal with the rest,,,Not these 4
😄click to expand


Posted by Sn1p3r187
I can't say much on this. Maybe it's just Scorpios that love other fixed signs. I can't say this for other ones since I've seen plenty of Taureans with Capricorns and Virgos. And Cancers too but I don't how they manage. I've seen plenty of Leos hook themselves up with a Libra like this one couple I know, plenty of them with an Aries as well. And Aquas? They're just all around until a Scorp scares them into or out of a relationship. lol

Posted by ReincarnationWhy not?
I strongly recommend any Scorpios to not enter a Sun square Sun relationship.
Life is just too short for that.



Posted by Sn1p3r187I will see of I can find out
So does this mean Cardinals like a Cancer or a Capricorn crave another cardinal or a mutable?

Posted by 13thI'm not saying anything. It was just an article I came across. I wanted your perspectives. Plus, we all know it's much deeper than sun signs lol
I didnt read the whole thing lol Sorry OP.....But im assuming youre saying that us scorps should date other fixed signs? on a friendship level I get along very well with Aquas and Leos... but .as far as dating : NEVER AGAIN! I cant stand aqua chicks or Leos for different reasons....give me a mushy Cancer or an air-head pisces any day of the week over those two...bull chicks, I'll leave them out of this for personal reasons, but I wont let past pain get in the way of me dating another bull chick..but the other two...fawk no

Posted by flowingwaterRoll yes! ˆ
Aquamermaid - Aqua married to Scorpio man
Lisabethur - Aqua married to Scorpio man
Tachi - Scorpio married to Taurus man
Sultrykitty - Leo married to Aqua man
Kalin - Scorpio dating Leo man
Scorpio4242 - Scorpio dating Leo man
Shall I keep going?


Posted by flowingwaterThose types of people never hold my interest. I like and need a bit of a challenge too.
After a while, I get tired of walking all over someone.
I grow from challenges.

Posted by 13thC'mon, why don't you like us? 😢Posted by flowingwater
Aquamermaid - Aqua married to Scorpio man
Lisabethur - Aqua married to Scorpio man
Tachi - Scorpio married to Taurus man
Sultrykitty - Leo married to Aqua man
Kalin - Scorpio dating Leo man
Scorpio4242 - Scorpio dating Leo man
Shall I keep going?
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I couldnt imagine being married to one (leo and aqua) I would never want to go home lol ....Maybe its something in my chart that wants NOTHING to do with either sign I guess....fawk the fixed sign, add Gemini and Virgo too....holy sheeete the virgo would make me shoot myself with all the questions, a gem? forget abt it......All fawkin girls give me a headache but I could deal with the rest,,,Not these 4click to expand

Posted by 13thI know you said you didn't want to go into it...but you have piqued my curiosity as ro why not the fixed ones lolPosted by flowingwater
Aquamermaid - Aqua married to Scorpio man
Lisabethur - Aqua married to Scorpio man
Tachi - Scorpio married to Taurus man
Sultrykitty - Leo married to Aqua man
Kalin - Scorpio dating Leo man
Scorpio4242 - Scorpio dating Leo man
Shall I keep going?
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I couldnt imagine being married to one (leo and aqua) I would never want to go home lol ....Maybe its something in my chart that wants NOTHING to do with either sign I guess....fawk the fixed sign, add Gemini and Virgo too....holy sheeete the virgo would make me shoot myself with all the questions, a gem? forget abt it......All fawkin girls give me a headache but I could deal with the rest,,,Not these 4click to expand

Posted by christinelovessnickersMaybe it's because we ask to many questions, lol.Posted by 13thI know you said you didn't want to go into it...but you have piqued my curiosity as ro why not the fixed ones lolPosted by flowingwater
Aquamermaid - Aqua married to Scorpio man
Lisabethur - Aqua married to Scorpio man
Tachi - Scorpio married to Taurus man
Sultrykitty - Leo married to Aqua man
Kalin - Scorpio dating Leo man
Scorpio4242 - Scorpio dating Leo man
Shall I keep going?
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I couldnt imagine being married to one (leo and aqua) I would never want to go home lol ....Maybe its something in my chart that wants NOTHING to do with either sign I guess....fawk the fixed sign, add Gemini and Virgo too....holy sheeete the virgo would make me shoot myself with all the questions, a gem? forget abt it......All fawkin girls give me a headache but I could deal with the rest,,,Not these 4click to expand


Posted by Sn1p3r187I am leo, but am really drawn to virgos. Although I have realized that I briefly dated two scorpios in the past. Like a scorp now and the last virgo I dated had some scorp in his chart...the only one I Remer for sure is venus, but I think there were a few more placements
I can't say much on this. Maybe it's just Scorpios that love other fixed signs. I can't say this for other ones since I've seen plenty of Taureans with Capricorns and Virgos. And Cancers too but I don't how they manage. I've seen plenty of Leos hook themselves up with a Libra like this one couple I know, plenty of them with an Aries as well. And Aquas? They're just all around until a Scorp scares them into or out of a relationship. lol

Posted by CopperDoveI didn't realize that degrees and signs formed there own squares.
I'd say that this is at least partially true for me.
Oppositions are easier to handle than squares that the article focuses on, and sometimes are considered by astrologers to be ideal in synastry.
But with squares, at least for me, it's best when the signs themselves are square, but the degrees don't form what astrologers normally consider a square with my fixed planets and luminaries.
For example, an Aquarius or Leo sun person, if their sun is 0-6 degrees, does positive things with several of my planets and my moon. Even so, the energy is different from my Scorpio parts (I'm Scorpio sun, Venus and Jupiter) and Taurus rising. So the square still introduces tension to some degree, I think, but not so strongly that I feel like it's a concrete wall like it can with squares that are tight in degree.
I've known people with charts that overwhelmingly were positive with my chart, but there wasn't much of a draw to form a close relationship. There wasn't enough potential for transformation, is kind of what I sensed, which can be so vital to Scorpio folks.

Posted by Vixen2You will have to let us know.Posted by elllesqueI have never run a synastry check on us...weird I know. There has to be alot of oppositions between the both of us then.Posted by Vixen2yes and no.
Guess it just really depends on the person and not so much on astrology after all, yes?
for me...I have a strong opposition in my chart. I also have scorpio/taurus in my 1st/7th house axis.
I love oppositions in certain places within synastry.
I have one lonely square in my whole chart that includes my earth singleton.....cap in jupiter square pluto libra.....so, I get anxious around squares but that also excites me.
I think your personal chart drives the aspects that you might be attracted to.
etc.
I'll do that this weekend!click to expand

Posted by CopperDoveThank you for your perspective Š. That's exactly what I was looking for. I was researching something completely different when that article popped up. Wanted to see who agreed/ disagreed and why.
I wanted to add, but DXP cut me off (oddly, given that I didn't write a lot above compared to the allowable):
The author of the article, Synthia Rose, has Leo in her 7th house. She might be drawn to Leo energy, square or no square. Her chart is at the bottom of this page:
http://scorpioland.org/about-scorpioland-synthia-rose/).
I've read all of the articles on her site. Sometimes I relate, sometimes not. What she has to say represents an extreme of Scorpio energy, often, and I don't know many Scorpios who fully relate to that, but the articles are more insightful than most when describing what it's like to be a Scorp.

Posted by sultrykittyHey now, it's a hanging comment œlol.Posted by christinelovessnickersMaybe it's because we ask to many questions, lol.Posted by 13thI know you said you didn't want to go into it...but you have piqued my curiosity as ro why not the fixed ones lolPosted by flowingwater
Aquamermaid - Aqua married to Scorpio man
Lisabethur - Aqua married to Scorpio man
Tachi - Scorpio married to Taurus man
Sultrykitty - Leo married to Aqua man
Kalin - Scorpio dating Leo man
Scorpio4242 - Scorpio dating Leo man
Shall I keep going?
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I couldnt imagine being married to one (leo and aqua) I would never want to go home lol ....Maybe its something in my chart that wants NOTHING to do with either sign I guess....fawk the fixed sign, add Gemini and Virgo too....holy sheeete the virgo would make me shoot myself with all the questions, a gem? forget abt it......All fawkin girls give me a headache but I could deal with the rest,,,Not these 4click to expand




Posted by incandescentcancerI will give you stubborn, inflexible sometimes (like when I feel really strongly about something or have tried something already and know that it isn't right). I love new experiences and learning new things, but sometimes getting past the comfort zone can be an issue (I think for anyone).
Fixed signs largely come across as stubborn and inflexible. They actually don't want to try anything new from my experience.
This is why I couldn't understand how a Cardinal sign like Cancer could work with a fixed sign like Scorpio.

Posted by christinelovessnickersPosted by Sn1p3r187I am leo, but am really drawn to virgos. Although I have realized that I briefly dated two scorpios in the past. Like a scorp now and the last virgo I dated had some scorp in his chart...the only one I Remer for sure is venus, but I think there were a few more placements
I can't say much on this. Maybe it's just Scorpios that love other fixed signs. I can't say this for other ones since I've seen plenty of Taureans with Capricorns and Virgos. And Cancers too but I don't how they manage. I've seen plenty of Leos hook themselves up with a Libra like this one couple I know, plenty of them with an Aries as well. And Aquas? They're just all around until a Scorp scares them into or out of a relationship. lolclick to expand

Posted by ArriusLol. Pretty much.
So basically, to feel most "alive," if someone throws a left hook at you, the thing to do is to lean into it?
smdh

Posted by sultrykittyPosted by christinelovessnickersMaybe it's because we ask to many questions, lol.Posted by 13thI know you said you didn't want to go into it...but you have piqued my curiosity as ro why not the fixed ones lolPosted by flowingwater
Aquamermaid - Aqua married to Scorpio man
Lisabethur - Aqua married to Scorpio man
Tachi - Scorpio married to Taurus man
Sultrykitty - Leo married to Aqua man
Kalin - Scorpio dating Leo man
Scorpio4242 - Scorpio dating Leo man
Shall I keep going?
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I couldnt imagine being married to one (leo and aqua) I would never want to go home lol ....Maybe its something in my chart that wants NOTHING to do with either sign I guess....fawk the fixed sign, add Gemini and Virgo too....holy sheeete the virgo would make me shoot myself with all the questions, a gem? forget abt it......All fawkin girls give me a headache but I could deal with the rest,,,Not these 4click to expand

Posted by 13thI guess that could be true. My guy has a bull moon, I have cap moon and Libra Venus, so I need my alone time and small fine with a fair bit of distance. But when we need you, we need you there 100% .Posted by sultrykittyPosted by christinelovessnickersMaybe it's because we ask to many questions, lol.Posted by 13thI know you said you didn't want to go into it...but you have piqued my curiosity as ro why not the fixed ones lolPosted by flowingwater
Aquamermaid - Aqua married to Scorpio man
Lisabethur - Aqua married to Scorpio man
Tachi - Scorpio married to Taurus man
Sultrykitty - Leo married to Aqua man
Kalin - Scorpio dating Leo man
Scorpio4242 - Scorpio dating Leo man
Shall I keep going?
+
I couldnt imagine being married to one (leo and aqua) I would never want to go home lol ....Maybe its something in my chart that wants NOTHING to do with either sign I guess....fawk the fixed sign, add Gemini and Virgo too....holy sheeete the virgo would make me shoot myself with all the questions, a gem? forget abt it......All fawkin girls give me a headache but I could deal with the rest,,,Not these 4
thats part of it...lol The leo chicks I know needed constant attention and constant affection verbally, im like holy sheete I cant do this lol maybe its my bull moon but I cant...and the ones I know can be very superficial....I dont do superficial.....BUT I do get along with Leos very well...theyre all so nice and friendly and love a good joke..click to expand


Posted by christinelovessnickersI have found Aries and cancer both willing to make a ton of changes. Cardinal signs are more willing to operate outside their comfort zone.Posted by incandescentcancerI will give you stubborn, inflexible sometimes (like when I feel really strongly about something or have tried something already and know that it isn't right). I love new experiences and learning new things, but sometimes getting past the comfort zone can be an issue (I think for anyone).
Fixed signs largely come across as stubborn and inflexible. They actually don't want to try anything new from my experience.
This is why I couldn't understand how a Cardinal sign like Cancer could work with a fixed sign like Scorpio.click to expand

Posted by elllesqueI will give you this, Mars is very important. A weak mars can screw up everything but I don't agree that a strong is unimportant. When I say a strong sign I don't mean the sign but house, degrees and conjunctions.
I think 'fixed' is much more potent when you look at the personal planets outside of sun sign.
moon, merc, venus and mars.......these actually are 'actions'. sun seems less important when I think of all the other energies involved.


Posted by Sn1p3r187Maybe it is a scorp thing lol..Posted by christinelovessnickersPosted by Sn1p3r187I am leo, but am really drawn to virgos. Although I have realized that I briefly dated two scorpios in the past. Like a scorp now and the last virgo I dated had some scorp in his chart...the only one I Remer for sure is venus, but I think there were a few more placements
I can't say much on this. Maybe it's just Scorpios that love other fixed signs. I can't say this for other ones since I've seen plenty of Taureans with Capricorns and Virgos. And Cancers too but I don't how they manage. I've seen plenty of Leos hook themselves up with a Libra like this one couple I know, plenty of them with an Aries as well. And Aquas? They're just all around until a Scorp scares them into or out of a relationship. lol
ah see. It's a Scorps thing. But theyll never take the Taurean I like. Honestly they better know the Taurus would fly to the Caps yard because we give bomb ass d. Scorpio dude is just jealous. He take my woman and I'll rip his stinger off. Lol 😆 they think they're slick. But Scorps maybe the definition of a true fixed sign. They're pretty stubborn and want emotional security in their relationships so they'd likely find a fixedclick to expand
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Ask yourself how many Scorpio men or Scorpio women list ease and the absence of conflict as number one lusts in a relationship?
Not many.
Scorpios like to entangle themselves in passionate, high-challenge and high-risk encounters; and it’s so spectacularly easy to convert tension and anger into dangerous, tempestuous passion.
Does anything scream passion and struggle more than a sun sign square? (OK, Venus – Mars squares or Pluto squares might, but that’s a fixation for another day).
This is where Scorpio’s primal draw to other fixed zodiac signs comes in. It may seem deranged and self-punishing, but Scorpios are often drawn to signs that form squares (90 degree angles) or an opposition (180 degrees) to their suns: Aquarius, Leo, and Taurus.
These three signs, particularly the first two are like Kryptonite to Scorpio — especially Scorpio women who often dominate in their relationships unless they are in a match with another fixed sign. Scorpios like to be the boss, but will have a hard time bossing Leos and Aquarius people around. That reality is part of the attraction.
Contrary to compatibility engines, fixed zodiac signs often do best and feel most alive with other fixed zodiac signs or people with lots of fixed energy: strength respects strength, power respects power, stubbornness respects stubbornness. Since weak, wishy-washy people are an irritant to fixed signs, Scorpio, Aquarius, Leo and Taurus love each other’s independence and bravado. Neither Leo, Taurus nor Aquarius is going to be Scorpio’s pathetic puppet or an overzealous, mindless follower. Scorpio may try to fit a fixed sign into that role, but will fail — and love it.
Since Scorpios feel alive when relationships have a little opposition and struggle, they might find themselves locked in a synastry or composite chart with lots of squares and opposition. Scorpios like finding harmony where it isn’t obvious. They like forcing harmony to exist amidst static.
While these relationships may be addictive and unforgettable, they can often fizzle from the weight of prolonged tension, leaving the Scorpio’s heart imprinted with pain.
Overtime, the other fixed zodiac signs may awaken to the reality that they aren’t quite as intoxicated by clashing as Scorpios are. An Aquarius loves being shocked by Scorpio but really hates conflict and may grow weary. A Leo prefers loving to warring and Taurus people don’t have time for drama.
But when it works, it’s powerful — like a shot of adrenaline (or heroin) to the soul.
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