@Tourmaline
7 Years
Will a Scorpio male start pursuing you after you are done pursuing them hard?
What to do?
Don't pursue men.
By not pursuing men you will know if they are interested enough because if they ARE interested enough in you then they will pursue you. This means you will know they are interested in you and you will not be asking yourself questions such as these.
What to do?
Don't pursue men.
By not pursuing men you will know if they are interested enough because if they ARE interested enough in you then they will pursue you. This means you will know they are interested in you and you will not be asking yourself questions such as these.
"Don't pursue men"
Yeah because the initiation is always for the man. Stop this stupid fucking thinking - women can take initiative just as much as men and honestly it is a relief when they do.
As for OP - stop making people a priority when you're only one of their options. That being said, you should just tell him if you like him and stop all the guessing games. Let him know that you're feeling him and if he ain't with it then he can miss it and be on your way.
Lastly - your Venus, Mars, Mercury are what make you behave the way you do in love. NOT your Sun, NOT your Moon.
Venus = How you'll express love
Mars = What triggers your passion
Mercury = How might you choose to communicate it
What to do?
Don't pursue men.
By not pursuing men you will know if they are interested enough because if they ARE interested enough in you then they will pursue you. This means you will know they are interested in you and you will not be asking yourself questions such as these.
"Don't pursue men"
Yeah because the initiation is always for the man. Stop this stupid fucking thinking - women can take initiative just as much as men and honestly it is a relief when they do.
As for OP - stop making people a priority when you're only one of their options. That being said, you should just tell him if you like him and stop all the guessing games. Let him know that you're feeling him and if he ain't with it then he can miss it and be on your way.
Lastly - your Venus, Mars, Mercury are what make you behave the way you do in love. NOT your Sun, NOT your Moon.
Venus = How you'll express love
Mars = What triggers your passion
Mercury = How might you choose to communicate it
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Thank you for your input to my post and your comment about 'stupid fucking thinking'.
There's pursuing - which is what I'm referring to.
Then there's initiating - which is what you're referring to.
They are two rather different things.
What to do?
Don't pursue men.
By not pursuing men you will know if they are interested enough because if they ARE interested enough in you then they will pursue you. This means you will know they are interested in you and you will not be asking yourself questions such as these.
"Don't pursue men"
Yeah because the initiation is always for the man. Stop this stupid fucking thinking - women can take initiative just as much as men and honestly it is a relief when they do.
As for OP - stop making people a priority when you're only one of their options. That being said, you should just tell him if you like him and stop all the guessing games. Let him know that you're feeling him and if he ain't with it then he can miss it and be on your way.
Lastly - your Venus, Mars, Mercury are what make you behave the way you do in love. NOT your Sun, NOT your Moon.
Venus = How you'll express love
Mars = What triggers your passion
Mercury = How might you choose to communicate it
Thank you for your input to my post and your comment about 'stupid fucking thinking'.
There's pursuing - which is what I'm referring to.
Then there's initiating - which is what you're referring to.
They are two rather different things.
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Pursuing can be a several different ways. Aggressive pursuing isn’t a good way...at least I can’t think of a Scorpio or any sign who wants to be suffocated by loving out of mind woman...
Pursuing by texting good morning or how was your day once a day is a nice way of showing interest.
Pursuing by asking him out more than once or being in his face more than once in a while is annoying.
And worse is ‘he will be mine if it kills us both...’ and we have TONS of examples here. Almost daily.
So...not receiving reply to nice good morning text is an immediate indication that he is not into you.
You have to stop! Specially if It’s Scorpio man who gets your drift immediately and if he is interested - he is going to make it known to you.
I am curious about title - how hard had you pursued him exactly?
Hello,
He was interested in the beginning but my intensity(moon in aries and libra-scorpio cusp sun placings) makes me want everything fast, now, I have no patience and I feel life is too shot to not have things quick, like magic, so he is a November scorpio and he seems very deep, mysterious and smart but now he sees I am extremely interested and he is playing important, he is not treating me as he used too, he has airs of superiority it seems, not sure I just want some advice on what to do. ty!
what are his placements?
he is not treating u the same way?
thats not a good sign.
but not always bad. Some men just get frustrated and tired of the bullshit...
and then later they can't help themsevles and still come back.
this guy sounds like he has a strong cardinal chart. lol (or mutable)
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Hello,
He was interested in the beginning but my intensity(moon in aries and libra-scorpio cusp sun placings) makes me want everything fast, now, I have no patience and I feel life is too shot to not have things quick, like magic, so he is a November scorpio and he seems very deep, mysterious and smart but now he sees I am extremely interested and he is playing important, he is not treating me as he used too, he has airs of superiority it seems, not sure I just want some advice on what to do. ty!