Will Scorpio Wait?

He was my partner in crime in college. For four years were became very close, he and I share some of our very favorite memories from that time together, just he and I. Over the years since graduation, I've seen him a couple of times, and where once was a beautiful friendship, sparks have started between us. I have committed to moving to where he is, not completely because of him but it certainly has swayed my decision.

He keeps asking me when I might move...and it won't be for awhile. I have no money and am working very hard to save up enough to get out there -- I currently live very far away.

He is a Scorpio and I am a libra. he called me "kindred." I think I am in love with him...do think he might wait for me or is 6 months too long?

also, I know he has a Cancer moon. I am Taurus moon.

All I have to say is please don't put all your eggs in one basket. I know you said he's not the only reason for the move, but he sounds like a majority of it. What if it all goes to hell?

Who knows if he may wait?? I wouldn't count on anything. I mean it's not like you guys are currently long-distance dating, right?

actually, he isn't the majority of the reason. I decided to move to the same city he lives in unaware that he lived there. It was over a phone conversation when I was telling him about it, that he said he was really excited for it to happen.

Actually, he sounded really really excited. I knew he would be MUCH closer if I moved to this place, it was in the back of my mind, and a huge perk, but not at all the reason I'm moving there.


I'm going for school, family, then friends.

I am in a similar situation but with a Leo...I think what will be will be and also to live your life accordingly..

Give it your very best shot, if you both think this is real.

Finish what you have to do, but talk to him so he understands....6 months is nothing on a lifetime, if that is what this is...

You have nothing to lose but everything to gain is the way I look at it...sometimes the price we pay for finding true happiness and love can lead to heartache... but giving up before we know would be stupid...

Are you prepared to give up without trying— Communication is the key...keep it strong!

libra -- he would wait for you. As sweetheart also stated, 6 months is nothing. I definitely would wait for my Leo if I knew he has in mind of getting back with me. Do keep your communication open and strong. We need assurance that you are still hanging in there...

Yes Scorpios will wait for the One. 6 months is cake. I do however think you should probably let him know how you feel (at least hint) so that way he knows TO wait. Not that he'd be a dog and go find someone but because he's not a mind reader and Scorps can be insecure at times so he might think he should move on.
Even just mentioning something along the lines of "I can't wait to get there so we can hang out more" or "I'm so excited that I'll know someone to be able to show me around and spend time with". Nothing too dramatic ... just hints.

Scorps will follow what they desire even if the road to reach their desire isn't a smooth one. Catering to a Scorp will quickly turn you into a doormat.

There is a difference between catering to someone and doing something for someone you care about. If he likes you and you like him I see no reason for you to "pull away". That's where game playing starts and that's not needed.

I have a hard time reading your post, fufu. I wished you would write in sentences if you want your stuff read ...

My scorpio did wait,. we did the LD for about 6 months it was Not easy and we did break-up for about a week before he left because he didn't know what he would be facing when leaving me. I think he was fearful of somethings, but we worked hard at making it work, he called me every morning and night and when he got the chance during work he texted me. Now idk if it's becasue he's an older scorpio or what but if they really want to be with you they will wait. Good Luck!

Thank you all! I was hoping I'd read postive things, here. My trouble is we haven't had any amount of time together to digest what is happening, to discuss how we feel. It feels big and wonderful to me, and the air between feels heady and full of emotion, but of course, that's not communication. It's hard to have that sort of conversation over the phone, though...

I've seen him only twice in the last three years, and both times it was very brief, for only a day or two at a time. But we stay in touch with email and the occasional phone call. I have been really hesitant to talk to him about how I feel, because...

1. I am a libra! And we get ourselves so worked up about guys, SO fast and most times, completely unwarrented. This is something I know about myself and really really am fighting to not fantasize a life with him, but focus on the REALITY of him...tough for me, but easy, because it's him...
2. Our friendship is very valuable to me, and I know it is to him also. It's a strange feeling to be so protective of that aspect that it's almost paralyzing to do anything about the growing physical and emotional aspect of our relationship. He really is one of my greatest friends.
3. He's given me enough indication that he wants me to move there, that he is excited about it. That he really cares for me as a friend and lover. I don't need more of a reason to see if there is something important here, there is, and I'm going to find out what...

I just worry that it will take too long, or he won't realize how impatient I am to get going. I don't want his feelings to be hurt that I can't drop it all and just move right now. I've explained it all to him, just a nagging feeling I can't shake...

Sounds like he will wait and be patient though...

Yeah we do that if you have made an impression, but Ginger hits it on the head, don't play and don't let him think he needs to move on.

1. I am a libra! And we get ourselves so worked up about guys, SO fast and most times, completely unwarrented. This is something I know about myself and really really am fighting to not fantasize a life with him, but focus on the REALITY of him...tough for me, but easy, because it's him...

Yes muse...get the facts first before getting carried away in your head, so easily done with us reading into their suggestions or statements. Ask blunt questions and dont be afraid of the answers. I found that I had to do exactly that and now things are much more clearer on his/our intentions...but before that I was second guessing what he was saying and reading more or sometimes less into it! As you are already in a good friendship with him you can trust that he will be more open to telling you...that comes because there already is an element of trust/honor.


2. Our friendship is very valuable to me, and I know it is to him also. It's a strange feeling to be so protective of that aspect that it's almost paralyzing to do anything about the growing physical and emotional aspect of our relationship. He really is one of my greatest friends.

I felt exactly that!!! ^^^^^ still do in some ways, too scared to cross the line of no return, but truth of the matter is...we already have...in our minds and what has been expressed. (I wont see him til Feb & it's been 14 yrs since i have...) I have experienced some insecurities since we reconnected 8 months ago...and even when I felt that maybe he had someone else or maybe he wasnt as genuine as I had thought and I went through personal anguish...at the end, I came back to...if he is happy then I'll be happy for him. I couldnt think badly of him and I think it's because the friendship is too deep to be ruined...But you will have to come to this conclusion yourself, and I'm sure you will;


3. He's given me enough indication that he wants me to move there, that he is excited about it. That he really cares for me as a friend and lover. I don't need more of a reason to see if there is something important here, there is, and I'm going to find out what...

Good for you, better to have loved and lost than not at all!!!! Put down your guard and forget what other men may have done and take a chance on love...who better to trust this to than a best friend?

Situations like this have the most amazing feel about them...it feels soo right... like fate. But be careful because one thing I have found and that is my friends/family the few that I have told...dont understand and can be quite negative... keep it to yourself. I have a friend here that I chat to for an honest opinion.