would you date another scorpio after?

Curious?

It seems as though after reading all the posts, what everyone has gone through with their experiences in dating their 1st or even 2nd scorpio. Would you take another chance in dating another Scorpio if you get over the experience with one whom you never was about to understand? or even get close too!(is that an under statement?) Would you chance your feelings for another round with another? Since it seems that it can take months or even years to understand them before your heart is riped out? will you be able to sustain another round with their unpredicable behavior when it comes to their feelings? It appears to be the same scenerio as far as their characterists with all the drama. Trust is the major issue with them? will you be able to stand the test of time and not feel as though you have wasted your time AGAIN?

No way...Several Scorpios are interested in me right now....and not a chance. Will not date another one as long as I live

Ah?..

If you think.. having relationship is a waste of time.. you better never starting one?.!

Nope, never been treated so good or so bad by anyone. The emotional roller coaster is too much for me.

libra

Hey, softy and libralady,

I concur wholeheartedly. I'm just in the infatuation phase and it's ALREADY insane. These men definitely like to put you through a gazillion changes, and from what I've heard/am reading, it doesn't end if the relationship makes it past dating. Seems like one has to deal with this nutso Scorpio male issues during marriage, too, until death or divorce to you part. No way, Jose. :-)

all the scorpios I was with, i never had a problem with, except for their moods and constantly anger management problems whenever i did something wrong, but they just lied so much! I knew that they had other girls on the side and I wouldn't have cared if he just told me, but everytime i asked them, they'd just lie out front, or try to hide it, which was just a real turn off for me.

but would i ever date another one? Of course I would, just as long as he could finally be HONEST with me, and have an HONEST conversation, and just have everything to be HONEST! which of course doesn't apply to all scorpios.

about them not being honest i mean.

The guy I dated before had a girlfriend before me and him started talking and I had "heard" they broke up because she found out that he had three other women in other areas...I asked him was this true ad he said no...I was not in a committed realtionship so I didn't harp on it because he was not techically my man....Well now I think he is back with the same girl he cheated on......and the same girl he told me that he was no longer talking to....but yeah..whatever...he was a liar....and he probably won't be faithful to her this time around either....

LOL...

By the way Dorothy Gail....Haven't u heard? Gaziilion isn't a word....check over on the Cancer Board under "Cancer & Pisces".

I suspect some "backstabb" actions from two Scorpios that I met. I have no proof for such actions, but when I find one there will be no mercy. I know Scorpios may be disloyal, but for me it is not forgivable.

Btw, Scorpios are leading? I dont know how about you, but both those Scorpion are being lead by me most of the time.

softy:

Message posted by: branh0913 on 6/17/2005 2:14:51 PM
Thanks, its quite easy to remember. It just my DXP screen name followed by a "@yahoo.com". And if you can't remember that, it's posted in my profile. Once you get passed the details of me, no one cares about. Oh, and by the way, Gazillion isn't a number . But you can load me one million if you have some spare change just laying around.

LOLOLOLOLOL!!!!!!!!!!

I wouldn't ever ever ever date a scorpio again. Granted they can satisfy in the bedroom, but at what cost... Arguementative, always have to be right, will flip over every little thing, yikes! 😛

Hey! Thanks for the responses. Why are we giving Scorpio all the power. To me it appears that we all do agree that scorpio males are all the same. I find that scorpio woman are very different from the male. The women are scarety cats(In a good way). They are afraid of everything. They are very cautious as well but they really don't mean to hurt others. I have several scorpio women friends. One I am really close to because we have build trust. I will fight anyone for her. She is the sweetest person I know. It just amazes me that all a scorpio male is capable of is testing the will power of women whether the relationship is going well or whether it not turning towards their advantage. Would'nt you say that it appears that they are scarety cats as well if you look at it this way? My problem is that, I don't understand the other women whom they seem to have the affairs with. what planet are they from? How do they seem to be able to get any time with them and why the woman, who seems to be emotionally attached reaps all the hell? Is the scorpio male that good that he has the control to string along several women at the same time and not feel a thing? Yet is that each women that involves her self is feeling all the same as the rest? stressed the freak out? I thought that they feel everything including other peoples emotional griefs? Aren't they the one's who want to control by coming to your rescue. Well for me! I'll date another Scorpio in a heart beat. Why? because I know my faults and sometimes I am not the easy to get along with especially since I do have a short fuse. I look at it from bothe sides. Accepting someone faults and respecting their good faults is a reason to look at the whole individual on a whole. None of us are perfect agree?

callmemsram "Is the scorpio male that good that he has the control to string along several women at the same time and not feel a thing?"

I agree and I also wonder if this is true. I myself am still trying to find out if I am one of the lucky women that fell on one of these strings. If I am I will be gone in a second. If I discover its just the "way he is" then I will accept him the way he is and get over it. So I agree with you.

I don't think anyone here was expressing that they expect Scorpio males to be perfect. What the women in this thread seem to expect is respect, consideration, and to not be messed around on. I hardly think that is asking for "perfection". It's no more than would be expected in any relationship with any sign.

Ladies, I would have to agree with brah0913 on this one. He has made a strong point. Why not date another Scorpio because technically, of his strong exterior. They are just people such as our selfs. Some of us will not admit our own faults, and will fight when we feel that we are right about everything and then point the finger. That's all it is. I agree that some people think that they are more than they are. I respect the fact that they will go through all lengths before they give their hearts to someone. I don't agree on their approach, but then again, if your feelings are that strong for them, handle it. No one wants to feel as though they have to give up so much in order to be with the one whom they have choosen(Scorpio male) for their affections. They have difficulties with their relationships because they want to be sure if you are sure that the realationship is worth all the trouble.(so they bring trouble at the most unusally times) I have had my experience with a Scorpio. For me the experience has taught me alot about myself. I would never let anyone control my existance, but yet I was fighting him with all that he would dish out and forgot that if it love that I have for him, what point was I really trying to prove? He knew my strengths and weakness but yet I fought the fight and lost the battle. Why? He is know closer to me then yesterday and the saga still continues(He's around). If I truly love him, then thats what I need to be doing, instead of falling into his traps. Stop taking everything he says personally. Hell he hasn't destored my life nor has he made changes in my everyday life where I can't live. I want to be able to see, whether he is worthly of my love and sort him out a jerk or the love of my life. Then I will know whether we are going to be in for sometime or a life time. Not being able to have your way with them according to how you think the relationship should be, the scorpio male will throw a monkey rench in the relationship to see if its fact or fiction. WE all are guilty of wanting a happy go lucky relationship, where everything about the realationship matches up to our expectations. We either marry or become live in partners, then all hell brakes lose. Why? Because we all dream, but may not be able to handle the reality of all. EVERYONE has their faults. If you thought it was love or was it just because, the Scorpio male, is just not going to take that chance even if he has strong feelings for ya. Sorry guys!! I am having a changing experience.....

SeaSiren its all good. I am glad you reconized the experience in dealing with a Scorpio male. It sooo true that the women are totally different but yet the same in some aspects. They are just a little more easier to get along with because they do desire to be loved and respected for their best qualities verses their negative. Like I mentioned, my experience has left no desire for my Scorpio to release his true feelings for me if he really wanted to. I realized that he though he has given me hell emotionally, I acted the same way towards him. You want to talk about verbal wars, we had them all and they where not pretty. I have taken in count even though he put me out there on the battle ground with him, but I went right for his juggler vain as well. What makes me so different than him when he tried to drag me through the dirt. Should I have said, well you are not worthly of my time because you started it first. Sometimes we have to take account of our own nasty ways in order to judge others in terms as being all the uncolorful names in the book. He too can have in his mind as well, that he would never get involved with another Aries Female all because of just little old me. That would be a bummer. We are great loyal friends with big hearts only if you let us. I know he is harmless. Why? all it been is an all out war on who is stronger emotionally. The better relationships per say, have said and done things even worst. And let them tell it, they claim to have worked out their difference. For me and my Scorpio, that's what I want more than anything. To reconize, calling a person a out of their names or labeling their charactor does not justify those themselves who can't clean up their own pup! I will come clean with him even if he can't stand to get in these waters with me. Truthfully, there are no sharks in my water..

Have you guys seen these guys birth records,ids,anything to know they are in fact scorpios?Scorpios=sign of death and sexuality,I think even revalution was one of the desciptions of the signs gift.Strong,mysterious...............James Bond type fairy tale is the idea that comes to mind.Do you think it is possible that this someone said thier a scorpio to get in your pants or do you actually know they are?

>Have you guys seen these guys birth records,ids,anything to know they are in fact >scorpios?

lol! Yeah, I've seen the id's. Plus everyone else was giving them gifts on the same day, so it appears that maybe they actually DIDN'T lie about their birthdays. Go figure! =)

Sorry Tiamat, I have been around a while. There is not a person out there who can pretend to be a Scorpio. The have distintive characteristic about themselve. If there was someone out there trying to mimic a Scorpio male and you get caught out there. Well you don't know what they say" you got played". It's not about allowing anyone to sucker you out of your cookies. There are plenty of men out their that got skills. Women too as well. Being charming towards the weak one, is not a failure. I hope you got my point.....

Yeah but I have seen it done,of course never worked on me.The most these guys would get is a yeah, okay and a strange look because it'd be june or something that they advertise that it's thier b-day.But then a hot girl wanders in they try to play cool and sauvey and the sign question then im a scorpio from them.

!! I had almost forgotten I was in the SCORPIO board with all the bashing! In their own home... you guys are just despicable!
So how 'bout we proceed to the taurus board for some mo' 😉 lol jk

Dear friends, sorry to say that i disagree with you. I have seen scorpio males to be the most warm and kind hearted with a stability and reliability that is astounding. Please remember that scorpio is capable of channelising their intense sexuality to their work. But I do agree that they play so many mind games. But if you are open and honest with them..that would make them feel at ease with you. Moreover you should be intense and passionate enough to match them at all levels, for it is the intense, deep felt, all consuming passions (sexual and otherwise) that is needed here. Nothing halfway or in half !!!!

Dear friends, sorry to say that i disagree with you. I have seen scorpio males to be the most warm and kind hearted with a stability and reliability that is astounding. Please remember that scorpio is capable of channelising their intense sexuality to their work. But I do agree that they play so many mind games. But if you are open and honest with them..that would make them feel at ease with you. Moreover you should be intense and passionate enough to match them at all levels, for it is the intense, deep felt, all consuming passions (sexual and otherwise) that is needed here. Nothing halfway or in half !!!!

Nah, all the scorps I know are just friends,theres only one chick who kinda gets on my nerves whos a scorp but thats the extent of it-it gets annoying when she gets crazy about getting hurt when technically she sets herself up for that to happen(being too passionate and gets married too fast).Im like people of other signs when she gets pissed at husbands,get quiet,"slip under her radar" of lashing out and avoid her until she calms down lol.

Im a female scorp too and shes too much for me to deal with lol.I think the only difference between me and other signs is its obvious to me shes in pain and reacting to it that way so don't hold it against her.

Well blow me down....I never knew that this much went on on this site...I am a scorpio and I am 44 years old, never been married....don't plan on being married until I meet the man that is worthy of my love...There are 2 kinds of scorpio's the religious ones and the ones that like to party...I am the party type scorpio...I have dated mainly Pisces, virgo's, mostly virgo, a few aquarious, probably one...and know I am dating a cappy....heres the deal...we are very emotional tense passionate, loyal loving, sex creaters yes we are intense in what we do and we may take it to its highest or lowest level...we are not bad people what makes us bad is that we hold a lot in we are like boilinig valcanoes waiting to explode, we lay our cards on the table and we be honest about it..Know if you don't listen think it's a joke and play with our emotions and feelings, we will take a lot of it but we we can't take no more, there is the emotional outburstes, so men if you are dating a scorpio please listen to what she is saying we do not joke about what will piss us off..and we will let you know that we have expressed this already....we only sting when you have hurt us to the utmost that is our way of vindictive...because we thirive on respect, loyalaty and love and we expect the same from people, I guess you can call us a little niaiive (how ever you spell it) and all people should be treated nicely, because we treat people nicely, and we look at people who have treated us bad...like damn, I gave him everthing he wanted, I was loyal I was honest..and this is what I get....we are ready to stink....because you have made us look like a fool...we believe you trusted you....etc....

"Hey Chica, why are you a hater of scorps— I never dated a taurus, I liked them as friends though..."

No I don't hate Scorps... lol Yeah scorp and taurus make good friends... relationships... ? ehhh not so much ha ha