Should I send a closure text to Taurus

So I’m not sure how many of you saw my last thread about the Taurus who couldn’t preform when we were about to have sex. Well, he apologized to me the next day over text expressing his embarrassment, I obviously told him it’s all good and that I still really like him but I could tell he was still being very distant. So I left him alone for a couple days and then when I shot him a text asking how he is he ignored me, so I shot him another one after 2 more days saying I hope he isn’t too sad his football team lost and that he has a good day and he ignored THAT.... it’s been about a week since I last tried to reach him (since the second text he ignored) and I was thinking if it would be a good idea to send him another text next week or so.... ———?

basically saying.. I won’t msg him anymore but that I’m sorry he feels things have to end and that if he’s going through his own thing.. I hope he’s all good and if he ever wants to talk he could always msg me!

I’m not EXPECTING a response back because he ignored my last two causal texts but I feel like empty here without actually getting that closure piece in.. But I remember some of you saying most Taurus’ don’t like to deal with emotion.. so that’s why I am asking if I should send it or just consider it done and let him deal with his own issues. My friend is convinced that if I send it he’ll answer because then he will know I won’t be messaging him again but I swear I don’t want to send it for a response more for MY peace of mind lol preparing myself to put him behind me

This is closure for you, right?

Do what you need to do for closure, if you are fine with NOT getting a response. If you are hoping for a response then it won't be closure.

He already knows that you weren't bothered by it and still chose not to answer you.

"Most Taurus don't like to deal with emotion"

Was there emotions actually there? I think that may have to do with being inside of a relationship or being further along in the dating process.

Send your text if it makes you feel better, who cares about him. He is already handling himself. It may look like a last attempt at desperation for you, on his side of things, which may satisfy him in his decision to not answer your previous texts- So in the end it will satisfy you, since you weren't expecting anything back.

don't do it

write him a letter and then burn it

No.

I think you need to try look at it from his perspective. The man couldn’t perform and at a young age, that hurts the ego and they usually blame the girl...somethings wrong with her.

The initial texts talking about the fact that it hurt him probably made him go into defence mode. Taurus do this when they’re essentially convincing themselves they got insulted.

I wouldn’t worry about sending him a text tho. At the end of the day...the guy couldn’t perform and he’s acting immature about it. Clearly, he doesn’t value your place in his life or he’d be in your bed trying to fuk his way up your list 📝

Posted by Sarayoung7777

But I remember some of you saying most Taurus’ don’t like to deal with emotion..

please don't base any of your actions on nonsense like this, especially if its coming from butthurt scorpios....

I don't see anything wrong with sending him a message like the one you described though, and you've been extremely kind/understanding around what has got to be a really embarrassing circumstance, so I commend you....I was surprised to hear you'd even be interested after that. But maybe it is a persistent issue for him and the shame runs deeper than you can imagine. I would think that if it was an anomaly, he'd want to redeem himself quickly to patch up his ego, but its all speculation at this point....send him the message, give him time/space, maybe he'll reach back out eventually....

Posted by Metatron

Posted by Sarayoung7777

But I remember some of you saying most Taurus’ don’t like to deal with emotion..

please don't base any of your actions on nonsense like this, especially if its coming from butthurt scorpios....

I don't see anything wrong with sending him a message like the one you described though, and you've been extremely kind/understanding around what has got to be a really embarrassing circumstance, so I commend you....I was surprised to hear you'd even be interested after that. But maybe it is a persistent issue for him and the shame runs deeper than you can imagine. I would think that if it was an anomaly, he'd want to redeem himself quickly to patch up his ego, but its all speculation at this point....send him the message, give him time/space, maybe he'll reach back out eventually....

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Thanks for being so understanding and your advice! Who knows, he could be ignoring me for a number of other reasons - even just lack of interest. I’m just assuming It’s because of that night... because he began to ignore me 2 days after it happened. He only spoke to me the next day but I think he just really wanted to apologize about it.. but then when he began to over think about it started to feel like he couldn’t talk to me anymore.

Either way. We shall see. I do plan on sending the message next week, thank you again!

Just send it. Be it in the most kind way, no attacking him ect... just write it in a heartfelt way. Just because he is a man and a Bull, doesnt mean they dont do emotions. I'm pretty sure he feels deeper about what happened and has some embarrassment about it. It can happen to the best of them. Just write in a kind manner, he'll appreciate it. Men sometimes dont know how to respond and rather stay silent. Most times it has nothing to do with you tho. Send it and then give it time.

I've got my closure text already written up, waiting for the right moment to send. My Bull keeps coming back, expressed his fears. So I'm not sending it yet but when he starts acting up again, it'll go out the door for sure.

If you do this, you’ll probably feel stupid afterwards. I dated a Taurus seriously and after the relationship ship it was the same shit. If they don’t want to talk, they aren’t going to. Throwing out more messages is just like sending messages into space for the aliens. He doesn’t need them, because he’s the one hurting YOU. You don’t need them, because he’ll just ignore you more and it will bring up more questions in your mind.

That said, it’s perfectly normal for women to want to communicate even when it hurts them. It’s normal to want closure. As for me, I can’t usually help myself... I sent a closure message... or or two or three. But this guy is probably a jerk and you’re not going to get closure no matter what you do. I didn’t get real “closure” about my Taurus ex for over TWO years. He just wouldn’t discuss my emotions about our ending. He left me in the fog because he hasn’t sorted through his own emotions enough to deal with mine. Once he did communicate (I forced him!!) two years later, I was able to put him behind me.

Hate you, Taurus 😂

I'm sure he's full of thoughts and emotions.

He went from being your friend to being the friend that screwed up his chance to have sex with you. Maybe you don't need closure. Maybe you are still friends once things relax.