Taurus the avoiding Lover

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Sadboi on Tuesday, October 8, 2019 and has 18 replies.

Are Taurus the Avoidant Lover

Taurus individuals may avoid love due to fear of stress or emotional vulnerability. They value stability and may withdraw to protect themselves from potential hurt. Understanding their need for security helps in building trusting relationships with Taurus partners.

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@Sadboi
7 Years

Hey ..is Taurus..Male or Female

..the avoding Type?? ..

Are you afraid of Love ...or of the Stress ..that IT Brings you ?? ...🤔..IT Looks Like you to lazy for IT (:

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@Sadboi
7 Years

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Let me ask you a hypothetical question. If the Taurus you're interested in didn't like you and didn't want to be with you at all, how would she behave differently than she behaves now?

I saw her Last Week ...but i Just cant ..Tell whats in her head .....so If you dont want or cant Help ...why are you Here ?

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Posted by Sadboi

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Let me ask you a hypothetical question. If the Taurus you're interested in didn't like you and didn't want to be with you at all, how would she behave differently than she behaves now?

I saw her Last Week ...but i Just cant ..Tell whats in her head .....so If you dont want or cant Help ...why are you Here ?

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We LoVe Makin’ Fun OF dUmBAsses!!!

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@Gemitati
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Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by Sadboi

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Let me ask you a hypothetical question. If the Taurus you're interested in didn't like you and didn't want to be with you at all, how would she behave differently than she behaves now?

I saw her Last Week ...but i Just cant ..Tell whats in her head .....so If you dont want or cant Help ...why are you Here ?

Believe it or not, I am trying to help. If it's a lost cause, I hope you'll move on so you can find someone who likes you back.

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ThaTs How yoU HelpIng? 🧟‍♀️

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@Sadboi
7 Years

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by Sadboi

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Let me ask you a hypothetical question. If the Taurus you're interested in didn't like you and didn't want to be with you at all, how would she behave differently than she behaves now?

I saw her Last Week ...but i Just cant ..Tell whats in her head .....so If you dont want or cant Help ...why are you Here ?

Believe it or not, I am trying to help. If it's a lost cause, I hope you'll move on so you can find someone who likes you back.

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Its Just..Strange ..i know Something ..is wrong ..but the kiss was Magic ..! ..but after i was talking about relationship ... everything changed ...i Just cant move on .. because she told me..she was thinking i was losing..intresst in her .....i Just cant belive that everything she told me ...is Not the truth ...

That would mean ..shes a psychophat ! ..now U can understand ...maybe

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@Sadboi
7 Years

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Sadboi

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Let me ask you a hypothetical question. If the Taurus you're interested in didn't like you and didn't want to be with you at all, how would she behave differently than she behaves now?

I saw her Last Week ...but i Just cant ..Tell whats in her head .....so If you dont want or cant Help ...why are you Here ?

We LoVe Makin’ Fun OF dUmBAsses!!!

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God Bless you !

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@Sadboi
7 Years

Posted by Araujo97

Yes, i am still on a withdrawal period of any form of relationship and intimacy, for indeterminate period, until i find someone with actual compatibility, friendship and mutual understanding

Thanks for your answer ...

You Not Dating ..anyone i mean even If you find .. someone U Like ...would you have avoding behavior ?🤔

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@Sadboi
7 Years

Posted by Sadboi

Posted by Araujo97

Yes, i am still on a withdrawal period of any form of relationship and intimacy, for indeterminate period, until i find someone with actual compatibility, friendship and mutual understanding

Thanks for your answer ...

You Not Dating ..anyone? i mean even If you find .. someone U Like ...would you have avoding behavior ?🤔

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@Sadboi
7 Years

Posted by Araujo97

Posted by Sadboi

Posted by Araujo97

Yes, i am still on a withdrawal period of any form of relationship and intimacy, for indeterminate period, until i find someone with actual compatibility, friendship and mutual understanding

Thanks for your answer ...

You Not Dating ..anyone i mean even If you find .. someone U Like ...would you have avoding behavior ?🤔

Lets just add that taurus males and females are very distinct species tho

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Would you give mixt Signals ...If you Not Sure about ...a Girl ? ...i mean If you Like someone ..what you give her a Feeling ..that you maybe ..Not that intresstet ..in her ...Just because you Not Sure ...about your Feelings ?or what you want from her...or is it a slow fade away ?

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@Sadboi
7 Years

Posted by Araujo97

Posted by Sadboi

Posted by Araujo97

Posted by Sadboi

Posted by Araujo97

Yes, i am still on a withdrawal period of any form of relationship and intimacy, for indeterminate period, until i find someone with actual compatibility, friendship and mutual understanding

Thanks for your answer ...

You Not Dating ..anyone i mean even If you find .. someone U Like ...would you have avoding behavior ?🤔

Lets just add that taurus males and females are very distinct species tho

Would you give mixt Signals ...If you Not Sure about ...a Girl ? ...i mean If you Like someone ..what you give her a Feeling ..that you maybe ..Not that intresstet ..in her ...Just because you Not Sure ...about your Feelings ?or what you want from her...or is it a slow fade away ?

Lmao this is overall women behavior

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(: Lol ..i shouldnt donso Muh Taurus Research ... because i think you Taurus ppl.are from a diffrent Planet ^^

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@Sadboi
7 Years

Posted by Araujo97

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by Araujo97

Posted by Sadboi

Posted by Araujo97

Yes, i am still on a withdrawal period of any form of relationship and intimacy, for indeterminate period, until i find someone with actual compatibility, friendship and mutual understanding

Thanks for your answer ...

You Not Dating ..anyone i mean even If you find .. someone U Like ...would you have avoding behavior ?🤔

Lets just add that taurus males and females are very distinct species tho

Have you seen his previous posts? I think the girl was somewhat interested and changed her mind, and now he won't back off. It worries me.

Pffft, guys who cant move on, need to strengthen their minds and accept rejection

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Ok she was asking for my Number

Showing intresst ! I wasnt in at First ..

She was asking for Dates ...touching me ...making me Gifts ...staring at me ..

All that Taurus ...stuff ..

So i Fall in Love fast ...WE kisst us heavently ...

I was thinking WE are exklusiv ....she told me she Always needs longer ...and she cant give 100% ...

And making me Hope ...now i saw her Last Week ..and she told me

.that she was thinking i lose intresst in her ... because she has so much Stress bla bla

I Love her ...and i Just wont belive ...that she Not telling the truth ...IT would k

Make No Sense ....

But i give myself a ultimatum ! ...

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@Sadboi
7 Years

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by Sadboi

Posted by Araujo97

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by Araujo97

Posted by Sadboi

Posted by Araujo97

Yes, i am still on a withdrawal period of any form of relationship and intimacy, for indeterminate period, until i find someone with actual compatibility, friendship and mutual understanding

Thanks for your answer ...

You Not Dating ..anyone i mean even If you find .. someone U Like ...would you have avoding behavior ?🤔

Lets just add that taurus males and females are very distinct species tho

Have you seen his previous posts? I think the girl was somewhat interested and changed her mind, and now he won't back off. It worries me.

Pffft, guys who cant move on, need to strengthen their minds and accept rejection

Ok she was asking for my Number

Showing intresst ! I wasnt in at First ..

She was asking for Dates ...touching me ...making me Gifts ...staring at me ..

All that Taurus ...stuff ..

So i Fall in Love fast ...WE kisst us heavently ...

I was thinking WE are exklusiv ....she told me she Always needs longer ...and she cant give 100% ...

And making me Hope ...now i saw her Last Week ..and she told me

.that she was thinking i lose intresst in her ... because she has so much Stress bla bla

I Love her ...and i Just wont belive ...that she Not telling the truth ...IT would k

Make No Sense ....

But i give myself a ultimatum ! ...

How long ago was the kiss?

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A few weeks ...

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@Sadboi
7 Years

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by Sadboi

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by Sadboi

Posted by Araujo97

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by Araujo97

Posted by Sadboi

Posted by Araujo97

Yes, i am still on a withdrawal period of any form of relationship and intimacy, for indeterminate period, until i find someone with actual compatibility, friendship and mutual understanding

Thanks for your answer ...

You Not Dating ..anyone i mean even If you find .. someone U Like ...would you have avoding behavior ?🤔

Lets just add that taurus males and females are very distinct species tho

Have you seen his previous posts? I think the girl was somewhat interested and changed her mind, and now he won't back off. It worries me.

Pffft, guys who cant move on, need to strengthen their minds and accept rejection

Ok she was asking for my Number

Showing intresst ! I wasnt in at First ..

She was asking for Dates ...touching me ...making me Gifts ...staring at me ..

All that Taurus ...stuff ..

So i Fall in Love fast ...WE kisst us heavently ...

I was thinking WE are exklusiv ....she told me she Always needs longer ...and she cant give 100% ...

And making me Hope ...now i saw her Last Week ..and she told me

.that she was thinking i lose intresst in her ... because she has so much Stress bla bla

I Love her ...and i Just wont belive ...that she Not telling the truth ...IT would k

Make No Sense ....

But i give myself a ultimatum ! ...

How long ago was the kiss?

A few weeks ...

When was the last time she called you, texted you, or came up to you on her own?

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Lets forget about that Game ! (:

Its Not looking good ..im Not stupid ..

The Point is ..i See Here at Work Sometimes ...

And shes Like Always ...

But the real Thing is ...i could Deal with..a NO

But she gives me a maybe ....and

Confused me with what she saying ! ..If all what she did and say ...was or is Fake ..

Shes a devil ! ...i never saw a person Like her If all is Fake ...thats my Problem ...

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@Sadboi
7 Years

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

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Posted by Araujo97

Posted by Sadboi

Posted by Araujo97

Yes, i am still on a withdrawal period of any form of relationship and intimacy, for indeterminate period, until i find someone with actual compatibility, friendship and mutual understanding

Thanks for your answer ...

You Not Dating ..anyone i mean even If you find .. someone U Like ...would you have avoding behavior ?🤔

Lets just add that taurus males and females are very distinct species tho

Have you seen his previous posts? I think the girl was somewhat interested and changed her mind, and now he won't back off. It worries me.

Pffft, guys who cant move on, need to strengthen their minds and accept rejection

Ok she was asking for my Number

Showing intresst ! I wasnt in at First ..

She was asking for Dates ...touching me ...making me Gifts ...staring at me ..

All that Taurus ...stuff ..

So i Fall in Love fast ...WE kisst us heavently ...

I was thinking WE are exklusiv ....she told me she Always needs longer ...and she cant give 100% ...

And making me Hope ...now i saw her Last Week ..and she told me

.that she was thinking i lose intresst in her ... because she has so much Stress bla bla

I Love her ...and i Just wont belive ...that she Not telling the truth ...IT would k

Make No Sense ....

But i give myself a ultimatum ! ...

How long ago was the kiss?

A few weeks ...

When was the last time she called you, texted you, or came up to you on her own?

Lets forget about that Game ! (:

Its Not looking good ..im Not stupid ..

The Point is ..i See Here at Work Sometimes ...

And shes Like Always ...

But the real Thing is ...i could Deal with..a NO

But she gives me a maybe ....and

Confused me with what she saying ! ..If all what she did and say ...was or is Fake ..

Shes a devil ! ...i never saw a person Like her If all is Fake ...thats my Problem ...

She is NOT a devil or psycho for changing her mind or for trying to be nice to a guy who is harassing her so he doesn't go crazy. You are sounding like a person who can't take no. She might be afraid of you.

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Lol 😆..Trust me shes Not scared of me ...i dont Talk about that stuff with her ! ...

Shes Not scared because she was at my place Last Week ! ..i told her about a small Work ..i got for ..her ...and she ask me to to that .....so we did IT ..now ..If she dont Likes me she must be very cold ...to Just Work with me for the Money !

Anyway ...yes im Not the Person who get ..or Likes to get a No ...BuT ...i really can handel a No !!!! ...she Not giving me a No ...

And shes Not nice ...comon....

Im pretty Sure i was to fast with her ....IT all startet so Well ....and she told me ...she cant give 100% now ...and lets See where it leads ...

Thats a maybe .....and im confused because i did nothing wrong ! ...and If shes smart ..and nice she would Just say No ....

I give myself .. a few Weeks ..more ...i will ask her Out a maybe 2 times again ...and If she dont want ...i will Stop ! ...

And Trust me ...shes Not scared ...i dont even Text her ....or ...i Just Talk to her when i See her at Work ...and shes the Same Person ...almost ...

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@Sadboi
7 Years

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Posted by Araujo97

Yes, i am still on a withdrawal period of any form of relationship and intimacy, for indeterminate period, until i find someone with actual compatibility, friendship and mutual understanding

Thanks for your answer ...

You Not Dating ..anyone i mean even If you find .. someone U Like ...would you have avoding behavior ?🤔

Lets just add that taurus males and females are very distinct species tho

Have you seen his previous posts? I think the girl was somewhat interested and changed her mind, and now he won't back off. It worries me.

Pffft, guys who cant move on, need to strengthen their minds and accept rejection

Ok she was asking for my Number

Showing intresst ! I wasnt in at First ..

She was asking for Dates ...touching me ...making me Gifts ...staring at me ..

All that Taurus ...stuff ..

So i Fall in Love fast ...WE kisst us heavently ...

I was thinking WE are exklusiv ....she told me she Always needs longer ...and she cant give 100% ...

And making me Hope ...now i saw her Last Week ..and she told me

.that she was thinking i lose intresst in her ... because she has so much Stress bla bla

I Love her ...and i Just wont belive ...that she Not telling the truth ...IT would k

Make No Sense ....

But i give myself a ultimatum ! ...

How long ago was the kiss?

A few weeks ...

When was the last time she called you, texted you, or came up to you on her own?

Lets forget about that Game ! (:

Its Not looking good ..im Not stupid ..

The Point is ..i See Here at Work Sometimes ...

And shes Like Always ...

But the real Thing is ...i could Deal with..a NO

But she gives me a maybe ....and

Confused me with what she saying ! ..If all what she did and say ...was or is Fake ..

Shes a devil ! ...i never saw a person Like her If all is Fake ...thats my Problem ...

She is NOT a devil or psycho for changing her mind or for trying to be nice to a guy who is harassing her so he doesn't go crazy. You are sounding like a person who can't take no. She might be afraid of you.

Lol 😆..Trust me shes Not scared of me ...i dont Talk about that stuff with her ! ...

Shes Not scared because she was at my place Last Week ! ..i told her about a small Work ..i got for ..her ...and she ask me to to that .....so we did IT ..now ..If she dont Likes me she must be very cold ...to Just Work with me for the Money !

Anyway ...yes im Not the Person who get ..or Likes to get a No ...BuT ...i really can handel a No !!!! ...she Not giving me a No ...

And shes Not nice ...comon....

Im pretty Sure i was to fast with her ....IT all startet so Well ....and she told me ...she cant give 100% now ...and lets See where it leads ...

Thats a maybe .....and im confused because i did nothing wrong ! ...and If shes smart ..and nice she would Just say No ....

I give myself .. a few Weeks ..more ...i will ask her Out a maybe 2 times again ...and If she dont want ...i will Stop ! ...

And Trust me ...shes Not scared ...i dont even Text her ....or ...i Just Talk to her when i See her at Work ...and shes the Same Person ...almost ...

I'm sorry. I can't deal with your communication style . Good luck.

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Yes sorry ..im stresst Out ..i need sleep ..

But you really helpt me (: ...

The funny Thing is ...deep ..inside of me ...

Im absoluty Sure ...that she ..dont want me ....

My Point is really ...i want a fair answer .....

In .y eyse WE Had a great ..time and a good conection ! ...and IT would be ..the respect ..i deserv ...so anyway thank you ...

And RIP to me

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Yes, i am still on a withdrawal period of any form of relationship and intimacy, for indeterminate period, until i find someone with actual compatibility, friendship and mutual understanding

Thanks for your answer ...

You Not Dating ..anyone i mean even If you find .. someone U Like ...would you have avoding behavior ?🤔

Lets just add that taurus males and females are very distinct species tho

Have you seen his previous posts? I think the girl was somewhat interested and changed her mind, and now he won't back off. It worries me.

Pffft, guys who cant move on, need to strengthen their minds and accept rejection

Ok she was asking for my Number

Showing intresst ! I wasnt in at First ..

She was asking for Dates ...touching me ...making me Gifts ...staring at me ..

All that Taurus ...stuff ..

So i Fall in Love fast ...WE kisst us heavently ...

I was thinking WE are exklusiv ....she told me she Always needs longer ...and she cant give 100% ...

And making me Hope ...now i saw her Last Week ..and she told me

.that she was thinking i lose intresst in her ... because she has so much Stress bla bla

I Love her ...and i Just wont belive ...that she Not telling the truth ...IT would k

Make No Sense ....

But i give myself a ultimatum ! ...

How long ago was the kiss?

A few weeks ...

When was the last time she called you, texted you, or came up to you on her own?

Lets forget about that Game ! (:

Its Not looking good ..im Not stupid ..

The Point is ..i See Here at Work Sometimes ...

And shes Like Always ...

But the real Thing is ...i could Deal with..a NO

But she gives me a maybe ....and

Confused me with what she saying ! ..If all what she did and say ...was or is Fake ..

Shes a devil ! ...i never saw a person Like her If all is Fake ...thats my Problem ...

She is NOT a devil or psycho for changing her mind or for trying to be nice to a guy who is harassing her so he doesn't go crazy. You are sounding like a person who can't take no. She might be afraid of you.

Lol 😆..Trust me shes Not scared of me ...i dont Talk about that stuff with her ! ...

Shes Not scared because she was at my place Last Week ! ..i told her about a small Work ..i got for ..her ...and she ask me to to that .....so we did IT ..now ..If she dont Likes me she must be very cold ...to Just Work with me for the Money !

Anyway ...yes im Not the Person who get ..or Likes to get a No ...BuT ...i really can handel a No !!!! ...she Not giving me a No ...

And shes Not nice ...comon....

Im pretty Sure i was to fast with her ....IT all startet so Well ....and she told me ...she cant give 100% now ...and lets See where it leads ...

Thats a maybe .....and im confused because i did nothing wrong ! ...and If shes smart ..and nice she would Just say No ....

I give myself .. a few Weeks ..more ...i will ask her Out a maybe 2 times again ...and If she dont want ...i will Stop ! ...

And Trust me ...shes Not scared ...i dont even Text her ....or ...i Just Talk to her when i See her at Work ...and shes the Same Person ...almost ...

I'm sorry. I can't deal with your communication style . Good luck.

Yes sorry ..im stresst Out ..i need sleep ..

But you really helpt me (: ...

The funny Thing is ...deep ..inside of me ...

Im absoluty Sure ...that she ..dont want me ....

My Point is really ...i want a fair answer .....

In .y eyse WE Had a great ..time and a good conection ! ...and IT would be ..the respect ..i deserv ...so anyway thank you ...

And RIP to me

I'm sorry. I've been there...needing answers and getting silence. Sometimes you have to create your own closure.

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Just imagen ...the Person you Love ..works 1x Week at your company ...and you Work and Talk ..and all that confusing stuff is in your Head .....

I was told by "Taurus experts" ...that i should still Show intresst once a Week ...and ask her Out ...

But its Not in my Nature ...and i have to find myself again ...im so dead ..for a few month now .....i Just want to know ...why ! ..thats all

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@PiscesGal76
7 Years500+ Posts

Sometimes you dont get answer.....

Feel lucky that she still talks. When things ended with my ex Virgo, he just blocked me and that was it. 1 week before I was suposed to move to "our" new house, things ended abruptly without explaination. Straight to block. No fights, just ended. I had a job waiting aswell....

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@Sadboi
7 Years

Posted by PiscesGal76

Sometimes you dont get answer.....

Feel lucky that she still talks. When things ended with my ex Virgo, he just blocked me and that was it. 1 week before I was suposed to move to "our" new house, things ended abruptly without explaination. Straight to block. No fights, just ended. I had a job waiting aswell....

Thata hard ): ..and If U didnt do anything real Bad to His Loved ones ...its a childish ... behavior ! ...but He blockt you ...that would be a good answer for me (: ...shes "playing " the good Person ...Just to Look in the mirror again ..i cant Back Off because ...i want to give her a Feeling Off what she is doing ! ...

I think she only.talks to me because we See us at Work Sometimes ...

I ask her Out and she told me yes ...but we did a small Work .. together ..IT wasnt a real ",Date" but why would she do that