Virgo women and Taurus male

So basically this Taurus and I began seeing each other, he has a bad history of toxic relationships and I am just getting out of a long term relationship so we both agreed we didn’t want to date but wanted to keep hanging out and see where things go. So far, great. We talked all the time, we would hangout at least once a week, we would cuddle laugh and kiss but haven’t slept together. He’s ignored me once in the past over text so I waited a few days and tried again, when I brought up him ignoring me he said “yeah I do that sometimes, bare with me” but never did it again!

Everything was still going great, until he came over last week and we were kissing and it start leading to sex. I didn’t initiate it but I also didn’t stop him..... he eventually asked if I wanted to and I said yes but when it actually came down to it.. he couldn’t “preform”. Ive never experienced anything like this and I could see he was embarrassed but like I did whatever I could to make it not awkward. I still cuddled him, and changed the subject but he was still being distant. He ended up going home and the next day I texted him as I usually would, at the end of our convo he apologized for what had happened the night before..... but I reassured him it’s okay!! He said it’s because he hasn’t slept with anyone in 2 years!!!!

Anyways, even during that convo I could tell he was being most distant than usual. So I let him be for a couple days. When I messaged him after a 2 days asking how he is.. he didn’t reply, so I sent a funny meme the same day, he still didn’t reply..... I waited another 2 days and messaged AGAIN saying I hope he isn’t too sad that his football team lost. HE STILL DIDNT REPLY!

Now I’m mind boggled..... I keep overthinking everything that happened or was said that night. He literally told me a week ago he liked me and now he isn’t replying? I’m not sure if I should just consider it done or if should wait a week or so and try again. I don’t want to look stupid messaging him again but I also don’t want him to feel he needs to be done over one bad night!!!!! I want to straight up just ask him what happened but I also don’t want to make the convo super emotional because I can tell he doesn’t like being emotional. Has anyone else experienced this with a Taurus before? It’s so strange. He’s been single forever - we get along great... I just don’t understand why he’s pushing me away!

He did also tell me there was a girl he met a 3 years ago and he stopped answering her. And when I asked him why he did it he said because he gets like that and then I said so you didn’t like her— And he said no I did like her.. I just wanted to be single. I can’t help but feel he was really hurt before so now he’s avoiding any type of feelings lol.

Btw we talk over Instagram

So I can see him reading my messages when he ignores me but he won’t open my actual insta stories anymore?? When he always has!