@Jaay
6 Years
Situationship with taurus man.
He doesn't sound confused at all. He sounds like a dude who will take WHATEVER he can get from you WITHOUT putting a label on it. From kisses to sex. Typical behavior. Typical excuse.
We've ALL been hurt by someone. Nothing new.
Yup ☝️☝️
We’ve all been hurt by past relationships. That’s such a cop out bs excuse.
He doesn’t see you as relationship potential. End of.
move on. if you really as special as he says he'll drop the excuses and give you what you want.
Plus the fact you've already known him 6 months... don't wait for him any longer. Or else you'll miss out on Mr. Right pinning after Mr. 'lets just be friends'.
Wow. He sounds very sure of himself.
The next girl must walk on water.
Move on.
Thank you so much everyone for answering, I like the honesty here . I have not been in any serious relationship. But he has. I guess it's the empath in me trying to understand him that maybe he's really hurt or whatever but I totally get it. I should stop hanging onto him and find or wait for Mr. Right 😌.
Posted by LadyNeptuneYup ☝️☝️
We’ve all been hurt by past relationships. That’s such a cop out bs excuse.
He doesn’t see you as relationship potential. End of.
Bingo! He doesn't.
@Jaaaay....
If he was hurt by someone before, you would have NEVER known about it. Too private, too much pride, too much ego. He would have kept it to himself, and entertained a non- committal relationship with a random female. Not a close friend. Some Bulls can be Bullshitters too. He's passing time with you. He may already have someone in mind. You're not getting the whole story.
Should i remain being friends with him as he says he does not want to loose me as a friend ?
Posted by JaayShould i remain being friends with him as he says he does not want to loose me as a friend ?
Plenty of other people to be friends with
There's nothing confusing about it, you're just conflicted. Either you uphold your boundaries, or go with the flow and accept things as they are.
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So I've known this taurua guy from the past 6 months, we use to chat and call in the beginning but late we started meeting every weekend and 2 months back we started kissing and cuddling, he invites me to his apartment and we always end up getting all over each other but still we haven't made any commitments so it was bothering me, I brought up this topic and he said he's been hurt in the past relationships and now he doesn't want any relationship with anyone, he just doesnt like girls now and he's afraid that the end will always be bitter, so he rather have me as a close friend than to end up us both hating each other if we get into relation. He says there isn't any other girl he's seeing beside me and he says I'm different and not like others and he just like spending time with me and that I bring peace and good vibes to him and he would want us to be friends for a long time. I told him if we're friends we have to stop what we're doing (kissing and getting all over each other) he agreed to it but said we must continue our friendship . He is such a genuine guy and so charming it is so hard to not kiss him but if he's emotionally unavailable and can't take responsibility of a relationship than I must stop. But I still like him so should I wait for him or move on. He's so confusing.