Advice needed about Taurus man (please)

So it's been nearly 2 years since I met my Taurus guy, I'm a Virgo if that helps. We're not together and haven't been intimate , there's insane chemistry and has been from go. I catch him staring at me when he thinks I'm not paying attention, he goes above and beyond just friend status as far as the things he does for me. There's so much more that makes it the most incredible relationship I've never been in. So over a year ago I fessed up and told him I had feelings for him, he replied that he knew but didn't have time. Okaaay. Since that year we've only gotten closer and I've only fallen more for him and more confused. He looks at me like I'm the only person in the room, treats me better than I've ever been before. The topic of feelings have come up several times within the past few months all with beating around the bush saying he "wasn't interested" "just friends" & then" maybe in the future!! just recently on my birthday he went above and beyond friend status making a day and night of it for me in such an amazing way. Afterwards he got cold for about week , it's been like this for the past couple months, we get intensely close then he acts like an ass (usually) and then pulls away for a few days. Then repeat. I'm not one to hold on to a lost cause and I'm not desperate by any means I truly can not bring myself to walk away from him. We're so obviously close that everyone around us assumes we are together and on several occasions while hanging out with our friends I'll be politely friendly to our other male friend's and as a result he ends up snubbing me, giving me an attitude etc. It's mind numbing and I don't know what to make of it.

Posted by 1stTierReadings
sometimes i make too much food and send people the excess. they may think i made it for them but no.

I'm confused, what was this reply to?

Posted by Blanketofstars

Posted by 1stTierReadings
sometimes i make too much food and send people the excess. they may think i made it for them but no.

I'm confused, what was this reply to?

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He means that whatever you perceive to be "above and beyond" may not be seen or held in the same regard on the Taurus' end.

If he's telling you he only likes you as a friend, I would go on to assume that anything he does for you is based on that premise and nothing more.

Thank you very much for your insight!!