Advice please dating a taurus man.

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I'm dating a taurus man. We've been fighting a lot cuz he spends a lot of time with his ex wife. He's has been putting her before me. When we talk about it he tells me that he understands. I think it actually clicked and he got it but then it starts all over again. She is homeless I understand wanting to help her I have moved her into my house 3x trying to help her. About 3 days ago I had enough he was calling me saying that I was treating her differently I wasn't I had a lot going on in my best friends life I was trying to help her with. He called and said that if I don't drop everything and spend time with his ex and her man that when he got home I would be sleeping by myself. So I snapped and threw her and her man out. His mood has been up and down lately and for the last 2 nights he's been sleeping outside with her. Says it's my fault and I'm pushing him away. He was suppose to come home and talk this morning but he didn't talk he said he had to much going on. I know he's not cheating but this hurts to. I've tried talking to her but that don't help. She says really bad things about him I tell him but he don't care says he forgives her. Now he went to a family member and said he'd be right back that was 5 hrs ago. He wasn't answering his phone when he finally did he was vague and distant and he usually says I love you at the end of the call but hasn't since last night. But when he's here he says it and that he wants to be with me and that he loves his life and family with my son and I. Any advice?
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What is this shit I have just read— I had to read it a few times and still concluded the same thing.

What on earth are you doing still dating this guy?

You are dating. Not tied to him. Why would you invite his ex to live with you. You have a kid too. Put you and your kid first. This guy sounds fucked up and isn't offering you anything but problems. He sounds selfish and unreasonable but also very manipulative.

Walk away now. This isn't what it should look like.
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Posted by Cancerwoman304


She is homeless I understand wanting to help her I have moved her into my house 3x trying to help her.

He called and said that if I don't drop everything and spend time with his ex and her man that when he got home I would be sleeping by myself. So I snapped and threw her and her man out.
Wow hows his dick game? Must be fire if you've moved his ex and her bf into your house. Thats some insane level sheeeet.
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Extremely entertaining.

if your story is real

and you really love this guy i commend you for allowing her to stay with you

even if you didn't

i still think that it is very noble.

i think you should be less paranoid and make an extra effort w/ him and his ex as i think it's a very sensitive time.



they won't live with you forever.

i'm sure his ex feels bad and is pretty much looking for any sign of you not really wanting her of her current lover to be there.
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Posted by Cancerwoman304
I do know them my man is my beft friends boyfriends cousins I knew them when they were still married
I think this woman is serious. OMG

first of all - way too much drama for me - but I do commend you on your kindness

however, I would have snapped on that man in a minute just like you did for speaking to me like that - I don't care who the f you are - your first instincts were correct when he did that - so you took him and them back again ? did he man up with apology and understanding ? if not, perhaps you should rethink your situation

if you have gotten you and your son together after being homeless a year ago, then you are doing well and do not let anyone get between you and your stability - stay well and keep on - but you don't need unstable drama happening around you - let me rephrase that - your son does not need unstable drama happening around him - bring him up to be the best man he can be - rock his world



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This just can't be real... I don't believe it for a second. You used to be homeless and now you have a place, but you are willing to RISK putting you and your son back on the street by housing two homeless people. You are putting your son at risk.

You say you know them because he was your cousin's, ex-boyfriend's, daughter's friend, who is related to Beelzebub's dentist. So they would NEVER do anything bad. The fu*k is wrong with your brain?

Good lord woman. Sort your shi*.

Have you ever wondered WHY your man doesn't allow his ex and her dude to stay with him? What ever the reason is for why they are not allowed to stay with him is bs, especially since... he would allow...Oh I'm sorry, insist, bytch and moan that you MUST open your home to these people. smh

This cannot be real. This is some Lifetime or Oxygen Thursday night movie bs.

If this IS real, I don't feel sorry for you... I feel sorry for your son.