Almost ex husband

Posted by GeminiGem
He seems remorseful. But I'm terribly unsure.

And you want to go back to all that? ....Being remorseful and being a person who has changed and becomes a better person is not the same thing.

Don't believe all that bs about earth signs...they are just as messed up as every other sign, they just hide it better than most, for a bit anyway.

Hi SAS1🙂

Gem,

It's all up to you.

My ex bull and I gave 3 shots for a chance - it didn't work for me. I walked away.

He contacted me , I exploded like a bomb. and No. I'd better be alone than dealing an impossible mission.

Forgiving - is not difficult when you know you have mistakes as well and embrace it and forgive yourself
not just the mistakes of a partner. I felt deep within your carrying burden - let go of
that resentment. Forgive him even he is not deserving. You forgive because you have it for
for yourself. You cannot give what you don't have. Why bitter? Keep yourself better.

Lots of good advice. I'm just trying to center everything.

He's been dating and sleeping with other people.

Dunno

Soul searching time.

You could give him one "second chance".

How does he sound when he says he "wants another shot"? Can you say he knows why he cannot live without you? Has he seen what could be made better than in the past? Does he sound like somebody with new plans? Has he analysed what was weak and the reason for him to go away?

I mean sometimes "keeper" signs like Taurus and Cancer just want to keep the old things but that is all. Meaning they desire new things at the same time.

Yup at least we will work on problems and try to compromise, but after so much communication and honesty.. What else would be the logical way to deal with this. So I mean mind over heart.. What does your mind say. Not your heart..and really at this point I would have taken out the feelings and detachment..

Taurus don't play games...and if you say to me I want a divorce. I will give it to you. And not looking back.. so make sure what you say, is what you mean..

And along with Capricorn, Taurus don't like divorce and will stick to whatever is necessary. But the lying, or sneaky behavior, or cheating. Im out. No conversations.

He's been out the door for months. I'm nori by wrested in going backwards.
Plus I have a wonderful libra man who is amazing!!

The Taurus screwed everything up. He can go mess up another persons life.