Any other Taurus Girls Getting to know a Virgo Man

Im getting to know this Virgo and Im kinda curious about the experiences of others. He's a very friendly, funny, ambitious though very analytical and kinda introverted guy. Im used to more expressive types, but when he does express...wow. Please, do share.

one of my best friendships has been with a virgo male. we came together so easily and were pretty much inseparable while we resided in the same state.

i've met quite a few virgos males and beyond those that are awkward and intimidated by you for whatever reason, most encounters were fairly smooth and natural. no butterflies or giggly girl feelings in this combo...at least not for me. i've never had uncontrollable LURVE feelings towards a virgo male. they just don't awaken that emotion in me so i'd say if you're looking for romance, look elsewhere BUT...

if you're looking for someone who instinctively understands and accepts you in all ways, a virgo male is a safe bet.

lol Im definitely feeling the awkward intimidation thing. Understanding and acceptance would be really nice to have, especially after my last relationship with a Gemini smh.

yeah, taurus women can be intimidating sometimes

that's because they appear perfect.(extrovert,good-looking,smart,down-to-earth).

I was married to a Virgo for 13 years. When we first met I was over the moon because he just 'got me' on a level that I'd never experienced. Like Cali stated I enjoyed how seamless it was. It just felt completely natural to date, move in with, marry and have children with him. So I got 'big lurve'. I can honestly say the passion was intense, highly so. That arena was completely sympatico. Virgo surprises in many ways. Under that uptight, buttoned down exterior beats the heart of a real beast. In a damned fine way. Intelligence, actually having good conversation, laughing loads. You bet.
The pitfalls were power struggles, finances ( he was extremely controlling of them, if I wrote a check for 30 dollars at the store he wanted paid back ), and in all honesty I must admit it was impossible for me to let my end of it go. He worked evenings so I manned the helm, ran the house, raised the children, etc. When he stepped in I'd get pissy. I can fully admit that. Like all marriages that fail, the little things pile up until they're monster. Which is why I get up on a hobby horse about keeping things flowing and slapping it down. Learning process, evolving.
Now, he whom was my Virgo is obviously not the one you've got your eye on. Everything is beginning and new and I won't undermine all the truly good in the man that was my husband and the father of my children. ( Not much at any rate 🙂 ) I will also accept full culpability for my role. I'd have you here reading till your eyeballs fell out. i.e. I'll not try to warn you off of him because of his Sun Sign for flips sake. LOL GO FOR IT in other words. Have at it, full tilt.

I think he was terribly intimidated when we first started talking. He high tailed it at first, but came back in about a month to show off the cool stuff he acquired lol I liked him to begin with but he was so proud of himself I couldnt deny him the ego stroke he so obviously desired at that point.

lol thank you Venusian. I have every intention of maintaining my own finances, maybe never even moving in with a man again. The thing that strikes me as maybe a low point is his swings between bottled up and full expression. Is there any way you could suggest for me to help him feel more comfortable expressing himself?

just be yourself. don't think too much about the relationship aspects of it. treat it like a friendship. they're not good with the emo-stuff so i think if you treat it like a normal dating situation, it might cause some of them to bottle up.

in a friendship, there's no pressure and everything flows naturally. so in a way, the more "chill" or "aloof" you are with regard to your feelings (if they're in the hot to trot realm), the more natural he will feel around you.

overall, i just don't know many virgos who are comfortable with overt emotions. where they may be drawn to fire...as it's appealing, i think they like/gravitate to solid/sound natures more readily. in short, be yourself and relax. the more relaxed you are, the more natural he will be and that makes it easier for him to open up.

🙂 What Cali said. Absolutely be yourself. And yes. Repression led to full on blow ups. Encourage him to unleash the demons, it's got to go somewhere, eh?

How much did you know your virgo to really be into physical activity as a means of releasing emotions as opposed to talking about them? lol One day he called me all in a hurry like "I need to relieve some stress NOW, I got the worse news!" and I know he wasnt calling me to talk.

Side note Im so excited because we're supposed to be spending some time this weekend.

dunno and it depends.

i have an aunt and a fem friend, virgos, who are very health conscious and go to the track almost daily.

i have another aunt, virgo, who buys workout equipment...and then gives it to my other aunt.

my virgo bff, he will workout at random. he spends a few weeks in the gym and then goes back into his normal routine.



overall, i dont think any of them use physical activity to relieve stress per se, but those that do engage in regular physical activity, i think it's the virgo health consciousness at play. maybe your virgo has correlated that it helps him relieve stress and therefore makes him healthier...*shrugs*

My ex was a straight up comp guy. He immersed himself in games, movie burning, et al. He busted tail at work running here there and everywhere so at home he wanted to unwind. LOL I always threatened to doodle a face on the back of his head.

lol very funny. This guy keeps the ultimate push up and pull up bar lol. He said he's not a health nut, but hes always talking about ways to maximize his diet and calesthenics (did i spell that right?)

'calisthenics'

I am a taurus lady. I have great luck with virgo males. They always fall for me... for whatever reason. They really are quiet people... can be highly romantic at times. For e.g I was talking to one(couldnt date him for various reasons)... he called me EVERY single day. They are very kind... always offering stuff but are very analytical. I am also observant and not naive at all. While he is driving, he'd find some way to express his feelings for me... but i was always quiet when it came to that. I dont want to scare anyone plus i had strong feelings for him. Im very slow in making decisions.. and to him i was unpredictable so he dissappeared for about 3 weeks.. then he told me anytime it reaches a point where he cant control his feelings again he'll be avoiding me again... That day i decide to tell him how i felt about him... he told me he had something to tell me when i was finished expressing myself for the first time..and he just kissed me. I came out of his car.. about 20 mins after he called asking if i was okay. we saw each other that same evening.. this time he asked for it.. i kissed him... then he called after i left telling me what he did to him... the thing is tho... he has a gf and i just wanted to be friends... but you know... he just kissed me and feelings started to grow... one day i texted him that i prefer to be loved as his friend than his ex... he began worrying and asking me how he could make me happy. he even said i was making crazy ... told him we should forget about the past.. but he still calls me.. im secretly hoping he becomes mine one day.. not telling him tho.. plus i have a virgo ex of two years who still talks about getting married to me... and im ONLY 17.. going to be 18 may coming

Very interesting Neka. Im still talking to Virgo guys, I dont know why it seems these days that every guy who approaches me is a virgo. I dont mind it, they're so cute. Im almost sure I'll end up marrying one, there's just a lot of static at the beginning of our interaction. For some reason they approach me, but seem very skeptical of MY intentions. I dont have a problem expressing myself (when Im comfortable it will be well recieved). And Im just trying to come across the right guy.

Youre pretty young and already know how alluring Virguys can be, Im 10 years older than you and still feel the same way. Good luck Sweety.

Posted by SweetestFatale
Very interesting Neka. Im still talking to Virgo guys, I dont know why it seems these days that every guy who approaches me is a virgo. I dont mind it, they're so cute. Im almost sure I'll end up marrying one, there's just a lot of static at the beginning of our interaction. For some reason they approach me, but seem very skeptical of MY intentions. I dont have a problem expressing myself (when Im comfortable it will be well recieved). And Im just trying to come across the right guy.

Youre pretty young and already know how alluring Virguys can be, Im 10 years older than you and still feel the same way. Good luck Sweety.

Same here..I feel so comfortable expressing myself to my Virgo, It's like I can tell him anything,good or bad and he will always understand me..Of all the men I have had a relationship with, I would say that Virgo is the one that has really made me feel things that I have never felt before. Virgo's are so #1 in my book. Good luck to all bulletts that are currently with a Virgo..Taurus and Virgo are awesome together.😉

Another taurus getting to know a virgo here (or not...depending on the day). I am finding much insight on these boards about virgos an also about myself. My current one is a unique situation for me and not always a comfortable one (sweet words followed by retreats followed by tender kisses followed by uncertainty...) but I remain intrigued enough to stick around so far.

Like you mention, there may be intimidation factors with virguys and bullettes. Boy calls me amazing, says I'm out of his league, thinks I'll become bored with him, that he's not active enough for me...possibly playing mind games, feeling me out or can he really be that insecure? Note quite sure yet.

Regardless of whether a romantic future lies ahead, I hope that a lasting friendship will. When he's not freaking out, I enjoy listening to said boy talk about his ambitions, his hobbies, his fears and his life. He seems very grounded, which is appealing to a taurus (or to me at least). We seem to relate well. We're both pretty logical and seem to genuinely enjoy one another when we are together. I am someone who needs reassurance and stability though, and while I appreciate not rushing into anything and I know this virguy is sorting out his own stuff right now (recently out of a relationship), it is challenging to be interested in someone who moves even slower than a taurus does.

Several times he's told me that kissing me feels very natural, very comfortable.

So I'm totally curious - what else do you notice about the virgo/taurus combination? Any other takers?

I am trying to get to know a Virgo. He lives in another state and is much older than myself. I am having difficulty understanding him and his signals, so I try not to read to much into it and just go with the flow. I feel like I am boy chasing like I was 15 again or something.

Nice to hear some good stuff about Virgo males for once: I like it here! :-)

There is one Taurie Ive been talking to lately, she's been flirting with me heavily even though she has a boyfriend :S and yeah..she has Venus in Gemini too lol shes out of the country now but has been repeating lately how much she'd like to see me again and suggesting random plans for when a get-together when shes back.

Im a Virgo btw

GACK! :/

hehhhhhhhhhh, well I dont get a bad vibe from all of that to be honest, it all seems pretty innocent and just honest by her :S maybe she just likes my company

I don't doubt that your company is fine, it's not something I'd participate in is all. *shrug* If I had a boyfriend I'd not be flirting with another fellow and laying in your face hints to meet up. Unless it's for a coffee; sans fluttering lashes and hair tosses.. and my boyfriend knew about it. As in opening my mouth and saying "I'm meeting a male friend for coffee, he goes by ShakalakaBoom." There's just something *behind the potted plant* about seeing another dude when you're with someone. Go ahead, I'm properly steeled for Euro to American "You're uptight" talk.

She seems really impressed about how I can read her mind, it has happened a few times now that right before she was going to ask me something, I said the answer right before she opened her mouth lol, she's a Virgo mooner btw 🙂

Posted by venusianbull
I don't doubt that your company is fine, it's not something I'd participate in is all. *shrug* If I had a boyfriend I'd not be flirting with another fellow and laying in your face hints to meet up. Unless it's for a coffee; sans fluttering lashes and hair tosses.. and my boyfriend knew about it. As in opening my mouth and saying "I'm meeting a male friend for coffee, he goes by ShakalakaBoom." There's just something *behind the potted plant* about seeing another dude when you're with someone. Go ahead, I'm properly steeled for Euro to American "You're uptight" talk.

Hahahh no, I wasnt going to start a Euro vs US moral standards, but I do agree that its a bit strange that she's talking to me in that tone. We met randomly, while we were both waiting for the train (she was single at the time) I started a convo after she asked me something about a train, hah, things got interesting after I made a random guess about her having the smile of a flight attendant..she was like "HOW DO YOU KNOW? I AM A FLIGHT ATTENDANT!" hahah from that moment on there was an instant connection and a bit of a mutual attraction.