Are bulls the biggest perverts?

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taurusgoddess
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Cancerboy's just busy, withdrawn & non-responsive. I asked him if seeing his girlfriend once a week was normal; today on messenger. He just said, No, I'm just really busy. I don't know, I think he's stressed. He seems to have a lot on his mind. (His dad that left him 10 years ago now wants to get to know him & he just finished university & is looking for a good job.)

I guess those are good enough reasons, but it sure as hell isn't making me feel wanted. I feel like I'm kinda just conveniently there when he needs me. Kinda how I felt with my last boy. I give lots of space & I get no response. I call to say hi, how are you doing, he's busy. I don't seem to win here. This is becoming a trend in my relationships. What the FFFFFFFF am I doing wrong?!!! Is it me, or am I just picking the a-holes? 😭
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Sweetie you just answered your own question...think about how much would be going on in your head if...(His dad that left him 10 years ago now wants to get to know him & he just finished university & is looking for a good job.)

Remeber how big on family we are. Not having a father is bad enough but when he comes around when you are a grown ass (you can say ass here!) man...you are doing good for yourself and got it together withOUT his help during the most TRYING times of your life...Then he wants to show up and be a part of your life just like that? He is probably unable to think about much else...turning it over and over in his head.

I suggest you VERY GENTLY bring it up and get him to talking about it. This may be tricky for a Taurus woman as you ladies tend to be VERY upfront and direct, but just give him an ear. Can you go to HIS house with some flowers or whatever you know it is he likes best..Surprise him with a meal or something to make him feel better because believe you me, his heart is in COMPLETE turmoil right now and YOU being so demanding is NOT going to do anything but push him away. Please PUT HIM FIRST right now and stop thinking that he doesn't care. Okay?

If I was a bit harsh...I didn't mean to be. It was like for a second there I could feel the heaviness of his heart, but then again perhaps it is the heaviness in my own heart at my current situation.

Either way, don't give advice...JUST LISTEN!

GOOD LUCK!'
Cancerlady
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CL, thanks for the advice. Last night I was with him with no demands but only love and we had a great time. Thinking about someone else makes me forget my insecurities with them. It's good to understand people.

RE: the pervert thing, I find myself holding back comments & keeping my thots to myself cuz people already think I'm too much of a pig! Maybe it's not a taurus thing but it seems to my taurus friends are the worst. I just wanted to hear what you guys thot, thanks for the input.

I still wanna run into a scorp now! (running to the scorpio message board... 🙂 )
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mr.crabby

"Either way, stuff gets blown everywhere and there's a big mess. Except in red faction you can destroy the walls too."

i can only begin to fathom what the first sentence meant but i know one thing i hated red faction on the gamecube im more of a mouse and keyboard kind of guy. for now im waiting for the splinter cell games to come in a three pack as well as the GTA series.
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eh...the scorpios I've been with have been the WORST in bed. I never knew what the hype was all about. I was pretty disappointed.

Taureans will do freaky stuff with people they care about and trust. I found Capricorns and Leos and Pisces to be down with anything, and pretty damn fun in bed, Scorpios to be more hype than they are worth, and Virgos too mental to let loose. Geminis are kinda the same--not sensual enough. Just my experience, though. Never been with a Taurus lady, they always seem too picky to me!