Are you faithful—

Hi,

I've posted on here before about my troubled on/off relationship with my Taurus. I just wanted to know..... do Taurus tend to be faithful?

I've read that they are unless they are unhappy...thats when they stray.

Is this true? All you Taurus out there??

I have taurus moon yes and with a vengence.Check out his charts to find out.

Very true. I am very loyal when I am inlove or if the love is there at all. I don't even WANT to look at anyone else. BUT, when I feel you are betraying my love or not loving me no more, then hmmmmmmmmm I see there is something, just around the corner. See yaaaaaaaa...

I should feel bad, but I don't. If I cheat, I am pretty much gone right after. I won't stick around with guilt. If I'm cheating that means the relationship is over in my eyes anyways.

I definitely have a wandering eye when I sense something is missing in the relationship... Although when I'm in love...REALLY in love... I'm very, very faithful and don't even care to look at anyone else (of course I check people out, but the desire is completely gone). I wouldn't just cheat for the hell of it if everything was going great and I was madly in love.

I think two ladies above said all - I am Taurus F and pretty much the same way. If I am in love, it doesn't even cross my mind. For male, I would say it is pretty similar. I can say this by observing my ex whom I was with for 8 years. We stayed very faithful to each other but at the end, he started to feel bit less and I was not sure if he was going to cheat on me...as those ladies above mentioned if we cheat, we know the relationship is pretty much over.

Are Taurus females quicker to fall in love then the male? And what does a Taurus look for in a partner? I am an Aquarian and pretty much up front about how I feel about you, if I don't say it, then its shown in how I treat you.

Are Taurus females quicker to fall in love then the male? And what does a Taurus look for in a partner? I am an Aquarian and pretty much up front about how I feel about you, if I don't say it, then its shown in how I treat you.

Are Taurus females quicker to fall in love then the male? And what does a Taurus look for in a partner? I am an Aquarian and pretty much up front about how I feel about you, if I don't say it, then its shown in how I treat you. How does one tell if a Taurus male feels?

Are Taurus females quicker to fall in love then the male? And what does a Taurus look for in a partner? I am an Aquarian and pretty much up front about how I feel about you, if I don't say it, then its shown in how I treat you. How does one tell if a Taurus male feels?

Are Taurus females quicker to fall in love then the male? And what does a Taurus look for in a partner? I am an Aquarian and pretty much up front about how I feel about you, if I don't say it, then its shown in how I treat you. How does one tell if a Taurus male feels?

I'll speak for myself here, as a Taurus female. I have a lot of crushes and admirers in the past. If I don't have whatsoever attraction/feeling towards an admirer, then it will remain that way throughout. The ironic thing is that, I had a few crushes that showed interests in me too and started pursuing me, and I've backed off countless of times. What I've realized is that when I'm not sure of my feelings for them, I will not pursue the relationship even if there's an attraction. I needed time to really sort out my own feelings and not just go spontaneously for the moment of passion. I take love very seriously and I don't play around. So I guess, the way to put it is, I am easily and quicker to get attracted to different people, but I take time to fall in love and when I do fall in love, I am faithful to that one person and hoping that it will last... >.

Hi there,

Question to the Taurus male. I've been seeing a guy that was single when I decided to date him (he had be pursuing me for a few years). When I told him a week later he said that he old g/f had been hanging around for the last week. Well I told him how I felt, said I can't be the other women and when he was free to call me. Problem is we a very close friends and he was to work with me for a week or so. Well I sorry to say i wound up sleeping with him (mistake i know). I've now told him that can never happen again but in the mean time, we have gotten so close. He calls everyday, has done so much to help me with work ive needed done. He takes me everywhere, family, friends and even his home. I have no idea when he could even be seeing the ex...Im always around. My question is...what the heck is going on— He is so different from the man that I have known for the last 5yrs. Is there a Taurus male out there that might explain this too me. I really like this guy, but i will not lower my standards and morals for anyone, and he is not expecting me too. But what is he thinking? Please post back, I really need some insight. I know that he is sincere in his behavior, just dont know what he is thinking. Any advice would be greatly apprieciated.

Sunshine

so sorry about the typos....didnt proofread. *blush*

hi sunshine
i don't think any taurean male takes sex lightly or whimsically, so i'm sure he's probably feeling a strong attatchment to you-- it sounds like he's got to make a decision... do you know for sure if he's spending time with his ex?
if the two of you are slowly getting closer and closer, it sounds like he is attempting to open up to you... have you guys talked about where you see each other in your lives?

Hi Venus,

Thanks for the advice and no, I don't know if he is spending time with his ex, he just says she has been hanging around lately and he doesn't want to hurt her feelings. The thing is though, I pretty much know where he is at all times and he has no problem with me calling him whenever I want. We havent talked about where we see each other in each others lives, but I have stated I like to date one man at a time. I don't know how much I should say, or even what to say. A close friend that has known him for 25yrs says that she doesnt think the ex is back. She thinks that he is just using that as an excuse to get to know me better with out expectations. She says he would never take me around his children or to public places if he was having an affair. That really confuses me. Why would he not just say that, and does that sound like something a Taurus would do. Cant imagine fibbing about something like that. Let me know your thoughts...Thanks for everything!

Sunshine

hmmm, i might be completely off base here... but have you thought about the possibility that he's just trying to make you jealous by bringing up the ex? maybe he's trying to put you in a comprimising position-- such that if you don't submit to what he wants, he can go "somehwere else" (even if it's all in his head at the moment) i'm not sure what else it could be right now, have you run a chart on him yet? ithink atlanticmyst posted the http://www.0800-horoscope.com link in several other threads (i think if u click on "don't know time" it automatically adjusts things for a sunrise or noon chart, but it won't display the house info)
the sign that is most likely to be affected by 'no time' is the moon, and hopefully you'll be able to tell which one is correct since neighboring signs dont usually have much in common
hope this helps some 🙂 , if you find the info i'd be curious to see

Hey Venusasapenis,

Good point, I'd hate to think that is what it is though. Since my last post I decided to just go for it and there is no way he has a relationship with anyone else, he just doesnt share whats going on all the time. I'm way too involved in his life Id know or she would. Anyway, I have a chart for you...maybe you can give me some insight. Also, what I here about Taurus men in the sack and what Im seeing here are two different things. Do Taurus men take time to get to know someone before the good and passionate sex comes out. I mean the sex isnt bad but it could use some work. Im hoping he just needs to know me better or something. Let me know how it is for you. Thanks so much...give me all your wisdom...*wink*

chart for my friend


Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Taurus 14.02
Moon Capricorn 22.19
Mercury Aries 24.01
Venus Aries 14.58
Mars Gemini 2.30
Jupiter Taurus 28.53
Saturn Libra 22.26 R
Uranus Cancer 15.14
Neptune Libra 21.56 R
Pluto Leo 20.47
Lilith Virgo 14.44
Asc node Aquarius 7.16

Thanks for everything...

Sunshine

Venus,

Oh, and one more thing to add to the confusion. Last night we were at his house and about 3am there is a noise outside. It is his ex he goes outside to talk to her then comes back in, she had been drinking and wasnt going anywhere. So we calmly picked up our shoes and stuff and went to my house. Now does that sound like something someone would do to their girlfiend? I think he just doesnt want me to know it is over...maybe for the jealousy thing you mentioned or the control thing...dont know Taurus's that well. okay, nuff outta me...thanks..

Sunshine..

wow it looks like he's got a lot of cardinal attributes in his chart (capricorn, aries, libra, cancer), that might be making him appear a bit irrational? I think fixed sun signs with cardinals wind up very conflicted, because there is an urge to move on very spontaneously, but you can never really escape that fixed sun mentality.

you are right about taurus men needing to get to know you better for better sex... i know when i'm nervous or anxious, i don't particularly enjoy sex and don't perform as well as i'd like. in this case, you honestly might be better initiating, and leading a bit until he gets to know you better. (after you get that other girl straightened out)

that's pretty crappy about the ex, but at least you guys stayed together that night-- eventually, if you guys want a complete relationship, i'm sure u know u've gotta get rid of the other girl's pestering completely... it sounds like you guys are spending some good time together at least... i guess you just gotta make sure you are both on the same page regarding what you expect from each other

i think it should be obvious even to him that the ex is being a nuisance-- would you put up with that in the long run?

Hi Venus,

Thanks for all the good info, do tell more about the fixed sign thing *S*. As far as the ex goes, I think that is over. He was really imbarrassed about it, neither of us drink alcohol. And he's not the type to deal with something like that more than once. You know how Taurus can be. *W* Anyway, back to the sex thing. So this is normal huh? Its not that its bad, its just that its so rushed like he needs that immediate gratification or something (another Taurus traight). I'd like to take over, but I'm pretty much putty in his hands. I'm a Libra I have no problem taking control, but this seems to be different. I'm going to show you my chart and see what you think. The greatest thing about our relationship is we were such good friends for many years. We know each other pretty well (except for sexually), and we get along so well. Kind of a quiet understanding. They say the Taurus and Libras are iffy but the people I've been closest too all my life have been Taurus female and male. Anyway Venus, do tell me some secrets about what Taurus men like in bed do they like aggressive women and what about me initiating. LOL, I cant even believe im asking these questions. okay, well here's my chart. Give me your words of wisdom and thanks again for everything.

Sun Libra 22.22 Ascendant Cancer 3.23
Moon Gemini 0.15 II Cancer 24.03
Mercury Libra 6.33 III Leo 16.12
Venus Scorpio 26.43 IV Virgo 13.10
Mars Leo 2.14 V Libra 17.37
Jupiter Pisces 3.07 R VI Scorpio 27.10
Saturn Aquarius 4.48 VII Capricorn 3.23
Uranus Virgo 3.55 VIII Capricorn 24.03
Neptune Scorpio 12.28 IX Aquarius 16.12
Pluto Virgo 11.17 Midheaven Pisces 13.10
Lilith Libra 9.14 XI Aries 17.37
Asc node Leo 5.18 XII Taurus 27.10

The only difference is all the other places ive done my chart they say my moon is in Taurus. This just happens to be the one i saved. Thanks again

Sunshine

Hi again Venus,


Here is the right chart.
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0

Sun Libra 21.53 Ascendant Sagittarius 0.13
Moon Taurus 22.54 II Capricorn 1.25
Mercury Libra 6.31 III Aquarius 6.49
Venus Scorpio 26.35 IV Pisces 12.38
Mars Leo 1.58 V Aries 13.45
Jupiter Pisces 3.08 R VI Taurus 9.02
Saturn Aquarius 4.48 VII Gemini 0.13
Uranus Virgo 3.54 VIII Cancer 1.25
Neptune Scorpio 12.27 IX Leo 6.49
Pluto Virgo 11.16 Midheaven Virgo 12.38
Lilith Libra 9.11 XI Libra 13.45
Asc node Leo 5.21 XII Scorpio 9.02

I don't know why the other one is different, but i've checked on 4 sights 3 of them say this is my chart. Thanks sweetie your the best!

Sunshine

hay sunshine 🙂 here's a site u might be interested in ( http://www.0800-horoscope.com/compatibility.html ) it'll ask you for your birthday and his, and will give a brief overview of what you might find and expect between the two of you
it will will analyze the synastry between you two and show certain "aspects" (similar to personal aspects) the biggest example i've read about is if one person's ascendant is the same as the other person's sun sign-- supposedly the sun sign is attracted to the ascendant sign (etc, i'm not entirely too sure the others, i think romantically, venus sign comes into play as well)

as for the cardinal attributes, i can give you a personal example: i was courting someone whom i thought was "the one" a few years ago, and she happened to be a gemini... despite a sag ascendant and aries moon, i still do like to take my time with love-- but knowing she was a gemini and experiencing her personality in the past (we used to go to the same school; she transferred and somehow we started talking again) i was afraid that if i didn't push hard and fast with her, i would blow my second shot (when we first met, we were both not in the best places in our lives-- she was boy crazy and i was unbelievably naieve... i still kind of am) the whole time we were getting to know each other was a bit excruciating for me, i was able to adapt myself to her frequently (maybe because of the fire trine ascendant and moon... fire consumes air) bu t it didn't leave me with a comfortable feeling... i knew that i wanted her, my venus in taurus must have told my psyche that (she was amazingly beautiful) and my aries moon must have pushed me forward, even more so than normal because i knew she would be flighty and indecisive... but to basically cut a long story short-- we wound up staying together for just about two years because we had wound up sleeping together one night. the whole relationship was not my ideal, but i did stay with her because i truly and honestly cared about her. i still do, but i think what i'm getting at is, the whole while we were in the relationship was quite taxing on me because i still knew that if i wanted to keep her happy, i would have to actively pursue her and keep her stimulated. and i still wanted her-- my aries moon always seemed to be affected by that situation, and my sense of urgency just kept getting higher and higher... eventually i knew that whatever happens is going to happen with that situation tho -- i wasn't prepared to put that much effort into a relationship but i willingly did for quite some time. i was never able to really relax while with her-- there were times of course when we got along great and when i havn't been happier with someone else, but the relationship on a whole was very volatile... i would break up with her because she wasn't treating me well (pretty damn often, now that i think about), then the next day we would get back together... she would break up with me for spite and fear of being rejected, etc... it was a pretty vicious cycle which wound up turning into the running joke of the relationship -- if one of us did something the other one didn't like (if i called her "monkey butt" or something stupid) we would jokingly say "that's it! i'm breaking up with you!!"
in the end, i stopped listening to that sense of urgency i guess and pretty much stopped pushing, and she decided she wanted to see other people... i hope this kind of explains the anguish and conflict i was insinuating about fixed/cardinal attributes, or i hope it was an entertaining story at least 🙂
hmmm, now the sex thing... that might be related to the aries in venus? i'm not sure what to say, i think communication is probably the best bet... maybe you can get some useful info out of him with phone sex or something? it sounds like he likes to be in control (aries again?) so maybe you guys could talk about changing it up (maybe you could slow him down sexually by tying him to the bed

hmm, so yah, i would think that first house placement does make a big difference, the 8th house cusp suppsoedly rules sexual affairs (cancer in the 8th denotes moody but intense sexuality, i can vouch personally; i would think capricorn takes a more consistent and serious approach? i don't know many capricorns, but i've been getting to know a lovely lady cap lately)
(i get a bit confused by house meanings, but here goes ; )
another thing to check would be asteroids, and planet placements in your 8th house (house of sex or taxes depending who you ask? i think a more general meaning is house of natural occurances) based solely on planetary info you posted, the first chart has capricurn cusp, and saturn in the 8th ;; and the second one has cancer on the 8th cusp and mars in leo in the 8th...
sooooo, this is where it gets kinda tricky-- i think if the second chart was more accurately you, you would feel some sort of competetiveness during sex due to the mars placement? maybe some of the more knowlegeable readers can verify or deny this...
based on that logic, the first chart has an capricorn 8th house cusp with saturn in aquarius residing there-- saturn is a planet i'm not too familiar with, it's supposedly the "karma" planet, and i have actually no idea what it affects!

but to keep things a bit simpler, here's a link to descriptions of all the signs in 8th house:
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/housecusp-8th.html

unfortunately after reading both cancer and capricorn, it feels like i fit both pretty well...
there are other ways to verify though, i suppose i took the sexual approach because i'm such a hornball 🙂

im not sure what else to add, i almost feel like i'm rambling at this point 🙂
if i think of anyhting i'll be sure to add it!

Hey Venus,

Well you are just a vast well of knowledge! Thanks so much. Now I have had my chart done many times with all the same info. The second one that you read is what all of the charts say but the first one. Im thinking maybe they had a glich or something. So you also have a aries moon too huh? Its vey intersesting to watch my friend. Keeps things simple and on the surface but he has his eyes studying everything. Doesnt miss a beat and remember my favorite songs from years ago. Very strange. As for the sex yes...was thinking of the tieing up thing, not sure he'd go for it...but it would certainly slow him down. LOL. Im not sure if it is because he has waited for this for a long time and he just needs to get it out of his system and will mellow in a bit. But it is all good, and yes, have gone and had our compatability chart done. Have a hard time understanding it, it gives positive points and then turns around and contradicts what was just said. So, with that you sound like your chart is similar to my friends thats very cool. You have alot of knowledge love hearing you chat about things. Well, if you pop in and have something for me...lay it on me! Thanks for everything Venus...your a great guy! P.S. Now one more personal question. I have never been with a man that did not initiate sex in the morning. My friend has not. hmmmm...not sure the deal..wondering if I should. You seem to be the expert. I can be very aggressive but I dont want to freak him out. thanks



Sunshine

i'm just waaaay too bored most of the time 🙂
it looks like your love interest has moon in cap, so that would make him a pretty "cool" character i would think (sun and moon trine earth?)
oh the compatibility report does contradict itself, every one i've run does so... it's computer driven, so i guess you pretty much have to read into the subtleties and evaluate what aspect affects what area... i think it's pretty much more interesting and fun than easily used as a holistic tool

as for the morning sex... i think an interesting fantasy for me would be to wake up tied to the bed and upon waking, maybe a french maid would be there to tend to my needs? that way i guess you could kill two birds with one stone 😉

Morning Venus,

Good stuff, I just reread your story of your two year relationship. Sorry It didnt work out, seems it may be for the best. I'd hate to think I put a man through that kinda stuff. As far as the 8th house and the intense sexual stuff, that is me too a tee. I've truely had to pull in the raines on myself. lol Yes you said the Cap in his moon makes him a cool person. This is true, but Im wondering if it is just him getting to know me. Im not sure if Taurus men are romantic in a cards and flowers kinda way. I see my Taurus more the come in and fix what is broke romantic *S*. That is a good thing by the way, I have many things that need fixing. It's just that this relationship is different on many levels for me. Not bad, just different. Im use to being swept of my feet and being wooed...you know us Libras...have to have that ego stroked constantly..LOL. I'm a bit older now, that stuff is not as important anymore, but the sex is. So, I guess that is what I'll have to work on. I'm gonna check out that url you gave me for the 8th house. You say that covers sex huh? Ive really got to find out what time he was born. Well Venus, have the best day..cant wait to read your post. Thanks for everything!

Sunshine