Will a Taurus contemplate going back to their ex-partner, because children are involved, even if they are in love with someone else? Are Taurus females the type to give up love to make their children happy? I've never known a Taurus to be self-sacrificing, not saying their aren't any, but I haven't met any. I have always been under the impression that Taurus make their own decisions and do what will make them happy. Any thoughts will be much appreciated.
Are Taurus females self sacrificing?

I can honestly answer your question with a "no". I have been in that situation before and there was nothing my son's father could do or say to make me change my mind about going back to him. A Taurus will also follow their heart. If I had been in love with someone else, I could/would not be able to go back to my ex. There is also something else about us that people should know. A lot of contemplation goes into our decision making process. Especially a life changing decision. Once we finally make that decision, it is very rare that we change our mind.
In the end, it's not really about whether or not we're self-sacrificing it is making the decision as to what is right for ourselves. In my case, staying with an abusive ex would not have been good for me nor healthy for my son. That decision that I made so long ago was not without some intense emotion and contemplation. But I sure as hell didn't want my son to grow up in an abusive home or worse become an abuser himself.
In the end, it's not really about whether or not we're self-sacrificing it is making the decision as to what is right for ourselves. In my case, staying with an abusive ex would not have been good for me nor healthy for my son. That decision that I made so long ago was not without some intense emotion and contemplation. But I sure as hell didn't want my son to grow up in an abusive home or worse become an abuser himself.
Thanks for your comment. The child often ask about the other mother and says he misses her. That on top of pressure from family to give the children a familiar home with the other parent led my friend to contemplate going back to the ex. She says her choice was always me, and kept reiterating that she loves and wants to be with me but just needed a few days to get her mind right and ponder. She thought about it maybe a day and said she can't see her life without me in it and I was always her choice, she just needed to think some things out. She told me she wants us to have a future together and so on. I believe her. However, the fact that she was even contemplating going back to the ex has me feeling kind of hot. If you know you love and want me, why even think about it? It has me feeling a little insecure in our relationship now and I find myself pulling back. She is upset, stating she can feel she is losing me and I am no longer making her a priority as far as taking every call, responding to text in a timely manner, coming over whenever she ask and so on. She doesn't seem to understand how she brought about my doubt with her actions.
My thing is, is she truly loves me like she claims, could she have even been contemplating going back for the kids sake? Maybe she don't love me as much as she thinks. She says she loves the ex, but their time has past, and she put all into the relationship but the ex didn't try and get it together until she found out about me.
My thing is, is she truly loves me like she claims, could she have even been contemplating going back for the kids sake? Maybe she don't love me as much as she thinks. She says she loves the ex, but their time has past, and she put all into the relationship but the ex didn't try and get it together until she found out about me.

maybe she loves HER KIDS more than she loves you...someone who's willing to cut and run without considering how difficult it is for a parent to be without their children.
if she didn't contemplate it, she'd be a horrible mother. doesn't mean she'll go back but "for the kids" seems like a fairly normal question to me.
if she didn't contemplate it, she'd be a horrible mother. doesn't mean she'll go back but "for the kids" seems like a fairly normal question to me.
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