I just want to knoe if anyone else is in a relationship with a virgo becaue i need some advice I met my boyfriend 2 years ago it was almost like we were made for eachother he hates to rush things and I am slow to open up so it worked out perfectly once everything start rolling which was not that long a go we've been haveing some difficulties mainly I guess on his ego and my dictating I don't know what to do in most situations i know I am right why— I just do but I usually...well always back down jst to make everything "okay" but sometimes I get very angry and Tauruses you know how that is and it turns into a HUGE fight, HELP PLEASE
Aurus and Virgo relationship
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I'm sure that you will learn to overcome your difficulties, since astrologically you two ARE "made for each other".
Ah you are right, Virgos don't like being dictated to, but the nice thing is that they don't try to dictate to anyone either. Don't criticise him, Virgos hate to be criticised because they secretly criticise themselves all of the time. So thye need encouragement from others, not more criticism.
Try to find out what he is doing that you really don't like, (not many things, just one or two, or he'll feel criticised), tell it to him very gently, once, that it is hurting you. I'm sure that he'll think it over. Just don't keep on saying it again and again, (I'm not sure if it's like this with all Virgos, but I have a perverse streak where I just refuse to do something that is told to me MANY times.)
Good luck...
I'm sure that you will learn to overcome your difficulties, since astrologically you two ARE "made for each other".
Ah you are right, Virgos don't like being dictated to, but the nice thing is that they don't try to dictate to anyone either. Don't criticise him, Virgos hate to be criticised because they secretly criticise themselves all of the time. So thye need encouragement from others, not more criticism.
Try to find out what he is doing that you really don't like, (not many things, just one or two, or he'll feel criticised), tell it to him very gently, once, that it is hurting you. I'm sure that he'll think it over. Just don't keep on saying it again and again, (I'm not sure if it's like this with all Virgos, but I have a perverse streak where I just refuse to do something that is told to me MANY times.)
Good luck...
I just wanted to thanks to your comment, everything you say is so true about him i do kinda nag to him and he does say he hates it but for some reason I feel he is not hearing me completely or understanding completely but as far as the encouraging part I have just picked up on that and he really loves it I can tell 😉
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