Booty call with a Taurus female.

I am a well balanced Libran male. I have recently for the last 3 weeks started to see this Taurus lady. Our love making is wonderful. We hang out well together. We can talk for hours and be comfortable doing so. I know from her stories she has had alot of bad experiences with Libra males before me. She basically laid out our "time" together and made it clear from the start she wanted me for a booty call. I accepted as it had been along time for me. Then after we began sleeping together I found myself madly attracted to her. I can't even tell her that I like her more than that as she skirts from the issue almost instantly. I am not falling in love mind you as I know that takes a bit of time. I just cant figure her out. She tells me that we are going to go away for a weekend, and have a romantic time, which I am all for, but I can't call her on the phone she wont answer most of the time. I have only certain days of the week I can chat with her as that is our only means of contact other than when she wants to see me.. (No she is not married as I have been to her home already.)... Im just not used to this type of arrangement. I know she cares for me in her own way and we still go out like a regular date, but don't call it a date... She tells me that I am the only man in her life, and as I can spot a lair very well I believe her. I just don't know what to do other than go with the flow and see if one day she wants more....

Useful suggestions?

I dated and was engaged to a Libra man. She is going to be very, very, very careful. I know from a long history of experience with Libra people (in general, but with the men specifically) that they are VERY engaging, attentive, chivalrous, and all the rest, and that's all good. They also (can) fall out of love just as easily as they fall in love. Again, all people are different, and I'm NOT saying this is you, but a Taurus person; especially a hurt female is going to be very leery at first. We love hard, and we don't take it lightly, so you will likely be in this stage for awhile. About 2 months in with me and my ex-fiance' was professing his love for me. I fell in love with him about 6 months into the relationship, but didn't tell him until like 9 months. NOW, I'm not like all Taurus women, so I may be an anomoly; however, from what you've described of her, I am very much like a lot of her characteristics. If you play your cards right, she will (if she hasn't already) fall for you, but it's probably going to take awhile for her to tell you. Just my .02 🙂

Try and just be patient with her, any kind of pressure from your side for her to do something she is not ready for will make her want to go the opposite direction. I don't know about other Taurus folks, but if I am seeing someone for just booty call purpose, it usually has to be with someone I really like, and even then I know I could fall for that person I control myself from falling for the guy because of past hurts. It's the best way for me to shut out those feelings and just have fun with someone without having to get heavy in the relationship. I was seeing a guy for just sex, but he started saying stuff like I want you to be my girl, let me be your man etc, and all that past kept coming back to me when my exes said the same to get me to be with them, so I had to end it... I am extremely cautious of men now and more slower than I used to be with getting into something serious, I take my sweet time now.
Take your time, go with her flow and see where it goes, you never know she might just realise you are not like other guys and worth it for her to actually make you her man.