Cancer and Taurus dynamic

I always feel that Taurus people are one the few signs that can see my vulnerability without coming out and saying it. As a Cancer I can see they are serious people but they seem to relax around me when I show I am not trying to compete or take something away from me

A few questions though....

Why does the opposite party always have to be the to initiate meetups with a Taurus. If I want to see my Taurus friend out of state I usually have to be the one to do all the planning .They are happy to see me but I feel they don't try to ever make a huge effort to visit me. I just wonder about what this dynamic is about internally. It doesn't really offend me that bad just wondering the motivation or thinking behind it.

Also I noticed that many women with Taurus moons especially like money, they pretty much go along with what you want as long as you don't raise your voice to them. I find that really nice but they have expensive taste when you are courting them! I enjoy myself but my Cancer thrifty nature has to go out the windows when I am with a Taurus woman lol

These are just a few questions I always had and honesty is appreicated.

LOL - my Cancer friend hasn't hit me up in 6 months and so we haven't spoken. Hahahahah....This is hilarious.

I just don't initiate hang-outs. I'm easygoing and will do basically whatever, so my friends know that about me, and are calling me up or texting me with plans all the time. I don't even have time to plan anything because I'm too busy acquiescing to everyone else's plans. You have to understand. Taurus are perfectly content to just sit at home. LOL - there goes the incentive to plan anything or initiate anything. Think of a Taurus like a pet rock. Just drag them around wherever you want them to go. Wherever you set them down, there they will be until you drag them again...lol.