CRAZY TAURUS WOMAN HELP?!!!!

My mom calls me three times a day and if I don't call or return the call she starts phoning up the police stations or hospitals to see if I am dead! How can I tell her to tone it down? And is it normal to call three times a day? She continually talks negatively, and tries to force her strict morals and values expecting me to adopt all of them. Or she might gossip about the family (which I don't give a rat's ass about), say how useless/lazy/crazy/ugly I am and if I ignore her, she says I am not accepting the truth! SHE NEVER SAID ONE GOOD THING ABOUT ME!!! If I don't answer her calls, she will think I am either:
-Raped
-Murdered
-Mobbed
-Kidnapped

She went CRAZY when I didn't answer her call due to the fact that I was showering at that time!!!

Posted by vegansagittarius
And is it normal to call three times a day?

You're still a teenager and parents calling three times a day, assuming they know you're not at home, in school or something along those lines, is pretty standard business I believe. I've seen way more suffocating scenarios.

But I get you, if my mom started phoning the police and hospitals to see if I'm dead just because I didn't return her calls right away, I would advise her to go see a therapist because there are obviously some underlying, deeper issues at hand from her side. Have you tried talking to her about this? Does she realize how down right scary and psychotic this behaviour comes across? And have you ever given her a reason to act this way?

No. I think she has some anxiety. She cannot eat or think properly every day in fear that I might get raped, murdered, etc. My little brother needs MORE help than I ever need. He is struggling at school and struggling with social interactions. She concentrates and directs all her negativity on me! And if I don't listen to her insults, she will accuse me of having autism or some variable sh*t. I am very busy with university and she could not see that. If I see that I have missed her call I will always call back. But she won't even give me time! She will immediately assume that I am raped! She refuses to get a therapist or get a job. She makes excuses up about how she can't get a job or how selfish I am. So if she's being a top housewife, WHAT THE HELL IS HAPPENING TO MY BROTHER'S GRADES?! I am nearly 19 and she is behaving so crazy. I don't want to listen to her rant about negative stuff all the time and accuse me of other things when I don't want to listen to her rant. She will say "did your boyfriend ditch you" just because I don't want to listen to her! How dare she comes up with these conclusions!? She is no Taurus! Tauruses aren't clingy!? I thought she was a freaking Cancer!