Do Bulls use shyness as an excuse for selfishness?

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Reservedness could also apply instead of shyness as far as Im concerned.

I've met tons of Taurus females for the past year or so, in the past I never really gave them the time of day but now that I've known plenty I've been able to see them from different angles. In general I love most of them and we hit it off instantly as a fellow Earth sign (I truly adore them!) I understand that Taurus are not the most outgoing sign out there, but surely if you give them space and time to warm up they can be as outgoing as anybody else! This is why I dont really buy it when you guys use the "we are basically shy/reserved so thats why we may come off as selfish" In a way I feel Taureans delude themselves and have absolutely no idea sometimes of how they come across to others, or maybe you do but you dont care either way..looking at it this way, would you be surprised if you hear that you're probably the most selfish sign of the zodiac?
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I don't really see how shyness and selfishness are related, but anyway, recently, new people have been hired and when I mentioned it to a Virgo coworker(! 😆), she asked me what the person in question was like. I described what she looks like as best as I could, and gave a general idea about what she blabbed about with the one coworker she was talking with because I and the Scorpio who was there were not really saying anything.

The Virgo wanted details of her personality, but I couldn't answer that because the new coworker started when my shift was almost over. I explained to the Virgo, "Remember that me and Scorpio coworker don't mind people we don't know but we're not overenthusiastic about throwing ourselves at and being involved with them". Virgo said what can be translated as, "I hope she's not a bitch/snob". Also, in my case, I like to restrain myself when talking about another person when it comes to their behavior unless I'm EXTREMELY exasperated by them because while they piss me off, they might actually get along with each other and vice versa. People's opinion of another should be based on their own experience with them not anyone else's. Their judgment may be clouded because of hearsay.