Do you like to dwell or move on?

When someone has pissed you off and you do your ignoring thing, if they contact you do you prefer them to rehash the issue to discuss it or would you rather they move on?



Being aqua I like talking things through immediately which I know you HATE!! You go into your heads and think think think!!

Taurus do think a lot, and carefully, but once they've thought, they do like to clear things up and restore balance. Nothing irks us more than unresolved issues or "not knowing" something, we need a conclusion. We think so that we have all areas covered and know where to come from, as taurus doesnt use their words lightly, they wont say what they dont mean usually.

Posted by 2LoV3

When someone has pissed you off and you do your ignoring thing, if they contact you do you prefer them to rehash the issue to discuss it or would you rather they move on?



Being aqua I like talking things through immediately which I know you HATE!! You go into your heads and think think think!!

Oh I do love Aqua's!

It depends on the situation. I'm going to base it on myself. When someone has hurt my feelings, they either acknowledge it before I have time to brew or else I'll kindly need my space... even if that's a day. I will wait for them to come to me... if it takes them a long time to do it, I will gently put them in my 'to ignore until further notice list' OR approach them reluctantly if I care and try to talk things through.

I like and respect someone who can take responsibility for their words and actions. They should be strong and maturely address me asking to talk things out. I remember my Libra man asked if we could talk and I agreed only to find out he had nothing concrete to say or hadn't acknowledged anything. Do not be that person lol.

If you're in the wrong, for the most part, (takes two to tango tho, remember that) then apologise and explain your behaviour. Present things fairly, don't overly apologise or it won't come off as sincere. Explain the situation, why it was said, done, explain all angles (That might have to do with my Virgo moon tho) that you're sorry (Apologise once, no need to go overboard). Work on the 'moving forward' aspect, don't just say I'm sorry, say how you both can move forward to avoid a misunderstanding. State what you need and that you're someone who needs to talk it through so we can also get an insight into how you work vs how we work. Be objective and realistic... this won't be the last time we will have conflicts, this is how we could resolve them in future blah blah blah. Ask open questions about what we think of the situation or if we feel there is anything to add or whether you have hit all the spots. Cuddle and make up... whatever that means for the both of you!!!

Communication is super difficult for a Taurus. If you're in the wrong we appreciate you being forthcoming. If we are in the wrong, a MATURE Taurus will come to you. If he/she doesn't... then either they are blind to their actions or plain prideful. Give them space, then try to communicate always in a friendly and pleasant non-accusatory manner.

Rehashing the issue, if it is unresolved, is good. Again, it depends on the maturity of your Taurus, I find Taurus men to be incredibly more stubborn than their female counterparts (My father is an example to behold!!!).