@shortii
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don't want to smother the bull. ..
How to Balance Affection for a Taurus with Gem Venus and Leo Mars
To avoid smothering a Taurus with your love, communicate openly about boundaries and give him space. Taurus values stability and independence, so respecting his need for personal time helps strengthen your relationship. Focus on quality over quantity of affection and be attentive to his comfort level to maintain harmony.
Meanwhile, I'm practically desperate to be "smothered" by the woman I'm interested in and according to most, her sign is one that supposedly isn't into that at all. :/
Anyway, my post is proof that if we give a shit about you in a romantic way, WE WOULD LOVE TO BE SMOTHERED BY YOU.
Were there a bunch of spelling errors or extra words you didn't type? 😆
Posted by 2N3R
Meanwhile, I'm practically desperate to be "smothered" by the woman I'm interested in and according to most, her sign is one that supposedly isn't into that at all. :/Anyway, my post is proof that if we give a shit about you in a romantic way, WE WOULD LOVE TO BE SMOTHERED BY YOU.
I'm curious what star sign is she? ... As for me, Taurus sun Venus in Gemini. If I love you.. I like to get in touch with you day by day basis. Consistency is what I am after. I do like to feel loved everyday but don't over do it.. His Venus in gemini does like you to be a little different.. Surprise Him with gifts etc.. I brought my ex to tree adventure once for his birthday. Being Adventurous is exciting for Venus in Gemini. I am a Taurus that's more like.." up and go" and " live in the moment"... I would love to be taken to new places.. Me personally anyway .
It keeps the love alive.. So it won't go dull ...
Why do you think you're smothering him?
He's a Taurus Sun w/ Leo Mars like myself.
I personally don't mind the one I have romantic interest in being all over me. It compliments Mars in Leo, we want to be adored, even idealized by our partner. In return, we will treat you like royalty when outing with us, and will provide great romance and affection, be it physical or emotional. +Venus wants to be loved, adored and pleased.
However, I wouldn't want too much calling, texting, interrupting, etc. When we are together you can have me all you want, but when I'm out there doing my thing I don't want to be bothered as much. Finding a middle ground is important for anything.
Im a Pisces sun/aires Venus and sag moon
Posted by Theatrum
Why do you think you're smothering him?He's a Taurus Sun w/ Leo Mars like myself.
I personally don't mind the one I have romantic interest in being all over me. It compliments Mars in Leo, we want to be adored, even idealized by our partner. In return, we will treat you like royalty when outing with us, and will provide great romance and affection, be it physical or emotional. +Venus wants to be loved, adored and pleased.
However, I wouldn't want too much calling, texting, interrupting, etc. When we are together you can have me all you want, but when I'm out there doing my thing I don't want to be bothered as much. Finding a middle ground is important for anything.
I agree. He's got a physical job while I have a mental (recruiting). So during the week im more respectful ofnhis time and mine. He gets a good morning. . How was your night.. then at thw end of the day he gets a how was your day. Etc. We laugh n joke. .and then call it a night.
Posted by 2N3R
Meanwhile, I'm practically desperate to be "smothered" by the woman I'm interested in and according to most, her sign is one that supposedly isn't into that at all. :/Anyway, my post is proof that if we give a shit about you in a romantic way, WE WOULD LOVE TO BE SMOTHERED BY YOU.
I'm curious what star sign is she? ... As for me, Taurus sun Venus in Gemini. If I love you.. I like to get in touch with you day by day basis. Consistency is what I am after. I do like to feel loved everyday but don't over do it.. His Venus in gemini does like you to be a little different.. Surprise Him with gifts etc.. I brought my ex to tree adventure once for his birthday. Being Adventurous is exciting for Venus in Gemini. I am a Taurus that's more like.." up and go" and " live in the moment"... I would love to be taken to new places.. Me personally anyway .
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I do. I send him thoughtful gifts. . Little surprises. So he knows he's loved..practical things. . Shoes he likes. .watches. .baseball caps.. do you all keep this in your emotional database so that when it's time to reciprocate you do big time?
I also send him links to songs that say things I can't find the words for. We've got a long history.
Posted by 2N3R
Meanwhile, I'm practically desperate to be "smothered" by the woman I'm interested in and according to most, her sign is one that supposedly isn't into that at all. :/Anyway, my post is proof that if we give a shit about you in a romantic way, WE WOULD LOVE TO BE SMOTHERED BY YOU.
I'm curious what star sign is she? ... As for me, Taurus sun Venus in Gemini. If I love you.. I like to get in touch with you day by day basis. Consistency is what I am after. I do like to feel loved everyday but don't over do it.. His Venus in gemini does like you to be a little different.. Surprise Him with gifts etc.. I brought my ex to tree adventure once for his birthday. Being Adventurous is exciting for Venus in Gemini. I am a Taurus that's more like.." up and go" and " live in the moment"... I would love to be taken to new places.. Me personally anyway .
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LULZ!!!! I also have Venis in Gemini. Anyway, the woman in question is a Libra.
*Venus
*the phone thing*
Posted by 2N3R
*Venus*the phone thing*
Posted by shortii
I also send him links to songs that say things I can't find the words for. We've got a long history.
I do that too.. Only the man I loved truly... It sounds like you are doing great. I do like receiving gifts too but to me a nice romantic dinner .. Home cooked meal with a nice glass of redwine... Relaxing music and candle lights with a beautiful scene.. melts me heart...it's a perfect date for me...* day dreaming *
I am not a fan of my Venus in Gemini.... I am all over the place with my feelings at times...
Posted by 2N3R
*Venus*the phone thing*
r u laughing because I just described you? LoL
No, it's just that we're having issues when using our phones. 😆 Regarding my V in G, i haven't really noticed it much......... i think? But I want to cuddle and be smothered!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by shortii
I also send him links to songs that say things I can't find the words for. We've got a long history.I do that too.. Only the man I loved truly... It sounds like you are doing great. I do like receiving gifts too but to me a nice romantic dinner .. Home cooked meal with a nice glass of redwine... Relaxing music and candle lights with a beautiful scene.. melts me heart...it's a perfect date for me...* day dreaming *
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That's my plan when he comes to visit. He's never had my cooking before. I've been told I should have been a chef.. like 3 or 4 courses.
He's coming to visit to look at the area. .make a perm move. Just wanted him to feel relaxed. . At peace and loved inside and out.
Posted by shortii
I also send him links to songs that say things I can't find the words for. We've got a long history.I do that too.. Only the man I loved truly... It sounds like you are doing great. I do like receiving gifts too but to me a nice romantic dinner .. Home cooked meal with a nice glass of redwine... Relaxing music and candle lights with a beautiful scene.. melts me heart...it's a perfect date for me...* day dreaming *
That's my plan when he comes to visit. He's never had my cooking before. I've been told I should have been a chef.. like 3 or 4 courses.
He's coming to visit to look at the area. .make a perm move. Just wanted him to feel relaxed. . At peace and loved inside and out.
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sounds like you r close to perfection! I should start dating a fish!! 🙂
Aww. Thanks STVG. He is my heart. I just want him happy. He's been through so much with very few moments in his life. I really just want him to see that it is possible and obtainable. Even on a basic level. . I want to show him that you can make dreams reality. Starting at home and radiating out to the world.
Posted by shortii
Aww. I want to show him that you can make dreams reality.Such a Pisces thing to say, and that's what I love about you guys. Taurus loves their home and they love homemakers (people who can cook and make the home atmosphere comfortable, relaxing, and aesthetically pleasing).
Good luck, I think you're off to a great start.
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Thank you. I was thinking that right after i posted..such a Pisces train of thought. LOL
I hope so. I've waited a long long time for this chance. He said that he's not letting this chance go again and that he's no dummy. He said that he knows that I'm a good woman and wouldn't be in my life if he didn't know in his heart that we have a chance. Love that man. Can't wait to build a home and life together.
And he loves to dance as much as I do. That's one thing that I have always had a hard time finding. Someone who loves to dance and keep up with me. We haven't danced together yet but I can't wait. If he can keep up with me..this woman's dreams are finally on their way to coming true.
Posted by shortii
Aww. Thanks STVG. He is my heart. I just want him happy. He's been through so much with very few moments in his life. I really just want him to see that it is possible and obtainable. Even on a basic level. . I want to show him that you can make dreams reality. Starting at home and radiating out to the world.
🙂 so sweet. I saw your question about us dreaming. Me personally I don't day dream at all. I do have an image of what I would like my life to be like. How I want a perfect family etc. I have trouble day dreaming. I live in the moment an let it unfold by itself. Making a dream a reality is very pieces 🙂 its cute.. but I don't operate that way even If I wish so...
Posted by shortii
Aww. Thanks STVG. He is my heart. I just want him happy. He's been through so much with very few moments in his life. I really just want him to see that it is possible and obtainable. Even on a basic level. . I want to show him that you can make dreams reality. Starting at home and radiating out to the world.🙂 so sweet. I saw your question about us dreaming. Me personally I don't day dream at all. I do have an image of what I would like my life to be like. How I want a perfect family etc. I have trouble day dreaming. I live in the moment an let it unfold by itself. Making a dream a reality is very pieces 🙂 its cute.. but I don't operate that way even If I wish so...
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Just want to show him its okay to let go a bit. . And that whatever he dreams about. .I want to make happen. It's okay to trust me.
He's a gem Venus like you.
Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
A Pisces in love is a beautiful thing. Hard to find a more supportive partner. Lucky man. 🙂
Hope he sees it.
Posted by CluelessCancer
I think BULLS are perfect for us water signs, but it's hard to find them!
Like I said on a thread at the Capricorn forum, we must be the Where's Waldo? of the zodiac. 😆
Posted by CluelessCancer
I think BULLS are perfect for us water signs, but it's hard to find them!Like I said on a thread at the Capricorn forum, we must be the Where's Waldo? of the zodiac. 😆
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Hmmm...that's weird because I ALWAYS seem to run into bulls, both male and female.
I agree that Cap men I don't usually come across too much. I've only recently been forming friendships with female Caps, and I must say I really like them 🙂
Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
A Pisces in love is a beautiful thing. Hard to find a more supportive partner. Lucky man. 🙂Hope he sees it.
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beautiful! Where do I find a fish? Where do you ppl hang out :p I never dated one and rarely do I come across a pisces female!! Sweet individuals!!!
Posted by shortii
Aww. Thanks STVG. He is my heart. I just want him happy. He's been through so much with very few moments in his life. I really just want him to see that it is possible and obtainable. Even on a basic level. . I want to show him that you can make dreams reality. Starting at home and radiating out to the world.🙂 so sweet. I saw your question about us dreaming. Me personally I don't day dream at all. I do have an image of what I would like my life to be like. How I want a perfect family etc. I have trouble day dreaming. I live in the moment an let it unfold by itself. Making a dream a reality is very pieces 🙂 its cute.. but I don't operate that way even If I wish so...
click to expandJust want to show him its okay to let go a bit. . And that whatever he dreams about. .I want to make happen. It's okay to trust me.
He's a gem Venus like you. it depends on what kind of dream you are talking about. 🙂
"Look for the person staring into space, while sitting at a table full of people. **Pisces escapism** Sparkly eyes and warm energy. If she lets you do most of the talking when you first meet, she may be a Pisces."
Oh my god! Are pisces that predictable? I didn't know how pisces I am until this sentence.. hahahahah
Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
A Pisces in love is a beautiful thing. Hard to find a more supportive partner. Lucky man. 🙂Hope he sees it.
beautiful! Where do I find a fish? Where do you ppl hang out :p I never dated one and rarely do I come across a pisces female!! Sweet individuals!!!
Look for the person staring into space, while sitting at a table full of people. **Pisces escapism** Sparkly eyes and warm energy. If she lets you do most of the talking when you first meet, she may be a Pisces. 😉
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+1 that's usually me
I guess I'm not smothering after all. . Just have to kind of understand him. He reached out to e yesterday upset about a tough ordeal he's dealing with. Truly stressful and super hard. He said be loves me and wants to see me. Wants to curl up and just hold me. Hate that we are so far away from each other. It hurts. I hope he can hold out a few more months..and I hope that he doesn't give up on us bc of the distance.
Is it safe to say I have his heart or I'm getting there?
Posted by piscesreisen
"Look for the person staring into space, while sitting at a table full of people. **Pisces escapism** Sparkly eyes and warm energy. If she lets you do most of the talking when you first meet, she may be a Pisces."Oh my god! Are pisces that predictable? I didn't know how pisces I am until this sentence.. hahahahah
wow ! Great advice !!! It could be because I was never drawn to shy men and I think Pisces men are more reserved .I don't chase either so I never come across one.. Could that be the case? Pisces sound like a great lover indeed 🙂 I'm close with a girl with a moon in Pisces . She's great!!! Sorry shorti I will let bring your thread back to what we were talking about earlier!!! Ohhh romantic dinner with a bull 🙂
No STVG
Posted by shortii
No STVG
well your thread...definitely made me wanna find a fish lover 😄 he will be such a sweet heart ..and a sweet lover like yourself ! ><
do you think Pisces like cooking ? 😛 that will be a perfect man indeed.. :p we bulls r easy to please....home cooked dinner...and we are set.
..( for me personally anyway )
Posted by shortii
No STVGclick to expandwell your thread...definitely made me wanna find a fish lover 😄 he will be such a sweet heart ..and a sweet lover like yourself ! >
Aww. Thanks TSVG..
^^^^ you suit a bull much better...🙂
Thanks . I think so too. He's currently sick with a stomach bug. Not sure if I give him space or keep checking on him. Followed up with him this am. Said he was a bit better. Then was quiet since. I assume space is needed. This distance thing sucks. He's hard to read. :-/
The bull has been calling me now more than ever. . When he calls he just chats me up. Not for very long..like 30 to 45 minutrd max...But as of late he's been calling and venting his frustrations about work. Which I was surprised. He also let me choose an outfit for him for a wedding that he went to. Lastly he ttold me to never ask to call him and that I can call him anytime I want. ..
Good things?
^^^ shorti. He shares his Venus in Gemini and yes we love talking. I will be in the same boat as your r LDR which sucks but I guess communication and excitements will keep us going.. 😄. He said call him whenever you need to then do :X: your Leo moon should know what to do 🙂. Mine talks... Alottttttt but I love listening lol. I usually talk like no tomorrow with others n it's nice to switch a role once in a while :p. Awww im thinking that our placements will involve traveling Exciting ventures.. Explore the world etc.. N giving each other lots of space. Ur venus n leo know what to do 😄 Awwww damn I'm
In Love again ..:p
Posted by SunTauVenGem
^^^ shorti. He shares his Venus in Gemini and yes we love talking. I will be in the same boat as your r LDR which sucks but I guess communication and excitements will keep us going.. 😄. He said call him whenever you need to then do :X: your Leo moon should know what to do 🙂. Mine talks... Alottttttt but I love listening lol. I usually talk like no tomorrow with others n it's nice to switch a role once in a while :p. Awww im thinking that our placements will involve traveling Exciting ventures.. Explore the world etc.. N giving each other lots of space. Ur venus n leo know what to do 😄 Awwww damn I'm
In Love again ..:p
Im SO excited and happy for you. ——
It is a wonderful feeling. :0) so excited for you. Xoxo
He's got sun tau, ven gem, libra moon n leo mars.
Me: sun pis, ven aires, sag moon n aqua mars.
Very thought provoking conversations. .lol
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But I do love him. He always tell me he loves me too or he says it first too.
How do I keep from smothering him. We live in 2 different states.
That's the last thing I wanna do. How much affection is too much for a Taurus sun w/ gem Venus & Leo mars?