Forgive and Forget

Hi all I have posted here before but it was a while back, I will try to make my story short. I am a Scorpio Sun and Taurus Moon and my baby daddy as we will call him is a Taurus Sun/Capricorn Moon. Our relationship started a year ago, went really fast it was the chemistry and the sexual attraction. About 3 months after that I found out I was pregnant and at first he was supportive, but he got nervous I guess and he wanted me to terminate the pregnancy I decided not to and he didn't get very upset and we didn't argument anything like that but him being stubborn he wanted me to do as he said. me being a scorpio no one tells me what to do(lol). So he was like just call me when you decide what you want to do, I never call him I felt like obviously the baby is not what he wanted and the hell with him.

We both were stubborn and didn't have contact for months until she was born on my birthday the 14th of Nov we spoke, he said something about a DNA test, he then came to the hospital he look at her, he knew that she was his baby, and I decided to let her carry his surname. now he wants to plan her entire future from where she is going to school, and he says she is going to have the best of everything. I am very friendly with him, we don't argue or anything like that but I feel I hold a grudge simply since he didn't want her, and now you want to plan her life. do you fellow taurus think this is typical taurus behavior.

first and foremost, congrats!

secondly, no, that's typical MALE behavior u described. every man i've ever known, whether or not they wanted to become a father, at some point got scared shitless. especially if this is his first then he was probably sick with anxiety. mind is racing about how he's gonna be as a father, the time and energy he will now sacrifice, the cost of raising a child... there are a lotta things to consider.

just be thankful that he's choosing to stick around and help u raise ur baby. there are many out there who would have just bailed. let him fuss over what schools to choose and whatnot. a lot of the time that first look at the baby is all it takes to change a person's mind. i've noticed this particularly with men.

thankyou you all for your comments and suggestion, I am very grateful that he is really trying to make up for lost time. Now my goal is to look to the future for raising our little girl and put the past behind me along with any grudges. Lastly, this is his first child snd I understand those emotions.