Friend or is He Interested?

Posted by Capri_unicorn
Sounds exactly like my bull in the beginning. He said the exact same thing to me. He wanted more, but wasn't sure if I did so he tested the waters often. He could be waiting to see if you are interested, he could want sex but doesn't want to be too forward so he's building up the comfort...has he said anything in the way of more than friends, he could have a girlfriend and just hasn't mentioned it so he's being platonic.

Yes he has, at least I think so lol. It wasn't extremely forward though. So when you mean he tested the waters often do you mean still see other women or test you?

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Posted by Capri_unicorn
Sounds exactly like my bull in the beginning. He said the exact same thing to me. He wanted more, but wasn't sure if I did so he tested the waters often. He could be waiting to see if you are interested, he could want sex but doesn't want to be too forward so he's building up the comfort...has he said anything in the way of more than friends, he could have a girlfriend and just hasn't mentioned it so he's being platonic.

Yes he has, at least I think so lol. It wasn't extremely forward though. So when you mean he tested the waters often do you mean still see other women or test you?

Tested as in said something subtly sexual to see how I would react. I was very closed off in the beginning and didn't really know how to respond to it. We remained strictly friends and talked every day for about 5 months. It wasn't until he invited me over and we just sat next to each other that I could feel just how bad he wanted to be more than friends. We barely said anything but his body language said everything. The next day he told me everything he was thinking. I couldn't believe all of that was going on while on the outside he "appeared" calm. He still tests me even now. Just be warned, Taurus is not the sign to be fwb with if you're not strong, independent and confident in yourself. Make sure you know what you're looking for should you decide to proceed to more. If you are interested in a relationship don't rush into sex or he might put you in his harem. If all goes well it could end up being one of the best experiences ever relationship wise. I loooooove Taurus men, but they can be very difficult at times.

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Thanks for the advice! I'm just wondering, if he does just want sex he's being a dumb dumb about it lol. Build rapport, sure good idea but not get in close proximity? Either way I'll tread carefully.

Posted by Capri_unicorn
Lol it does seem dumb, but Taurus are slow in general. They do not operate on normal people's time. He's gonna want to feel you out first. Do you know how old he is or his exact birthday?

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