Gemini/f and Taurus/m. (taurus doing distance?)

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by sweetgem on Monday, March 17, 2008 and has 4 replies.

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@sweetgem
19 Years

A month ago I started dating a Taurus guy.We get along well but i'm not sure if he sees us being exclusive. We haven't discussed it yet.
Last week I told him I'm thinking of moving to a city 5hours away. This move is something i've been planning even before i met him. He seems to be ok with the move. (which will probably happen at the end of April.) My question is he sticking around because he expects to carry on a long distance relationship, or is he staying in it because he wants a companion until it's time for me to go?

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@Taury23
18 Years

i guess it depends how he feels about you

after dating you only a month he could want to spend time with you until you leave. or he could be secretly hoping you could do long distance

i know as a taurus how i reacted to the guy i like telling me hes moving away

im not happy about it but hes gotta do whats best for him, and i will never let him know im not happy about it because that not fair on him

dont know if thats how your taurus guy is feeling? are males and females of the sign that different?

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@sweetgem
19 Years

Thanks for your input.
Last night i made him dinner. He said two things that led me to believe he isn't serious about us.
1) When i asked if he would visit me he said "maybe, only if you are a good girl."
2)During a discussion about families he said "One day when you have kids and a husband you'll look back and think of all the good times you had with that Taurus guy."

Now i'm led to believe that he isn't taking things seriously and he doesn't our relationship as a long term thing.

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@Taury23
18 Years

the first comment can be taken as yes he isnt interested or if he isnt sure how u would react he made a joke of it "if you are a good girl"

ive had a guy say to me a similar thing and like you i thought hmm he isnt serious about us either but someone said to me today maybe hes saying that because he thinks he isnt good enough for you?

its hard to say because in both instances it can be taken either way. did he seem like he was joking around?

did he seem genuinely pleased about you making him dinner? thats probably a better indication of how he feels about you.
i hope it all works out for you 🙂

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@sweetgem
19 Years

It seemed like he was joking when he said "maybe i'll visit if you're a good girl." A friend of mine thought he meant if i keep having sex with him then he'll come see me. Anyhow we are going out tonight. It seems he is into me, because he calls me every night before he goes to bed and he makes plans to meet a few few times a week.
Amyst i'll follow your advice and just relax.