GETTING A TAURUS MAN'S ATTENTION!!!!!!

hello! im a gemini girl... and i have found myself a taurus man i am interested in dating. being a gemini, i usually rely on communication to get me everywhere, but he seems to be playing on a completely different level. he's very hard to read and sometimes his stoic behavior confuses me. does this mean he's not interested or is that just part of a taurus' personality— I am very confused! i really want to catch his attention, but im not sure the best way to go about this. is it better to come onto him or let him do the work? should i try to be more outgoing or quiet around him? feminine or "one of the guys?" please help! i really like him! any tips would help!

Show interest and that you notice him, let him know that he stands out from the rest, in his own way, but at the same time be subtle (I'm not a Taurus, just learning to deal with one, would you Taurii agree with what I'm saying?). I turned my Taurus' head simply by saying that I remembered meeting him over two years ago, through an acquaintance. His response was "You remember me? Really?" That very simple acknowledgement of his specialness did it.

He's waiting to see how serious you are about him. I do this with Geminis as well, since they can be pretty flitty from time to time. If you are truly into him, stay at it, as in contact with him, and he'll sooner or later open up to you. He's just biding his time to see if you're genuinely interested or just "flinging" like some flighty Gems tend to do.

thanks everyone! really great advice! i really appreciate it. I have one more question, though. He is currently spending some time in another state for work, but I will soon be going there to visit some family and friends that I also have in the state. he mentioned once that he wanted to see me when I came out, but hasnt said anything about it since. when i go to visit, is it best to take control of the plan-making or should i wait for him to call me? and also, when i am there, we will be in large social groups, so should i make an effort to spend most of my time with him or should i try to show him that im a social butterfly? taurus men can be so confusing, but i love them so!

As far as the visit, I just did that recently and am going again in a few weeks. In my case, I had to do everything, the calling and the planning. It seemed like he could have cared less, but really that was just in my head, had nothing to do with anything he said or did. WE had an amazing time.
And if he already said he wanted to see you, believe him. I think most Taurus guys say things once, and don't see the need to repeat themselves. Did I get that one right, Taurii out there? (is that the plural of Taurus? "Tauruses" just sounds funny.)