Getting back a bull

Posted by OmagaIII
You have to return back to the state you where in when you met. The happiness, the smiles and the fun. The catch is, none of this really meant much to you when he approached you initially. Yet, their was something that drew him to you.

This might mean detaching emotionally totally and returning to who you where before he rocked your world. Till then, I don't think you will easily get him back. My scorp, after 2 months of NC realized this and she has gone back to when we met.

I feel that I am actually now starting to fall out of love with her. But I also know that this might be just what I need.

There is no way to really tell if he really has moved on or not. Generally we go into a type of 'mourning' period. We hide away and we just try and rebuild ourselves, especially if there is deep emotional hurt (Which btw is actually stupid and meaningful at the same time since being rejected flatout can sometimes trigger this response although the recovery, as expected, takes longer the longer we where around you prior to the supposed 'hurt'). We need to gather ourselves together. I will say this much, it takes time... and a lot of it. During this period there is the chance of return. I think my scorp took a chance. The fact is, despite me feeling like I am falling out of love because I am really just worn out emotionally for not really getting what I want from this amazing woman, I do still have deep feelings for her. And going back to who she was when we met doesn't mean I return to a point of not giving a damn about her. As a matter of fact I would still caress her, whisper in her ear, treat her if I can etc.

It just means that she also needs to realize, like your self, that there is a reason I chose to be around her and no one else but her. And the same goes for you. He made an effort because he saw something that he truly believes is, even if you didn't at the time. Again, my scorp didn't think anything of me, but since I have been detaching, she has been making concerted efforts and I really do appreciate it, because it proves that I do mean enough to her to at least try. And, I have also realized she realized that she needs to start opening up to me. And she really does, and her secret garden will bee a treasure to me that no manner of torture or bribery will ever leave my lips and heart. I trust her, and what she is now doing instills trust in me, and

Posted by peaceloveandhappiness
That's solid advice Leylia. You can't go wrong with showing tried and true love and effort to get a bull back! We give big and would enjoy seeing big on our return investment 🙂

Hmmm I think I would like to try one mah damn self 😛

Posted by Geminlove
Basically:
He tried
He tried
He tried
He tried
He tried
He tried
He tried
He tried
He tried
Hes tired..

Posted by Leylia12
They are so good at taking care of the one they love and they are so gentle. They are very obvious when they love someone and often people end up taking them for granted because they make it look so effortless. But push them hard enough and you'll lose them possibly forever without a warning...and unfortunately, it is only then that we realise how lucky we were. I am no taurus expert... but how I got mine back was simply being true to myself...I did somehow have it easy as my Bull still cared for me all this time. Try not to overthink everything that way you'll be free to act the way you should. You don't have to act tough or put up a front either...if you miss them let them know it. They are quiet people and they do crave attentions from the one they love... so grab their hand and hold it when it matters, look at them when you talk to them, laugh when you're happy, cry when you're sad... and most important, love them the way you want them to love you.


Good luck to all of you Gem... A good taurus man is more than worth it.