I am so persistate

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by virgom on Thursday, February 6, 2014 and has 9 replies.

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@virgom
12 Years

So I did some research created our natal charts and found out some very interesting things about myself and my Gemini friend.....

Him
sun Gem
Moon Cap
Asen virgo

me
sun virgo
moon Gem
Ascend scorpio

so my question is this...I have not spoken to him since Tuesday..I left him a note in his luggage thanking him for the trip to vegas..he responded tuesday with thanks for the note..I never responded..I figure I will just let him have his space..he didn't come home with me and stayed in vegas..

so now what do I just wait till he contacts me again or should I send him a quick text telling him I miss him? to much emotion right?
I am starting to understand where I went wrong with guy...starting to get a better picture on his approach to love..
instincts tell me don't say a word till he contacts me when he comes back..

what to do?

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@Xin
14 Years1,000+ Posts

Hum....I saw that he has a moon in capricorn. Hes probably going to be distant/cool even more so than Gemini is already. You need to give him his space. Also this has nothing to do with astrology but the man needs to be the aggressor not you. Don't text him. Let him come to you. But my guess seeing your posts is you can't do this type of thing. Ive read most of your posts and to me you're super clingy. Im also a Gemini and I can't stand being sought after. I mean ok it's nice to be chased but when it gets to be too much like overly texting me, leaving me notes (sorry), just doing things past the point of a normal human being (maybe water signs consider that normal LOL, and yes I know youre a virgo which is earth) turns me off.

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@virgom
12 Years

Posted by Whimsy
Sigh...I agree with you. Let HIM contact YOU. I don't think you will, though.

Lol..ya I def think you don't understand that I do not contact him first EVER..he got super pissy that "he had not heard from me". I respond when I am free..

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@virgom
12 Years

Posted by Xin
Hum....I saw that he has a moon in capricorn. Hes probably going to be distant/cool even more so than Gemini is already. You need to give him his space. Also this has nothing to do with astrology but the man needs to be the aggressor not you. Don't text him. Let him come to you. But my guess seeing your posts is you can't do this type of thing. Ive read most of your posts and to me you're super clingy. Im also a Gemini and I can't stand being sought after. I mean ok it's nice to be chased but when it gets to be too much like overly texting me, leaving me notes (sorry), just doing things past the point of a normal human being (maybe water signs consider that normal LOL, and yes I know youre a virgo which is earth) turns me off.

So me leaving him the note was only my way of saying thank you...I don't overly text him or communicate with him...he gets upset when he doesn't hear form me in 24 hrs lmao..he brought me to Vegas on a whim and pampered the hell out of me..so why not leave a cute little note in his bag before I left...he text me at airport before he even left parking lot..telling me he missed me...this is not me I fell back a long time ago..even when I feel the urge to text him I stay busy..put my phone on DNS...yes I talk about him on here alot because I am just like that the virgo in me has to analyze this situation and him because well that is what I do....I keep my feelings mostly to myself even when Its bursting to get out..
So yes mixed signals he is giving me...tells me he wouldn't want any one else to come to vegas with him but me...

I am learning to allow this gem his freedom while still being here..first and foremost he is my best friend..I use this board to vent..if that comes off as me being clingy well i guess it is what it is..my Venus in Scorpio makes this passionate and intense i can't help it..but I do not allow him to see it..