How are you Gems really doing...?

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How are you Gems really doing... ?

I have two good Gemini friends (and know of another that I'm not too fond of) that are just going through it, right now.

Trying to pull away from toxic people and situations-- pattern breaking, life-changing shit.

One is trying to get someone out, and my bff-- her significant other has more or less sold her out.

For his own benefit.

Posted by May31Baby
Hi 🙂

Times are hard at the moment miss leo. But itll be ok, it always is. Hope your friends come out unscathed. Gems are good at rolling with the punches.

Hows life for you?

I was just thinking of you!

Something you said about hanging on, no matter what (but I can't remember what thread, or why).

I'm good, May-- and thanks. 🙂

Yeah, you Gems are pretty tough-- but tbh, I just want to fix, fix, fix these things.

I know I can't-- just sucks seeing a Gemini down-- seems unnatural.

I hope things get better for you-- and fast.

Are you Venus in Cancer, too?

Posted by duchessedenemours
I'm crumbling on the inside, but I'm holding on. 🙂

I am growing, it's just slow moving at the moment.

Sorry to hear that-- but growing *is* progress.

Seems like it's easier to handle when there is something to look forward to.

I asked my friend where she wanted to be in the next few years-- she said "Well, that's already been decided-- *crappy boyfriend* wants to go ahead and pay his (back) taxes, buy this house, and...."

😐

(No wonder she's gloomy)

"Nooo-- where do YOU want to be?"

"Oh-- working in New York-- in an Yves Saint Laurent suit"

lol

She could do it, too. 🙂

I think I'm benefiting from the mercury rx in my natal chart cause I feel like teflon at the moment. Hopefully I can lay some ground work regarding a few really important things that I'll still be able to continue when this rx period ends 🙂 Sorry everyone is having issues, it won't last long 🙂

Can't keep a gem down for long even if there ain't nothing happening, thanks for asking 🙂

Posted by gggemini
ARGH! I am just drowning in bad times. Everything is looking unpleasant, and I am having an uncharacteristically ROUGH time letting go of the negativity lately. I have been very un-Gemini-like lately. Not acting like myself. Where has the Gem spirit gone? I'd like mine back, please!

Idk

You need to go find one of your Leo friends who will remind you of your innate awesome. 🙂

Posted by gemeliorist
I think I'm benefiting from the mercury rx in my natal chart cause I feel like teflon at the moment. Hopefully I can lay some ground work regarding a few really important things that I'll still be able to continue when this rx period ends 🙂 Sorry everyone is having issues, it won't last long 🙂

Can't keep a gem down for long even if there ain't nothing happening, thanks for asking 🙂

I like that lol

"I feel like teflon"

And you're welcome. 🙂

ask me what a Gemini is having for lunch? a Leo lol

What retrogrades?..I laffin in the face of retrogrades!!!!..ha ha ha ha ha...

laff

Really worked up lately. Im out for blood. My Gem mercury has been getting me into trouble but it's not ENTIRELY my fault seeing im getting stung the shit out of by my sun/merc 8th house. Pushing me to really get some vengeance on some annoyances lately.

No bullshit is being put up with. Anyone that says something to set me off gets it. Normally I just ignore this (libra rising/moon) and just walk away but NOOOOOOOOOO. Not for the past few weeks. My mouth has been out of control. Including at work. Someone disrespects me or gets snappy I do it right back + the evil eye. Doesn't seem anyone wants to play so much now.

May31baby - I also have Venus in Taurus. I also stick around longer than I should. Pretty patient when someone actually GIVES me a reason to trust that they will do x, y, z whatever it may be. But after. They push it and Im done. Ill charge you and leave. Done. DONE!

That's weird, Zin. I have the same placements (Sun/Merc in Gem in 8th house), and I've been really unusual for a couple of weeks. I'm normally completely laid-back, but I've been in 100% aggressive, no-bullshit, no-tongue-holding mode. I thought it was PMS, but it hasn't gone away!

Oops...sorry..."Xin".

Posted by Whimsy
That's weird, Zin. I have the same placements (Sun/Merc in Gem in 8th house), and I've been really unusual for a couple of weeks. I'm normally completely laid-back, but I've been in 100% aggressive, no-bullshit, no-tongue-holding mode. I thought it was PMS, but it hasn't gone away!

YAY! Finally someone with my same 8th house. But you totally understand right? Its definitely not PMS. Ive been EXACTLY the same way. I feel bad sometimes but then I just get mad again so it cancels out that "guilty" feeling.

Yes, I DO understand. I'm usually tactful and a pretty quiet, but I've been shooting my mouth off all over the place. And, you know what: it feels really liberating!

And so are we. LOL!

It seems to have the opposite effect on me, with my sun, venus, mars and merc in gem /9th house...I feel very talkative but that's norm right?..landed a 2nd job!.woo hoo!
It's in communications our forte!..seems as if retros can be a blessing as well...much encouragement to all who are having difficulties...

Posted by gggemini

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by gggemini
ARGH! I am just drowning in bad times. Everything is looking unpleasant, and I am having an uncharacteristically ROUGH time letting go of the negativity lately. I have been very un-Gemini-like lately. Not acting like myself. Where has the Gem spirit gone? I'd like mine back, please!

Idk

You need to go find one of your Leo friends who will remind you of your innate awesome. 🙂

Nice try, Montgomery! A Leo is what got me into this shame spiral in the first place! 😉

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Let me rephrase: go find one of your LIONESS friends who will remind you of your innate awesome.

(please don't tell me it was a woman, too lol)

My gem friend isn't like Xin-- she won't voice anything "bitchy", but I think she would feel so much better if she did.

As it stands, she internalizes all that mental garbage and ends up on a bender/drowning in negativity.

Maybe you also would benefit from telling someone to f*ck off?

*grin*

Anyway, all conditions are temporary-- and my initial point was that maybe being around someone who has typically brought out the best in you might help recharge your Gem spirit. 🙂

Posted by thebiggcarlos12345678910
you know i dunno whats up with all these negative talks about mercury retrograde and how it affects all of you. i know nothing about that at all and quite frankly could care less. the way i see it, as long as you're still alive and kickin and in good spirits, thats enough to be happy and thank god for.

Nice.

You ever posted your chart, tbc?

I have no idea where your moon is (I imagine it's fire, right?), or your Merc for that matter.

Glad all is well with you, though. 🙂

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by thebiggcarlos12345678910
you know i dunno whats up with all these negative talks about mercury retrograde and how it affects all of you. i know nothing about that at all and quite frankly could care less. the way i see it, as long as you're still alive and kickin and in good spirits, thats enough to be happy and thank god for.

Nice.

You ever posted your chart, tbc?

I have no idea where your moon is (I imagine it's fire, right?), or your Merc for that matter.

Glad all is well with you, though. 🙂

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Hmmm...a Scorp rising for Carlos, I think? Glad you are in good spirits, TBC!

I am doing alright. Torn hetween a sag boss and my job that I love... It'll work out tho, I'm sure.

I also think I was banned for almost 3 days..... Something to do with a proxy server my phone uses and the server of this site.... Go figure, right....? Lol!

Posted by Xin
I also have Venus in Taurus...

You are a Gem with venus in Taurus?!!!!! wow... you must be... very... very pretty lol

I'm alright, I guess.. 🙂
it's been somewhat boring recently, but things should change soon, as I'm going to be on a vacation from next week to next month!

family is okay..besides my younger brother, but he's getting better..if slowly
friends are good..
romance wise..seems like something's coming up, but don't know yet
for jobs, it's becoming too much, but then it's because of said vacation..trying to work as much as I can before the break
studying is not going so well lol..this one downside methinks.. but hopefully it'll turn for good 🙂

thank you for asking about gems! 🙂
and how are you? 😉

Posted by xxixxi
I'm alright, I guess.. 🙂
it's been somewhat boring recently, but things should change soon, as I'm going to be on a vacation from next week to next month!

family is okay..besides my younger brother, but he's getting better..if slowly
friends are good..
romance wise..seems like something's coming up, but don't know yet
for jobs, it's becoming too much, but then it's because of said vacation..trying to work as much as I can before the break
studying is not going so well lol..this one downside methinks.. but hopefully it'll turn for good 🙂

thank you for asking about gems! 🙂
and how are you? 😉

Good 🙂

I'm doing alright, thanks-- enjoying a couple of days off and these:

Vendor valentine goodies. Mmmm

Well, last week sucked for me, had a few hiccups(won't say what it is though)but one thing about our sign we bounce back immediately. I just don't like feeling down, not in my nature. There is always a solution, whether it be fixing something within me or fixing something external, it can all be mended.

Although fixing something internal, takes more time, something I hate cus I have no patience with myself.

I have the Scorp, he's really awesome with advice.

"Happy Valentines Day" Gems!

Posted by DeeG
Well, last week sucked for me, had a few hiccups(won't say what it is though)but one thing about our sign we bounce back immediately. I just don't like feeling down, not in my nature. There is always a solution, whether it be fixing something within me or fixing something external, it can all be mended.

Although fixing something internal, takes more time, something I hate cus I have no patience with myself.

I have the Scorp, he's really awesome with advice.

There is always a solution

Yes-- I like the way you think. 🙂

Posted by CharlieSlaughter

Posted by Xin
I also have Venus in Taurus...

You are a Gem with venus in Taurus?!!!!! wow... you must be... very... very pretty lol

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Thank you 🙂
I am of mixed origin so I do get a lot of compliments. I just wish I wasnt so picky when it comes to the opposite sex, maybe I would get more dates. But anything that I don't like I won't go for that person.

Posted by GandalftheGrey
i think i will marry a gemini in the future. just worried that she will log on to swingers.com when i am at work and do weird shit behind my back.

do you guys know how i can avoid gem's weird cheating tendencies.

i plan to use cameras everywhere. if i find her cheating i decided i will leave her in a room with a bunch of virgos.

good plan?

Im not sure why people think Gemini's cheat. We flirt a lot and that's not "cheating" per se but I guess to a water or fire sign that might be taken as "cheating". I think you need to really look at other influences and placements. I have venus/mars in Taurus and Im very loyal.

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by DeeG
Well, last week sucked for me, had a few hiccups(won't say what it is though)but one thing about our sign we bounce back immediately. I just don't like feeling down, not in my nature. There is always a solution, whether it be fixing something within me or fixing something external, it can all be mended.

Although fixing something internal, takes more time, something I hate cus I have no patience with myself.

I have the Scorp, he's really awesome with advice.

There is always a solution

Yes-- I like the way you think. 🙂

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Thanks Monty.....I really do love life, just wished I could do more, feels like we have so little time on this earth to do all the things we want to do.

I've had some real troublesome times(all brought on by my own ignorance and lack of patience with myself) but all in all, life itself is a beautiful thing!!

I used to be a chronic cheater, always ended up with someone just because and not truly in love. Shit I didn't even care if I got caught.

I don't do that anymore. I have learned to be patient and wait. Rather be accused of being picky than a cheater.

Having a Scorpio Moon and being a Gemini, I am super charged and extremely fickle...

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
Happy Valentine's Gems!

Elle? is it really you?

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Posted by DeeG

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
Happy Valentine's Gems!

Elle? is it really you?

Yes, it's really me 🙂

...but, like normal, there's a shit load of drama swirling around.

I just came back to say hi because I left without doing that.

how's the scorpio?

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Elle the Scorpio? That Elle? Oooo I see 🙂
I like you. I left around October and came back recently myself.

Hi Elle! 😉 And, Happy Valentine's Day! 🙂

It's good to see you back!

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Posted by DeeG

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
Happy Valentine's Gems!

Elle? is it really you?

Yes, it's really me 🙂

...but, like normal, there's a shit load of drama swirling around.

I just came back to say hi because I left without doing that.

how's the scorpio?

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He and I are doing amazing! A real evolved Scorp! Don't worry about the drama, worry when there isn't any.

You'll be fine....🙂