Disclaimer, this could take a moment to explain. So last summer I met a great Taurus guy and we immediately hit it off, just off the charts chemistry from our first conversation. We dated for a bit but cooled things off because we attended college 1,200 miles away from one another. He made it clear that he considered me future material and that he eventually wanted to pick things back up when we were at more stable places in our lives. Being the no nonsense cap that i am, i figured he was full of **** and quit talking to him. five weeks later he contacts me, and ever since then he's been texting me once a week, every couple weeks, and more often than not we have legitimate days long conversations (but make no mistake, sometimes he'll annoy the hell at of me by initiating contact but only used one word answers, that horrific taurus hot and cold crap). He tells me about every achievement in his life, and when i congratulate him it seems to mean the world to him...but it's only through texts. At this point it's been a year and my capricorn patience is wearing thin. I've tried to let it go but I can't shake the way I feel about this Taurus man. What's his deal? I'm so confused. How do I deal with this? I'm scheduled to fly into his home town for work in a couple weeks but I don't even know if Ishould tell him because he can be so hot and cold. Anyone with taurus/cap knowledge or experience please help me!
Help!!!! Capricorn woman confused by Taurus man!
Posted by idk
I don't know. But I am a taurus. And I need to go shower because certain things just take precedence. I stink. No rllly. I got this funky aroma following me. It might be a gemeni. But i don't want to risk it. I think I'll hibiclena tonight just to be safe....
I'm not sure why you felt the need to respond in such an inappropriate manner, but I feel that it goes without saying that you needn't respond to posts you don't care about. I'm just looking for insight, not insults.

curiouscap,
Don't just fly without wings. lol. I mean. If he is not consistent and no confirmation yet
just don't do anything. Taurus are stable when it comes to decision making. They will plan
ahead of time before telling you. So if he wasn't planning anything yet . then it was like all
assumptions in your side.
Don't just fly without wings. lol. I mean. If he is not consistent and no confirmation yet
just don't do anything. Taurus are stable when it comes to decision making. They will plan
ahead of time before telling you. So if he wasn't planning anything yet . then it was like all
assumptions in your side.
Posted by M143
curiouscap,
Don't just fly without wings. lol. I mean. If he is not consistent and no confirmation yet
just don't do anything. Taurus are stable when it comes to decision making. They will plan
ahead of time before telling you. So if he wasn't planning anything yet . then it was like all
assumptions in your side.
Point taken, but how was it all assumptions on my side if he keeps initiating contact? Zodiac signs aside, I don't know any guy who keeps in contact with a woman for 12 months straight for no reason. The only other guy I've kept in contact with for this long was a old boyfriend. i probably should've added that we've both graduated and still live far from one other (about 500 miles) which clearly affects the way we deal with one another. Am I really flying without wings? I'm so confused.
Do I tell him that I'm in his hometown?

It sounds like the two of you are really young. Since you mentioned going off to college. This guy likes you but does not want things to progress too deeply. Men in general, young and old say things and they actually have good intentions, but don't always follow through for several reasons. You have to pay attention to their actions. Don't take it personal. The best thing you can offer this guy is a solid friendship. Keep things light hearted.
I would reach out and casually mention that you are in his hometown. He'll probably happily respond. Keep expectations low though. Good luck 🙂
I would reach out and casually mention that you are in his hometown. He'll probably happily respond. Keep expectations low though. Good luck 🙂
Say ur in town for a few days n is he free for dinner?
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