HELP Does my Taurus want me?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Inthestars on Thursday, August 23, 2018 and has 1 replies.

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@Inthestars
8 Years

I am a Capricorn and have been seeing my Taurus male for the last 8 months.

He’s always said that he wants to take things slow and we have both been hurt in the past resulting into us both being very guarded.

The problem is I just don’t know where I stand with him.

Emotions don’t come easy to me but over the last couple of months I have tried to be more gentle and open and have told him that I love him but when ever I tell him how I feel, I never get a response which leaves me confused.

We currently only really see each other once or twice a week and I would really like to spend more time together.

I know he’s busy at times but it’s like if he’s got something to do he can’t find a way to incorporate me into his life. I have asked him if he sees us being anymore than 1 night a week and he said yes, he would like that but I can’t see how that will ever happen.

Not a day has gone by that he hasn’t text and when we are together things feel great.

My issue is that he’s come from previous relationships where he’s cheated on his partner and I just don’t want to be put in that situation of being played.

Do I just keep hanging in, which i will do if there is light at the end of the tunnel or do I just accept the fact that this man probably doesn’t really want me?

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@TaurusBull1977
17 Years1,000+ Posts

Here is the contradiction with his story.

He asserted that he wants to take things slow, because he has been hurt in the past....

Yet he's cheated on his former partners in previous relationships.

Question(s)

1. What is his profession?

2. Does he have any children?

3. Has he mentioned attending any family functions, friends party, event,etc in the past 8 months?

4. Have the two of you been sexually intimate?

5. When you see him once or twice a week, how is that time spent?

a. dinner and a movie....general or superficial conversations.

b.sex...with no in depth conversations

c. date night with in depth conversations?