Help me get my Taurus back!! Please?

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VexedVirgo
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13 Years

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I am a Virgo female and I am madly in love with a Bull. Slight twist, my taurus is a female. She and I had a very deep connection, one like I have never felt and doubt I will have again. I fell for her in an istant. I am very much a virgo. I lack motivation and was going through a hard time in my life when this all occurred. I pushed my Taurus. We broke up and got back together twice in a few month time frame. This past time she asked for no contact. I have to say that I was heartbroken, angry, and blindsided. Being the way I am and having fought for her love before, I couldnt live with myself if I didnt try and get her back or change her mind. 1st mistake obviously. But when I could not cut off all contact and tried multiple times to talk to her, she shut down. She called and asked to never see or talk to me again. I never did anything to hurt my Taurus and I treated her as well as possible. Flowers, cooking, chocolate. I am a hopeless romantic that loves to please. I know she checks up on me from time to time and I still have reason to believe that she may very well miss me but be too stubborn and was pushed to far to admit that she does have feelings. She said she loved me and highlighted that it was past tense but I am not sure how accurate this is or if it was a way to get me to stop talking to her by hurting me more. How can I make this better. HOw can I win her back? I have adjusted my life significantly and I am working harder than ever before, I am learning not to be as clingy. I will do anything it takes. Please help with some advice?
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VexedVirgo
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13 Years

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She was in a sticky situation, she was involved with someone else when we met, not in a relationship and she was more a side thing for this other person. I managed to show her that I really am a great match for her and she gave me a shot (didn't last more than a few days). We clicked on more levels than I can even really express through words. I would say that I smothered her. I was dealing with a lot and I have to say that she did more than I gave her credit for. She broke things off because she is extremely indecisive and just couldn't get her head and her heart to agree. She then agreed we would try again, things went better but she still as rocky and ended things again. Things got really crazy with her family/friend life and she and I were not together but were still speaking to each other. She had a really rough night and was in hysterics, I asked if she was ok and truly fought for this girl I have never fought so hard for anything in my life. I went and supported her with no expectations which is very hard for me. She told me that everything had changed and that I was the only one for her, she even talked high levels of commitment. I ran with that of course, why would I give up on a chance to be with the girl of my dreams?! But I was around way too often and things got a bit boring with daily life. We began to bicker about small things, like dishes, traffic, what to do on a certain day, and the fact that I rarely spent time away from her. After just a few days, she ended things. I was told to give her time and space but me being determined not to lose her, tried to fight for her. Lost that battle. I don't feel I was excessive and limited communication to what I felt was necessary but even that was an issue. The 1st time we broke up, she would still talk to me, and she wanted me to send her cute texts, songs, etc. I wrote often so I wrote some things for her as well. Those seemed to help last time, but when I tried to show her I wouldnt make the same mistake, she shut me out completely. Last time we spoke was about 3 days ago and I have yet to send her a message since.
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David13
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Well... this doesn't sound so bad. So... give her exactly what she asked for... NO COMMUNICATION. If she is as indecisive as you say she is... she may rethink it... possibly thinking she pushed you away to hard, to fast. YOU cannot be there waiting... let her think that you disappeared... at least 3 weeks (3 days is not enough). No phone calls, no emails, no sms'. Use this time to learn to be less clingy and less in her face. Can you do this ? Chasing her because your heart wants to chase her... is chasing her away. STOP CHASING... let her go... for now. 3 weeks ! Promise ?!
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TAURUSbelle
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^^After 3wks..you Rinse & REPEAT, or you move on. Nothing more annoying than one that clings. It feels claustrophobic. Yes we Taureans LOVE security, but when one "clit-clings" a little too much..we start to detest the interest. GIVE some breathing room. Find yourself in a new hobby, craft, or business venture, She'll respect you for finding an interest other than her.