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Help me understand this bull
Posted by AriesLoveI would not be against being friends, but isnt that easier to just say that then, what I dont get is all the mistery...
Obviously he wants to move slowly. He is thinking practical in terms of a relationship because ideally who wants a LDR? Those are hard to maintain. But I think he wants to be friends, take time learning one another (non sexually) and see where it might lead in the future.
Right now though he's not jumping into anything serious and he doesn't want you looking too far ahead. It's nothing wrong with being friends with a guy and still keeping your options open.
Posted by Redoctober2000I totally understand that he does not want to have a LDR, and even I would like to try, I can't say I desagree with him. I will keep definetly keep things moving, actually I have tried to do just that the past few weeks...
As above ^^^^
OP, please do not "read" into anything a Taurus says. We are honest and straightforward. he has given you his opinion and only wants yours. It helps probably to make him understand you better or he could be weighing things up for the future. But right now, he cannot give you what you need .
It is not "rocket science"!
U live too far from each other for this Taurus. . He has told you with open honesty. Make of it what you will but keep things moving.
Posted by EnochtheWiseYes it is very straightforward, it is just that I don't understand why does my intentions matter if he already made his choice, like why the need to hide your motives?Posted by doubleramLooks pretty straightforward to me. He's a practical guy and he sees a relationship with you as impractical.
I have been texting this bull for about year.
We only met once because of his job and there were periods when we were not on speaking terms.
Anyway last night I decide to text him. At first he said that he thought I was mad at him because I did not text him for the past 3 days. I told him that I just had nothing to add to his text.
Then the convo took a serious turn when he asked me what were my expectations of him. I turn around the subject a bit without answering. He proceed to tell me that he cannot have anything serious because of the distance. Even if he said that he kept pressing me to know what were my expectations. So I told him that ideally, I would like to be in a serious relationship. He then asked me: how
Like I had to create some sort of plan of action to show him it is doable.
He confirmed that he made his final decision regarding having anything serious at the moment, but he still refuses to tell me why my expectations of him matter so much if he made his decision. I feel like he has some other motives but I cant really read him because he does not let me. He also confirmed that he does not want a FWB type of situation. Maybe he wants us to stop talking but then why would he think I am mad at him if I don't reply to a text for 3 days ...I really dont get itclick to expand
Posted by TauroMale22Ooops you remember ... I don't even know but I guess that I keep my options open now when before I wanted him as my only option...
Was this the one in the army?
Where do you find the patience for this? Lol
The Long Distance is a problem.
This can't be compromised, this is why your Bull insists that it's not going to happen.
He may have some reservations about it, and who knows...may have entertained the possibility and simply realized that it was just a no-go.
He asked what were your expectations of him because he wants to remain friends without the implications of any misleading interests or expectations of a relationship.
Good Luck to you!
This can't be compromised, this is why your Bull insists that it's not going to happen.
He may have some reservations about it, and who knows...may have entertained the possibility and simply realized that it was just a no-go.
He asked what were your expectations of him because he wants to remain friends without the implications of any misleading interests or expectations of a relationship.
Good Luck to you!
Posted by TauroMale22I also had to take some time off to control my emotions a little bit better. As a bull, do you consider yourself to be direct?
Was this the one in the army?
Where do you find the patience for this? Lol
To me bulls are not very direct, which can be difficult for me as I can't really understand subtlety.
Posted by TauroMale22Posted by doubleramAries sun, moon and jupiter in the 8th housePosted by TauroMale22What are the rest of your placements?click to expand
Pisces venus and taurus mars
Virgo rising
Iam i bit fiery...
Posted by TaurusBull1977
The Long Distance is a problem.
This can't be compromised, this is why your Bull insists that it's not going to happen.
He may have some reservations about it, and who knows...may have entertained the possibility and simply realized that it was just a no-go.
He asked what were your expectations of him because he wants to remain friends without the implications of any misleading interests or expectations of a relationship.
Good Luck to you!
Thanks.
You are probably right, I just wish he would explain his motives because instead of wondering "why this" why that" , I would have agreed for us to remain friends...
Posted by Redoctober2000To me, people don't ask questions without reasons...this is what I mean by motivesPosted by doubleramTaurus don't have "motives"... That's where you women go wrong. He's just trying to figure how things would fit in his life. Afterall if you are in a relationship with a Taurus, he will lead.. Not you. So he has to work things out in his head first and work out all the possible scenarios before coming to his conclusion. Trust me.. He did!!Posted by TaurusBull1977
The Long Distance is a problem.
This can't be compromised, this is why your Bull insists that it's not going to happen.
He may have some reservations about it, and who knows...may have entertained the possibility and simply realized that it was just a no-go.
He asked what were your expectations of him because he wants to remain friends without the implications of any misleading interests or expectations of a relationship.
Good Luck to you!
Thanks.
You are probably right, I just wish he would explain his motives because instead of wondering "why this" why that" , I would have agreed for us to remain friends...
You contacted him. He did not contact you...click to expand
Posted by doubleramIm agreeing with Enoch here. He probably hoped you could have suggested something he hadn't considered. When you couldn't, he held firm to his decision.Posted by Redoctober2000To me, people don't ask questions without reasons...this is what I mean by motivesPosted by doubleramTaurus don't have "motives"... That's where you women go wrong. He's just trying to figure how things would fit in his life. Afterall if you are in a relationship with a Taurus, he will lead.. Not you. So he has to work things out in his head first and work out all the possible scenarios before coming to his conclusion. Trust me.. He did!!Posted by TaurusBull1977
The Long Distance is a problem.
This can't be compromised, this is why your Bull insists that it's not going to happen.
He may have some reservations about it, and who knows...may have entertained the possibility and simply realized that it was just a no-go.
He asked what were your expectations of him because he wants to remain friends without the implications of any misleading interests or expectations of a relationship.
Good Luck to you!
Thanks.
You are probably right, I just wish he would explain his motives because instead of wondering "why this" why that" , I would have agreed for us to remain friends...
You contacted him. He did not contact you...click to expand
Doubleram,
Always listen to that bull.
I'll share with you my story.
When my bull went to another country..prior he left we had a break up and before break up he told me to come with him wherever he go. To tell you exactly I did not compromise. It is not a scorpio thing though to gamble and live unknown life ahead. So I said no. So he left and we broke up.
I live my life lots of friends and hobbies while working. He still contacting me. I kept replying until he visited me again and went to another country for vacation. Then we were arguing while on vacation - sort of debate and he was hurt. I broke up with him cuz I find him too sensitive to be with me and I told him to book my ticket
Which he beg to stay a bit longer. I was cold and grant his request to stay a bit and flew back home and told me to e-mail him when I landed. I did not do it. He kept sending me e-mail till I explode like bomb.lol
After that we dont contact each other till he find a job in my country and contacted me to meet him aafter 1 yr and half living to mexico. I refused to meet him and was dating a cancer man. Bu sent me msgs saying he have lots of money and showed his nice place along seashore. I said to buy c.u.n.t. not me and not interested his money lol. He was mad. I made him suffered and called me b.i.t.c.h. I didnt get hurt..I am playful. So again he contacted me after 1'yr and told me all his plan so I gamble and We live together now.
I advise you to stay on your toes. If he comesback then he will work things out. Just dont make drama with him or he will lose his interest in you.
Bulls are upfront. You will know what is your position in their life. If not then, it is just plainly
A casual relationship. But dont get discourage it is not over yet. Learn to be independent. If he said you have to run 1 mile then run atleast 2 miles. Double pay. Lol. Always be courageous. No one likes needy woman in the future. Let him have his freedom. Always push the button and don't initiate a lot. Always prioritize yourself. Build that confidence. Always look beautiful and smart -ass . There are lots of men..who knows you might end up a guy better than him and willing to have a relarionship with you. Enjoy dating men. Lots of men. Make it casual. The serious one will lay his card and tell you exactly his plan. So do not settle for less. Let a man do his job.
Good luck and be strong.
Always listen to that bull.
I'll share with you my story.
When my bull went to another country..prior he left we had a break up and before break up he told me to come with him wherever he go. To tell you exactly I did not compromise. It is not a scorpio thing though to gamble and live unknown life ahead. So I said no. So he left and we broke up.
I live my life lots of friends and hobbies while working. He still contacting me. I kept replying until he visited me again and went to another country for vacation. Then we were arguing while on vacation - sort of debate and he was hurt. I broke up with him cuz I find him too sensitive to be with me and I told him to book my ticket
Which he beg to stay a bit longer. I was cold and grant his request to stay a bit and flew back home and told me to e-mail him when I landed. I did not do it. He kept sending me e-mail till I explode like bomb.lol
After that we dont contact each other till he find a job in my country and contacted me to meet him aafter 1 yr and half living to mexico. I refused to meet him and was dating a cancer man. Bu sent me msgs saying he have lots of money and showed his nice place along seashore. I said to buy c.u.n.t. not me and not interested his money lol. He was mad. I made him suffered and called me b.i.t.c.h. I didnt get hurt..I am playful. So again he contacted me after 1'yr and told me all his plan so I gamble and We live together now.
I advise you to stay on your toes. If he comesback then he will work things out. Just dont make drama with him or he will lose his interest in you.
Bulls are upfront. You will know what is your position in their life. If not then, it is just plainly
A casual relationship. But dont get discourage it is not over yet. Learn to be independent. If he said you have to run 1 mile then run atleast 2 miles. Double pay. Lol. Always be courageous. No one likes needy woman in the future. Let him have his freedom. Always push the button and don't initiate a lot. Always prioritize yourself. Build that confidence. Always look beautiful and smart -ass . There are lots of men..who knows you might end up a guy better than him and willing to have a relarionship with you. Enjoy dating men. Lots of men. Make it casual. The serious one will lay his card and tell you exactly his plan. So do not settle for less. Let a man do his job.
Good luck and be strong.
I am not good in handling ldr as well but my options are open why would I wait a ghost. I am a realistic person.
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We only met once because of his job and there were periods when we were not on speaking terms.
Anyway last night I decide to text him. At first he said that he thought I was mad at him because I did not text him for the past 3 days. I told him that I just had nothing to add to his text.
Then the convo took a serious turn when he asked me what were my expectations of him. I turn around the subject a bit without answering. He proceed to tell me that he cannot have anything serious because of the distance. Even if he said that he kept pressing me to know what were my expectations. So I told him that ideally, I would like to be in a serious relationship. He then asked me: how
Like I had to create some sort of plan of action to show him it is doable.
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