hold on??or let go??

? First Post: Me n Taurus boy have been through so much BS it's not even cute anymore. We do some of the most childish things possible such as having too much pride to speak to eachother first in public places. -____-! It's like we act like were in a relationship but he never has made it official so idk what we are. I'm having trouble figuring out if I should drop him or not! I wanna end it because I feel he doesn't care about me but then he turns right around around proves otherwise. Like for instance when he was home for the break he made an effort to try n see me but for childish reasons, that didn't happen. Another thing that I find a major issue is that he doesn't make an effort to keep in contact with me at all! If I text him, he'll text back HALF the time n yes if I call he'll pick up. But why doesn't he call/text me first? It makes me feel like he doesn't care about me and that's when I want to give up on him. Another thing is tht during winter break he went to hang out with other friends n basically ignores me but then he goes and buys me a $ 50 blazer for Xmas?!?!?! Like wtf he is so confusing at times! How can you ignore me and then go spend $ 50 on me!?! I would rather have him speak to me then for him to have spent all tht money on me! And now that he's gone back to school, which was two weeks ago, we're not talking because HE WONT TEXT/CALL ME! And im tired of always having to be the one text first just to see if he's alive n it's not like I'm even sure he's going to text back. So I just want to ask why do you think he does this and should I hold on or let him go....

I think the fact that he spent money on you is a very good sign. I think Taurus is a sign that does not part to readily with cash...not stingy, just very cautious. So just take intellectualbrat's advice and slow your roll... 🙂

Taurus is very cautious sign.Does not want to give fake hopes nor like anyone giving them fake hopes.I would hesitate to take expensive gift from someone who is just a friend and would hesitate to give expensive gift to some one who I don't like more den a friend.Gift is not a big deal but what is big deal is the emotional cash that a gift carries.So Taurus presenting you something is a good sign.He is taking step but you need to understand Taurus wants an independent strong girl who has her ideology,her decision making tendency and is not emotionally toooo needy.If you expect him around more den he can be around, you den you will end up suffocating him.Your idea of love may be like "lets be together all the time" but his idea of romance is different.He will love you and care for you but that does not make him stop living his life.He has other interests as well like being with the gang of his guy friends and doing some manly stuff like biking,trips etc.He will treet you like a princess but make sure you are ready to treat him like a prince and you know princess cannot expect all his attention all the time as he has so many other things to do as well.But by being emotionally too needy and expect him to be around more den he can you are emaking him beliv that this relationship demands him to pamper you like a child which will suffocate him in a long run. As I said he needs girl who is strong and independent or be completely passive.
Leo have high expectations from love and romance.I can see the best of guys for leo are those who don't love dem but actually are near to worshipping dem.The leos need their ego to be boosted all the time and it can only be acheived by consistently giving them attention,respect,compliments.Taurus has no problem giving that as long as he is not made to beliv that this is a demand and this needs to be fullfilled.He will give all this with ease and his own comfort but don't like ot be pushed.In the long run I see if leo and taurus doesn't handle relationship properly it will end up in disaster.Leo will find taurus too stubborn to listen to her,less expressive/caring to boost her leo ego.Taurus will find
leo too demanding,bossy.What will happen is ego clash..no one will bow down.Better let it go in such cases

Good luck

Thank you so much for the feed back! ^__^ and yes we're young lol im 17(18 in 2 months *woot woot (: ) and he's 18. But okay...I'll try not texting him so often, bcuz I don't really call him. I figured if he's too busy to text back then he won't have any time to talk on the phone, so I dnt call. I just get kind of jealous because he, like many Taurus', have that harem of women flocking over him. That's not what gets me mad though. What upsets me is that like over the break he decides he wants to video chat (oovoo) with all these other girls from his school and then post pics of them chatting n he's halfway naked! Yet he can't contact me at all not even one text? -___- Now let me do that very same thing and he'll ignore me for a while lol it just makes me wonder...like maybe the reason he hasn't made it official is because he doesn't wanna give up what his harem of girls have to offer. Its not like weve been talking for 6 months, we've been talking since September of 2010 lol Ive learned to have patience with this one. Lots and lots of patience. I try not get angry or show when Im mad at him b/c I kno that is just how he works n I cant really change that. We've only had sex once(took my virginity) n it seems since that point we've gotten closer. I was a little iffy after tht because with the way he was acting it seemed he was only in it for the sex. I told him I could possibly be pregnant n his response was and I quote "O ok dam well with the way your acting doubt we gonna do it again lol or you will with anyone one else" I mean for God's sakes really? That's when I stopped talking to him especially in public n even though i made ot clear that we would not be having sex again, for some reason he started talking to me more, checking on me, and making an effort to be with me...but now idk. I mean looking back from September 2010 to now, he actually makes an effort to hang out with me or be around me when he can, when I call him, which is hardly ever, he never wants to get off the phone lol and the most helpful thing he does now is actually shows when he's mad so I can correct that mistake n move on. I just want to be reassured that he cares n I'm not just wasting my time when he's already chosen one of those floozy's at his school lol oh and srry for this extremely long explanation of too much information lol but the main point is that I'm not going text him as much n I want to know do u also think he hasn't made it official because of his harem of women?

Hellloooo—?

Hi Girl,

You know why the Taurus forum is inactive than the other ones? We're lazy. Esp. the Taurus males. The best you can hope for is from VenusianBull, Delish, Intelectualbrat and other female Tauruses. I think they're less lazy. lol Sorry if i'm being rude. I don't mean to be. Its the truth. 🙂

*grape falling out of mouth* Say wha? Lazy? How DARE YOU sir. *snuggling back into robe and fading away with the music* 😛



The dramz young Mermaid, it needs toned down. Also..if you are looking for a young man who will be fully merged and up your keister all the time, a Taurus won't be doing it for you unless there is quite a bit of Water in him.

Hellloooo—?

None o' that..don't worry about offense. Post hiding isn't exactly informative. I can absolutely tell you his *harem* does not detract or sway him from making a decision if he settles on one girl. You are both young so it is more than possible that he is testing his flex and flow. Being a bumblebee in a field of flowers and taking from each one ( and I am not putting all this in sexual realm at all ) emotionally. One girl may feed his ego, the next makes him laugh, the next might be the chick that slaps him upside the head, etc. Ya feeling me? Most definitely there is a line between friend and girlfriend.
The "quote/unquote" problem with this is you feel left out in the wind. Free to imagine all sorts of scenarios and imagery. Most likely none of which are occurring. I think you should go straight to the source. Swallow your heart and say "Look Mister Sexy and Exciting..I want to be your girl. If you don't want to be my dude open that gash under your nose and put voice to it. You are making me NUTS." He may feel like a dork ( maybe even a dick ) and blush up to his hairline, but he'll stop and think about things. Put a more serious slant on it. One way or another you'll have your answer and have some footing to go on. Whether it's "Yay!" or "GUH!" and straight to the ice cream and tissue box. You'll have an answer.

Well that explains a lol n I guess...I basically wanted to
know if u think he's serious about me or if he is just playing games

HE might not even know at this point. Ya dig? *tugging shirt* C'mon girl, let's go do something stupid like slowly and nastily murder a pile of fruit. Stalk the elusive prickly pear. Run through the snow shrieking. Point is, release some stress and energy and be the eye of the storm instead of getting soaked IN it. 🙂

Thanks for the advice I should be concentrating on other things ...thanks again 🙂

Posted by venusianbull
None o' that..don't worry about offense. Post hiding isn't exactly informative. I can absolutely tell you his *harem* does not detract or sway him from making a decision if he settles on one girl. You are both young so it is more than possible that he is testing his flex and flow. Being a bumblebee in a field of flowers and taking from each one ( and I am not putting all this in sexual realm at all ) emotionally. One girl may feed his ego, the next makes him laugh, the next might be the chick that slaps him upside the head, etc. Ya feeling me? Most definitely there is a line between friend and girlfriend.
The "quote/unquote" problem with this is you feel left out in the wind. Free to imagine all sorts of scenarios and imagery. Most likely none of which are occurring. I think you should go straight to the source. Swallow your heart and say "Look Mister Sexy and Exciting..I want to be your girl. If you don't want to be my dude open that gash under your nose and put voice to it. You are making me NUTS." He may feel like a dork ( maybe even a dick ) and blush up to his hairline, but he'll stop and think about things. Put a more serious slant on it. One way or another you'll have your answer and have some footing to go on. Whether it's "Yay!" or "GUH!" and straight to the ice cream and tissue box. You'll have an answer.

very well said VB!

pssh, lazy, I prefer...laissez-faire

LOL I like 'well rested', perhaps 'refreshed'. Sankoo velly much sir. 🙂