How do I confess my love without sounding lame?

I'm a taurus guy, she's a sag. I'm so in love with her and I should probably tell her before the school year gets over, or I'll be beating myself up for the rest of my life. We have one class together. When I tell myself I'm going to do it, I can't, I can't seem get her by herself. Even when I finally do, I can't find the words to say. She's the ONLY girl that has ever made me act like this. Some people have told me to write her a note, but I don't want her to think I'm a wuss. ANYBODY HAVE ANY SUGGESTIONS? Please, I would GREATLY appreciate it.

don't confess the love part yet unless you're willing to face early rejection. just invite her to "that great new movie" that just hit town. you won't have to talk, can munch popcorn and see if she is interested in at least holding hands.
that's the way we used to do it!

It's not lame to confess or tell how you feel. But I'm with the above opinionator. Stay kool about the situation and ease your way into it where the both of you won't feel uncomfortable, and things will come around. And you're earning respect at the same time. And a friend. Sounds to me you got them damn butterflies. And that's a feeling you can't get over until you get up with this person and see what they are about. So good luck. It's good to here when a person can feel for someone...the old way of lovin is still there! Thumbs up!

Oh my goodness, you sound like such a sweet Taurus! Scorpio female here. I think I agree with the others on this one (being 20 years old, I can't say I am an EXPERT on matters of the heart, but I'll give you the best advice I have). As far as confessing your love for her, if you could be *positively sure* that she felt the same, I would say what are you waiting for. However, you never want to be that person that pours their heart out, only for the other person to sit there staring at you unable to speak becuase in reality, they didn't feel the same. Trust me, I've only been through it once, but it sucks! : ) And it's an emotional scar you don't need.

So, hold out as long as you possibly can, and take things as slowly as you can. If you two are meant to be, trust me--it will happen. Try *showing* her that you dig her, rather than *telling* her. Because women pick up on things like that. And this way, you won't lose any self-respect in case she doesn't feel the same. Look directly into her eyes when she speaks. Demonstrate that you care about what's going on in her life, her ideas and opinions. Don't be in her face too much; show that you have a life too. Most of all, show her you're interested by asking questions about what she thinks, etc.

Well, I hope I've been some help and I'm not too late! : )

phoenix_rising

Your not late at all, I might do it within this week.(trembling)