How do you know if it's over with a Taurian Girl?

Hi everyone, found the site and I'm really wondering about this. Long story short, I was trying to court this Taurian girl and well... we had a conflict of emotions so now we're in a cold war. It has definitely been an emotional roller coaster.

Don't know what sign you are, but we Taurus can be very stubborn and cold when in battle😉

Posted by taurusgeminicusp
Don't know what sign you are, but we Taurus can be very stubborn and cold when in battle😉

Ah, I suppose I should shed some details on the situation. Well I'm an Aquarius. Aqua Sun & Moon with Leo Rising. When I did a check on her, she was a Taurus Sun, Libra Moon, and Aqua Rising. (I also have the majority of our full charts, most of the rest of mine is Taurus and Capricorn)

Now, definitely I feel the stubbornness and the cold from her during the cold war. But I had already said my piece 4 days into the start, saying sorry and wanting to fix things but only when she was ready.

So...around 2 weeks after the sorry, she randomly texts me. Just asking about stuff. Like if I have this or that, or what was the name of so-and-so you did. This has happened twice already. I of course answer because she asked me and I'm not angry (actually more hurt), just wanting to understand. But I'm wondering why ask me? When the stuff she asked were things she could ask others, others who are willing (and not on bad terms) or also capable. So I myself, I'm wondering, what is the motive? Will she use me? This doesn't really fit a Taurus? or what? Although, I've seen on the boards, that Taurus like to use people?

And as an Aqua, I'm definitely thinking all possible scenarios. Sucks really. I don't have the detachment of the Aqua here. And it's bugging me as to why.

Well what exactly was the conflict of emotions you two had?

Posted by taurusgeminicusp
Well what exactly was the conflict of emotions you two had?

Well, I took a chance. And told her exactly how I felt about her. From there, she went on to explain things like she wasn't looking, she had other things to worry about. Of course, I knew those things already, however I suppose my heart wasn't ready to hear them. So in short it got broken. And I ended up saying she should have said those before. But in reality she did, way before everything when we were friends, I didn't recall that information until the time after it all ended. At the end, she had said something which made me realize, that she was right and everything isn't always what one person wants. So I suppose I let my emotions take control and I ended up asking her, what did she want. But in the sort of drama thing you'd expect in a movie with the teary eyes and what not. (Oh wow, its the Aqua drama thing...) She said she didn't know...then I just ended up asking, how she felt about me. Which was another I don't know.

After that she texted me saying she didn't like the feeling of what happened and for me to take care. Well then the cold war started and I felt guilty for pushing her to do something which she didn't deserve. But in a twist of fate, like in the earlier post, 2weeks after I had said sorry and she's talking with me. We had a chat, it was our normal one. Like way before. So... I don't know. I'd like to let my aqua side do its analytical thing but I'd also consider experiences from others too.

But when I'm reading through the board, its like if a Taurus comes back, that's a good sign?

Speaking from a taurus girl point of view I know I have a hard time dealing with too mush emotion and drama and tears. It kinda makes me annoyed and I want to say "cut it out". Taurus girls are very upfront and honest even if it hurts. Whatever she told you was the truth and she isn't ready and the emotion and drama is really keeping her away. Hence the not hearing from her for a while. I think you should take a few steps back and reevaluate where she is coming from. Keep it light and give her space. Good luck.