How long is too long

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bkbella86
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14 Years5,000+ PostsAries

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to ignore a Taurus? I have been "talking" to a Taurus for 1 year now. From frequenting dxp i have learned that getting to know a Taur and commiting can take forever. Well Im an Aries and well ya know the myths about us not being patient. Well I have hung in there for a year which is along time and nobody should have to wait that long for someone to make up their mind. I have been patient, not clingy at all. It seems like hes hesitant to see me or something, yet he wants to know every move i make. If i dont call him back like i say i will he gets upset if i dont answer personal questions over the phone he gets upset. he calls and text me daily yet he avoids seeing me. I havent slept with him and barely kissed him twice. I have gotten to the point where im feeling lead on by this guy. He has flaked on my a few times and now i wont make plans with him anymore and told him dont call me anymore yet he wont let up he is still calling and texting me. I really like this guy have since i met him, thats why I have been so patient that and because I heard they take things slow but it just seems like bs to me. I was hoping ignoring him would give him time to think and assess what he really wants from me, but now I am considering just throwing in the towel all togehter, like what am i really waiting for. What if he turns out to be a real asshole. The thing is im not even stressing the commitment part because we barely know or see each other all i wanted was a commitment to seeing each other, getting to know each other, everything else will happen if its right in my eyes. give it to me straight is he just not that into me? is this a sick game to him? I know no one will no for sure but can any Taurus help me out with how this Taurus thinks?
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OhHaiIamTaurus
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Maybe he's bored but at the same time doesn't want to lose you because he's possessive. Think about it. He's Taurus which would bring out the possessive side, but he's also Venus in Aries...which means he could be getting bored. He doesn't want to let you go but yet if you go with someone else, it's the possessiveness. Maybe. I'm just taking a huge guess at all this. I'm the same "Sun Taurus Venus Aries".
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bkbella86
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Posted by OhHaiIamTaurus
Maybe he's bored but at the same time doesn't want to lose you because he's possessive. Think about it. He's Taurus which would bring out the possessive side, but he's also Venus in Aries...which means he could be getting bored. He doesn't want to let you go but yet if you go with someone else, it's the possessiveness. Maybe. I'm just taking a huge guess at all this. I'm the same "Sun Taurus Venus Aries".



im not ruling that out. Maybe he is bored who knows. I felt led on so i had to put the brakes on