We are ldr. We send text to each other every day to keep in touch, however, most texts just like "what have you had for tea?" "what time will you back home?" "are you going to bed now?". Is this boring? what stuff you talk about with boyfriend everyday?
How to think of stuff to talk about everyday?
I send silly texts like "I'm going to annoy you today" or "It's your fault" or some other nonsense statement. This get's his attention and then we have a nonsense conversation. For example, the other evening he said he was off to iron his hirt for work. I then said, just called a taxi, 1 black bin bag of washing on its way to you to press and fold and send back to me all freshly pressed, is that ok? Just silly things, but he seems to like them.

Why do you have to think of something to say everyday ? Try NOT writing for a couple of days... let HIM think of something.

Posted by BullGem
*gasp* David, tu m'as manque!!! Salut, salut 😄
Ah bon ?! C'est mignon ! 🙂 Je pense a toi aussi ! 😉 Je travaille beaucoup trop pour le moment ! 😢 J'suis fatigu?... mais c'est comme ca. Et toi ? Tu vas bien ? T'es celibataire encore ? Je t'attends ! 😄

😢
... ?a fait mal... soupir.
... ?a fait mal... soupir.

alors... heureuse ?
😉
😉
Posted by BullGemPosted by David13Posted by BullGem
*gasp* David, tu m'as manque!!! Salut, salut 😄
Ah bon ?! C'est mignon ! 🙂 Je pense a toi aussi ! 😉 Je travaille beaucoup trop pour le moment ! 😢 J'suis fatigu?... mais c'est comme ca. Et toi ? Tu vas bien ? T'es celibataire encore ? Je t'attends ! 😄
aw.
oui, tout va bien, ici. Il fait froid, mais j'aime le froid 🙂
...toujours pas celibataire, desolee.
Et, ne m'attends pas! C'est mignon et tout, mais va chercher ton ame soeur, ce n'est pas moi 😄 (dis avec amour et affection)click to expand
lol ! why you two not meet for a coffee? I think it's a good idea. x

I bring up a random current events and discuss the philosophy or implications of said events.. I like to send random tidbits Ive learned or perceived. But yeh, I tend to fall for talkers so Ive no idea what's it like to have a SO who only does small talk topics. Just relax and open up--- he'll perhaps feel more comfortable and open up to you. But I would also suggest that if it continues, you should have a talk about it. maintaining emotional connectedness is at it's highest priority when in a ldr.

You never run out of things to talk about when you have an interesting full life.

@Lisa1234. Get on SKYPE with your beau. Something about seeing Eyes & Smiles that gets convo flowing for me. (I'm Visual)
IN this case, Texts should be used for "Good morning", "Just checking in.." or "Goodnight" texts. Keep them short so you'll have more to talk about later. So...Other than that, When you can, just GET on the PHONE to talk or Skype.
Reference: I'm IN an LDR too. Cheers!
@BULLGEM & David: SALUT! D'ou venons-nous? Je parle un peux de Francais aussi..J'aime la langue..Ca me fait plaisir de lire ca sur DXP.
IN this case, Texts should be used for "Good morning", "Just checking in.." or "Goodnight" texts. Keep them short so you'll have more to talk about later. So...Other than that, When you can, just GET on the PHONE to talk or Skype.
Reference: I'm IN an LDR too. Cheers!
@BULLGEM & David: SALUT! D'ou venons-nous? Je parle un peux de Francais aussi..J'aime la langue..Ca me fait plaisir de lire ca sur DXP.
Je peux lire un peu de fran?ais aussi, comme je l'ai v?cu ?? Paris pendant trois ans

aaahhh Vout-etes SI chanceux!! Un jour quand j'aurais des petits-enfants , j'espere que mes-enfants peux prends la memes course dans ce "type" de l'ecole.

Vous*

Sorry couldn't resist...

H?! tout le monde parle fran?ais ici maintenant?!

Posted by TAURUSbellePosted by TaureanGoddess
H?! tout le monde parle fran?ais ici maintenant?!click to expand
oooh Mais voila!! et Pourquoi non?? Cest une tres belle langue!! Salut TaureanGoddess!! D'ou viens vous?
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