I don't know if this Taurus is for me

So I realized last night that the Taurus I've been crushing on might not be the guy for me :/

He's always super nice to me, we always have great convo...sometimes I feel as if I'm talking his ear off because he doesn't say much but just listens. We equally seek each other out when we're at the same events. He also gets really touchy with me, but this is more so when he's been drinking.

However, I find him to be closed off and a little too serious for me. He's the shy/quiet taurus, very calm and reserved. Sometimes too quiet, where before I wouldn't notice him standing next to me or even be in the same room because he's tucked away in the corner.

I find that we're so different. He's shy and I'm kinda outgoing and always mingling with people. I'm also very open with how I feel about him, I don't hide it at all. I actually am embarrassed by how open I can be when I think about it lol. But he hasn't verbalized anything and has stated before that men don't talk about feelings.

We've only been getting to know each other as friends for the past couple months but he has yet to ask me for my number. I won't pursue him because I just frankly don't feel like I should.

However, last night I was just completely put off by him. He was sitting with mutual friends across the room and I sat at the bar with my girlfriend. I noticed he positioned himself so he was facing me, almost felt as if he was observing me...something I don't think I've seen him do. Maybe I'm just being paranoid. I also noticed he wasn't talking much with his friends either...he seemed distant.

After about an hour my girlfriend left and I motioned for him to come sit with me and he did. We talked about numerous things but almost mid convo he excused himself and went to the bathroom. When he came out he said bye to his friends and then came to me and said he was leaving because he had to work early. I told him to wait so I could close my tab, and I would walk out with him. He acted as if he didn't want to wait! So I said "its ok, you don't have to wait" and he just left! Ewww, rude lol.

I don't know what to think about it. With our differences, I don't know if I should continue to be interested in him or not. His bff told me he's been burned pretty bad in the past by two different women.

What do you guys think? Should I continue to see where it goes and hope he'll be more open? I don't know if he's even interested or if I even have the patience for this.

Um, aside from the leaving a person hanging instead of waiting for them when they say they want to leave together, the way you're describing him sounds like me and people have described us in general like that(quiet, reserved, better listeners than talkers, we like staring at whoever we're interested in, we take a long ass time to trust and get relationship blah blah blah happening). It's certainly rude that he waited until after coming out of the toilet to leave the place since this information should have been given prior to going to the toilets so as to avoid the abruptness, but it's ultimately your decision. If you feel bad about it now, don't bother; we don't like our time and efforts to be wasted, so the sooner the person we like decides to tell us their position, the faster we can decide what to do next.

Idk guys...I think I'm going to follow my gut and cut my losses with this one.

Couple the fact that he hasn't even asked for my number and leaving me at the bar, I'm going to say he just really isn't that interested. So no point in waiting around for nothing.

Thanks for the input guys!