I found my balls

Ok, this cowardly lion finally sent a text to the slow ass bull man. Said if his drive to Texas was boring, he should call me from the road.

He replied rather fast, saying only "Cha-cha".

What the hey— Is this man allergic to the phone—

Posted by BigGirlPanties
Ok, this cowardly lion finally sent a text to the slow ass bull man. Said if his drive to Texas was boring, he should call me from the road.

He replied rather fast, saying only "Cha-cha".

What the hey— Is this man allergic to the phone—

Sad to say..yes, I know it is frustrating to most of us. But I have observed the ignoring of the phone by both male and female taurs...I have sent texts that are NEVER answered or acknowledged. I call and am never sure if I will hear a voice on the other end. I purposely space my phone calls and personal visits. The sad part is, most like the technology, but have little interest in properly putting it to use. (He has Tablet, Android Phone, iPhone, Laptop, etc.) and still does not answer emails, texts and calls for the most part.

I wonder why that is? My girl friend is a taurus, she is great at communicating, texting, calls, everything. The first call we had, we spoke 2 hrs, and I had to end it, so he went the distance then. I guess it might be a confidence thing?

Ok, so its 40 mins later....I replied saying "I can only take so much of the fox trot". and now nothing more from him. He responded super fast, now nothing. Jeez, if I ever get him in bed and am I going to have to give myself the orgasim or what?? 😢

1st off.. Yaaay!! I've been rooting for this to happen a LONGtime ago BGP!! I'm sooo proud of you!

2ndly)He said "Cha-cha" thinking he was funny (it was corny if u ask me but moving forward..) DWTS is currently on and there was a Cha-cha piece, he probably thought you were watching it.

3rd) I am a Taurus, on Dxp...On my phone! This phone..is NEVER too far. I'm a talker..a conversationalist..so I hate texting mates, so I push THEM to call me (like I've been pushing BGP to get Taurus guy to call her!) Lol.. I'm guuuud. 😉
I don't have an aversion to communication devices at all. Then again, My mercury IS in Gemini so talking comes EASY, and my Ven in Aries is PUSHY and aggressive with my mates.

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Ok, so its 40 mins later....I replied saying "I can only take so much of the fox trot". and now nothing more from him. He responded super fast, now nothing. Jeez, if I ever get him in bed and am I going to have to give myself the orgasim or what?? 😢

Hmmm try not to claw him will ya?? Lol put those claws away kitty!!..but at the sametime, I hope he got a scratch!! Lol.. I'm bad I know..

HE CALLEDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!

Thanks to belle, I strapped on my lion sized balls and told that heffer to call and he did! LOL

ROFLMAO!!! @ heiffer reference!! Hahaha

Sweet SUCCESS!

Was so excited, I forgot to give you deets.

Ok, he asked about DWTS, who was my favorites, blah blah blah....then we talked running, as we both run. He asked me how far I ran tonight and I gave him shit for quizzing me...think he gots his little feelings hurt cus he sounded like a wet puppy. I think he is competitive, he said when he runs, he never takes a break. Hah, I run for 50 seconds then I take a 10 min break 😛

I was laughing and joshing with him, he seems kinda "stern" like he cant break down and laugh or let loose. Just like my taurus brother!!! Ewwww, Id hate to visualize my brother when Im ripping this guys clothing off in my next fantasy about him 😉

Sadly, as he entered the state of Lousiana, cell reception got bad and we had to end it. He said we:ll talk soon. I think he is just gonna be a tough nut to crack. Good things I have strong thighs cus Im gonna stick that man's head between them and squeeze the stuffing outta him.😛

Yeaa..lol the sternness. It gets that way sometimes..probably has a little sour taste in his mouth and was licking his wounds..haha! Ahh.. He'll get over it. But yea the today's convo was just an ice-breaking warm up. Nice!
Although don't u just hate when ppl end calls with "talk to you SOON" rather than "later" or at least something solid. So u could have a day/time to look forward to?? Sigh.

But good WORK BGP!! You've come a mighty long way. 🙂

Ahh, you ended the first 2hr convo the two of you had. From the little I know, it seems to be very subtle things that makes them pull back and slow the pace nearly all the way down. Not saying that was definitely it, but with feminine signs being more introverted and slightly insecure, theres a lot of analyzing about every little detail. Ending a convo, even after two hrs, could have possibly made him wonder if he was boring you. You never know what could have hit his confidence, but I personally think something, probably small, did and now hes approaching it in a way where he doesnt get his feelings hurt. All my opinion btw.

anyway from what ive read I do think he likes you, and I dont think you would ever go wrong by being more aggressive, telling him to call, or calling him, and just initiating things. That will break through his possible insecurities.

Thanks for your insights, Inana. I do recall taurus is a feminine sign, and yes like scorpio, can be insecure. When I ended the 2 hr call, it was cus it was 11:30pm and I had to work early next day. I told him that and he said he shouldve called me earlier. Told him it was no problem, but I made sure the next day to text and say I enjoyed speaking to him.

After last nights call, I texted him with a reference about running together, saying if we ever ran together, he'd have to give me a head start and multiple breaks, cus he is more advanced than I. (I was trying to lay down a future get-together). He replied with "Deal".

I then asked if he was a taurus. Course, I know it, but he didnt know I knew. Again, trying to open the door to a future chat about astrology, to see if he is into it. His reply "Yes, I am. Was that a good guess or did I tell you that?" Hmmm...interesting. I reply "No, I determined it from the numerical portion of your email address and some of your personality traits".

And then....NO REPLY!

LOL....of course, he had been driving at that point for 12 hours, dead tired in an area with intermittent reception. But still......I have to remember he is scorp moon like me 😛

omg at last something has happened!!! bgp, it was getting to be a little like watching grass grow with this guy!! i was wondering if it might have something to do with merc retrograde actually. it plays havoc on new relationships. i've not been able to even see my aqua cos of either him or me not being able to make it.

my old manager used to be a taurean...well he still is but he's not my manager. his partner worked at the same company and she and i were on the same team and her man was in a supervisory role.

he came across as one of the most humourless people you'd ever met. i used to drive to work and a few others car shared with me, including this taurus. he was just soooo rude and grumpy all the time and would sit in the passenger seat criticising my driving or my taste in music and my car....he called it a noddy car but it's not my fault he's a big fat blob. anyhow, once i shut his fingers in the window accidentally and he cried out like a little girl. i laughed my head off (although i didn't want to) and he got really pissed off with me and went quiet for the rest of the journey, nursing his hand like i'd severed his fingers.

when we got back to his place, just before he got out of the car he said to me 'if you tell anyone at work i've got feelings, i'm gonna be pissed off with you' and then laughed.

he was actually a sweetheart underneath it all. my point is that his appearance and behaviour was totally incongruous with the cuddly teddy bear family man i know he really is.

i feel sorry for your taurus if you ever get hold of him. i'm sure you won't have to sort out your own orgasm though. he's a bull after all 😛


btw, think the cha-cha text was an icebreaker like bling said. it took me ages to work out what DWTS was though! if it's anything like the british one, i doubt i would even know who the 'stars' are!

Posted by BigGirlPanties
When I ended the 2 hr call, it was cus it was 11:30pm and I had to work early next day. I told him that and he said he shouldve called me earlier. Told him it was no problem, but I made sure the next day to text and say I enjoyed speaking to him. After last nights call, I texted him with a reference about running together, saying if we ever ran together, he'd have to give me a head start and multiple breaks, cus he is more advanced than I.(I was trying to lay down a future get-together). He replied with "Deal".

...you're GETTING the FLOW now!! GOOD! Once he starts getting confident with you, you won't need to be aggressive as much,you'll only need to sit back, let HIM lead then watch him work. 🙂

I then asked if he was a taurus. Course, I know it, but he didnt know I knew. Again, trying to open the door to a future chat about astrology, to see if he is into it. His reply "Yes, I am. Was that a good guess or did I tell you that?" Hmmm...interesting. I reply "No, I determined it from the numerical portion of your email address and some of your personality traits".

And then....NO REPLY!

Cuz you kinda gave him a STALKER vibe..Don't do that anymore!! lol...Don't show him your stalker tendencies!!! at least not yet., you're not sure how he'll take it. Don't want this playing in his head..

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omg at last something has happened!!! bgp, it was getting to be a little like watching grass grow with this guy!! i was wondering if it might have something to do with merc retrograde actually. it plays havoc on new relationships. i've not been able to even see my aqua cos of either him or me not being able to make it.

OMG.. I'm dying from that stupid Merc in Retrograde too.. I'm STILLL waiting to hear from my new CAP guy. I swear, once April 4th comes around, I better be FLOODED..if not, INUNDATED with calls, texts & emails. This retrograde BLOWS.

Wow, R1g, what a great story. It does sound a lot like my taur brother. Wont ever let anyone see his feelings comes out, yet they are there. Its the licking the tootsie roll tootsie pop and then BITING into it to get to the soft, gooey center. Such a challenge 😉

Well, Belle....I would'a hoped he'd think I was pretty smart to figure out his b date by his email address. After all, it means Im paying attention to him. 🙂 But, his asking how I knew his sign shows HIS scorp moon, all suspicious and stuff. I got the feeling last night that he and I are gonna go head to head on some issues. We are gonna combat each other, but I think in a challenging, enticing way. He is so much like my brother, who used to intimidate me for years, but now I can give as good as I get. This guy is not all about putting on airs. He seems to be a "what you see if what you get" dude. Im up for the challenge cus I am determined to wear his tall, honky ass down and make him my bitch! 😛

Ohh..his bday is his email address.. that explains it. Then YES you're definitely paying attention.

YESSSS!!! Make him your BITCH!!!..Now you're speaking MY lingo!!!! I love it. Reminds me of..

LOL You're a riot!!

So, he just texted me that he is "dying" to hear all about his taurus traits and that he is tired from the long drive. I replied saying that taurus men are grounded, practical and stubborn..and asked "Am I correct?"..

haha. GAME ON!

Next text I will tell him that taurus men are sensualllllllll...that will feed his ego, Im sure 😉

haha..

Yeeesss..sounds like he's begining to open up!! He will eat whatever you tell him..right UP!
Game on indeed! 🙂

So he replies with this: "Grounded and practical, yes..stubborn, not so much though that trait is there and I tend to fight it. Don't grounded and practical anticipate stubborness?"

Hmmm...interesting dialogue. I replied back with "perhaps they do, but taurus, like leo, are fixed signs which means we tend to not give up our set view on things unless we chose to change. I like obstinance in people, makes me sharpen my claws in negotiation skills. Im a typical leo, I like to mess with people" 😛

I like his intellectual foreplay. I'm getting HOT!!

Ooooh boooy a technical analytical intellectual. *yawn* I have my days for those dialogues...but good to see the intellectual flames going. He'll respect you for it. Beauty & brains.

"Grounded and practical, yes..stubborn, not so much though that trait is there and I tend to fight it. Don't grounded and practical anticipate stubborness?"

Being grounded/practical is innate. "CHOOSING to FIGHT it"..is the manifestation OF his stubbornness..because he's resisting what he KNOWS comes natural. ..Lol. Goodtimes.

So glad things are warming up for you two. 🙂

hmmmm...intellectual foreplay indeed. i disagree with him though. i don't think grounded and practical anticipate stubborness...you can be a stubborn impractical head in the clouds type of person...i know i am, lol.

this is moving nicely along now although i would keep it cerebral for now if you can possibly manage that you wildcat woman!! he's playing with words, you play with them back...mirroring...keep it clean and non-suggestive and see where HE takes you.

i was gonna say about the email address that it sometimes pisses me off that people ask me what the numbers mean on my email...especially if they know me already, so good spot on your behalf 🙂

thanks, ladies 😉 you girls are good, insightful consultants. I should hire you to run my love life, since I tend to run it into the ground usually. Yeah, he is either an exceptionial strategist in the man-woman game of love or a total serious bone head with no game. Hoping it's the former. He does use big college words, guess cus he went to so many damn colleges. LOL.

He takes hours in between text responses. Geez, that kills all the psuedo-psycho-sexual tension I plan to build. Think I won't reply again tonight if I do hear. Let's let this mouse wait a while to hear from me. After all, I have more mice to hunt down (Yeah right!!)

And Belle, good point on tending to fight stubborness IS a manifestation of his stubborness. Tis true!!

So we've been texting while he is in TX, I brought up his taurus traits. Told him today some of his good traits are loyal, driven, dedicated and sensual 😉

He replies to all the traits as "check", and sensual "Double check".LOL

So I tell him I love his confidence in his sensuality, he says "Not confidence, just practiced fact". I guess is his attempt at flirtacious humor? He just seems so serious and humorless. Like a stiff board. He's a texan, with the drawl and a very intelligent scholar. Damn....I need me some funny and some flirty. 😢

I replied back that I was restraining myself from making an borderling inappropriate comment (As in "I'd like to be your "fact checker"). He hasnt responded. Im thinking if Im too flirty, he will be turned off. Dont Tauruses want classy ladies? I may be just too Leo for him.

Yes CLASS all the way. Keep the "dirty talk" to yourself for now. the saying "Lady in streets, Freak in the sheets" REALLY is a Taurus Male requirement. I myself can be a prude sometimes. Or it could just be Mars in Libra. :/

Keep making your mental notes. If he seems like he's too much of a stiff board, maybe you're the one to shake things up for him. See what its like to be with him IN PERSON first. Professors/Scholars need a mental..and hopefully for you (Physical) escape from time to time.

woooooooah....well, i may be weird but the 'practiced fact' remark was sexy imo. personally, i don't like to flirt by text with someone i haven't met face to face cos when you do, if the chemistry isn't there, it's kinda like you've promised something you're about to change your mind on. it also gives the impression you're looking for sex whereas this guy obviously takes his time getting to know someone first.

you can still be flirtatious but not leo flirty...ie in your face, lol....be coy rather than flirtatious and get him asking you stuff about yourself too...two way process and all that.

i still think you should do what i have done and cut right down on texting. it's too easy to hide behind and also it's too easy to be totally misunderstood.

when he next texts you, why not call him straight back and have a chat on the phone instead of getting into this stilted text exchange....say you're taking things to the next level - good old fashioned communication by voice.

it's not good for either of your scorpio moons to keep up this really remote way of getting to know eachother.

all sounds good though bgp...he's clearly heating up a little 😛

I agree with you, Riggie...for sure. Our texting is very brief, actually. Since he takes hours in between replies. I guess Ive felt odd about calling him while he is visiting his mother in Texas. And you're right about keeping the *sexting* brief, other than the practice fact comment, he restrains his flirting a lot and yes, if there is no physical attraction, it would feel odd.

He told me last night he was playing scrabble with his mom and boy, was it boring. I told him she is 80 and to ler her win. He said he was too competitive to do that. So I said when "we" play scrabble, I'd let him win.

His reply was "You and I play?, Ok, you're on!". So, Im getting closer to tracking this man down. I've read some more on taurus men and yes, seems like I've got to help lead him out of Israel, so to speak 😛

Am gonna need suggestions on how/where to meet. He is 147 miles away, a 2 hr drive (wee bit longer than I thought). Nomally Id say we'd meet somewhere in the middle, an hour drive for each, but that would land ud in the middle of a long highway as there are no cities for a 100 mile stretch. One of us is going to have to drive further than the other.


Oh well, more will be revealed and I know to be more ladylike and keep my leo freak tamed within 😉

Hey BGP
what's the latest?
i am so keenly waiting for further update on lioness/bull romance🙂

You seem to be doing a lot, if not all, of the chasing and initiating - you're back to 100% giving and carrying the "relationship" rarely receiving - great ego stroke for him. Why don't you just sit back now and let the ball roll and stay in his court. Why haven't you met yet? 100 miles is nothing and if you've known him a few months now you should have at least met once at this stage. This doesn't sound like its gonna end well to me, I think he's just keeping you in his herd and not in the top field herd either. You are also allowing your communications to be managed via text/email, and they are spread out over a number of hours becuase he takes so long to reply, you are allowing him to have this communication on his terms, you shouldn't be communicating with him other than via telephone calls to arrange to meet. This texting back and forwards is building him up into something in your head. Think what it would be like if you'd never, emailed him first, given your name first, given your telephone number first, called first, requested a call back first - if you had done none of those things this man would not have done anything - is that what you want, someone who can't be bothered to make any time for you, and this is only the initial stages, stop showing him you are happy with this otherwise this is just what you are going to get. You've done everything first, get your pride back Lioness.

I haven't been chasing him for 2 months, in fact, I just started developing an interest in him the last 2 weeks. We were email friends only for the first month. Met on a dating site. He is a Taurus, he goes way slow. I was recovering from a break up when we met and I had no interest other than friendship. He's one of the few men I've met on dating sites that has good grammar, is intelligent and respectful. It was only after the first phone call that I started seeing him as a possible dating interest.

So when my Leo gets interested, I perked up. He is clearly a typical Taurus man who needs to be led to a certain degree. I have decided though to not text him, but will reply to his texts. There's only so much two people can accomplish in getting to know each other via texting. I can only imagine how long this phase is going to last. The emailing went a month when I just got so bored. So, we'll see what he does. I don't like pursuing men so much, even though I am typically drawn to the quiet, shy type.

Posted by BigGirlPanties
HE CALLEDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!

Thanks to belle, I strapped on my lion sized balls and told that heffer to call and he did! LOL

omfg lion sized balls. let me giggle for a couple hours. 😛

but that's super exciting. 🙂 glad you made a bit of a breakthrough!`enjoy 😉

Posted by BigGirlPanties
I haven't been chasing him for 2 months, in fact, I just started developing an interest in him the last 2 weeks. We were email friends only for the first month. Met on a dating site. He is a Taurus, he goes way slow. I was recovering from a break up when we met and I had no interest other than friendship. He's one of the few men I've met on dating sites that has good grammar, is intelligent and respectful. It was only after the first phone call that I started seeing him as a possible dating interest.

So when my Leo gets interested, I perked up. He is clearly a typical Taurus man who needs to be led to a certain degree. I have decided though to not text him, but will reply to his texts. There's only so much two people can accomplish in getting to know each other via texting. I can only imagine how long this phase is going to last. The emailing went a month when I just got so bored. So, we'll see what he does. I don't like pursuing men so much, even though I am typically drawn to the quiet, shy type.

My experience of Taurus men is anything but slow - they want to get started on the dating and don't particularly need to be led to it, no man does if its what he want, the Taurus may take it slow from that point on but in my experience they havn't been slow to get to that point, in fact I even had one who jumped on a plane to come home from a business trip because I was unexpectedly free that evening. I'm a Leo too, I understand where you're coming from with this, but you have to leave it to him and allow him to go after you, otherwise he is likely to stop - dead - like a bull 🙂 And no sexting or nearly sexting, it will put him in a frame of mind about you and he will be unlikely to change it - now that is typically Taurus. Taurus generally do have good grammar and are or can seem pretty intelligent etc. they are wordsmiths and its what I find most beautiful about them, but you need to pretty much ignore what he says, its his actions that will tell the story. You're right not to text or initiate any more at this stage, let him see by your actions that you're not prepared to enter into a back and forth texting game with him. Good luck, I hope he is everything you imagine he is when you finally meet with him. Hold those loins in check though lion, think with your head 😉

Well he just texted me, after 48 hrs of no contact. Last text exchanged, I asked him what his ebay ID was. He told me he sells a lot there so I was gonna look up his auctions. he didnt reply. For 48 hrs, nothing and todays text was making a joke about his trip back home tomorrow. For whatever reason, he wants to keep his ID private and thats ok. I will respect that.

I dont think I will reply today. I've got to figure out how to stop the "easier, softer" form of communicating via text. It's not for me anymore. Maybe tomorrow I will text as he is on his long drive home and tell him to feel free to call to kill time, if he wants. And leave it at that. I guess the change I want to see must begin with me. 🙂

Don't text him to call you on his way back, he knows he's on a long journey, he knows your phone number, he knows he can operate the phone and call you to see if you are free to talk to him - don't ask for him to do it. Also, why can he call you anytime, are you that available to him already? That's what he will think, you would be telling him you are completely free to be at his beck and call, i.e. no life to live - you have your time to do your stuff, your time is not his to kill his boredom. If you really must text him just tell him to enjoy his journey and leave it at that.

Posted by BigGirlPanties
I dont think I will reply today. I've got to figure out how to stop the "easier, softer" form of communicating via text. It's not for me anymore. Maybe tomorrow I will text as he is on his long drive home and tell him to feel free to call to kill time, if he wants. And leave it at that. I guess the change I want to see must begin with me. 🙂

48 freakin hours...and hits you up with a lame azz joke? GTFOH! ugh!
Don't worry about texting him on his ride back, leave him hanging. When the boring dead silence hits him on the road, I'm sure he'll have plenty of time to know what to do...(call YOU.) if he doesn't, let him enjoy or suffer the silence.

NO MORE TEXTING!!

Posted by celticlioness
Don't text him to call you on his way back, he knows he's on a long journey, he knows your phone number, he knows he can operate the phone and call you to see if you are free to talk to him - don't ask for him to do it. Also, why can he call you anytime, are you that available to him already? That's what he will think, you would be telling him you are completely free to be at his beck and call, i.e. no life to live - you have your time to do your stuff, your time is not his to kill his boredom. If you really must text him just tell him to enjoy his journey and leave it at that.

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Posted by celticlioness
Don't text him to call you on his way back, he knows he's on a long journey, he knows your phone number, he knows he can operate the phone and call you to see if you are free to talk to him - don't ask for him to do it. Also, why can he call you anytime, are you that available to him already? That's what he will think, you would be telling him you are completely free to be at his beck and call, i.e. no life to live - you have your time to do your stuff, your time is not his to kill his boredom. If you really must text him just tell him to enjoy his journey and leave it at that.

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+2...been there and been in that situation before. They are right.

Ok, kids...I will take your advice. No mas texting. It's a good thing I am exhuasted today cus Im too tired to even care.
He leaves at 8am tomorrow, so he can think allll about me on his lonely drive home. It's good for them to suffer at times, isnt it? 😉

Posted by BigGirlPanties
Ok, kids...I will take your advice. No mas texting. It's a good thing I am exhuasted today cus Im too tired to even care.
He leaves at 8am tomorrow, so he can think allll about me on his lonely drive home. It's good for them to suffer at times, isnt it? 😉

Yes.. but you will never know it if he does.

Posted by BigGirlPanties
Ok, kids...I will take your advice. No mas texting. It's a good thing I am exhuasted today cus Im too tired to even care.
He leaves at 8am tomorrow, so he can think allll about me on his lonely drive home. It's good for them to suffer at times, isnt it? 😉

Good Woman, leave them balls to the men, the vagina is a much stronger organ 🙂

U told him to call you?
Belle... I shouldnt get my claws out?

Where was this advice yesterday?!!? I ripped my bull a new asshole for flaking!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL! Aw shoot... I may need to file my Leo moons nails a bit.. Woopsy!

Posted by celticlioness
Don't text him to call you on his way back, he knows he's on a long journey, he knows your phone number, he knows he can operate the phone and call you to see if you are free to talk to him - don't ask for him to do it. Also, why can he call you anytime, are you that available to him already? That's what he will think, you would be telling him you are completely free to be at his beck and call, i.e. no life to live - you have your time to do your stuff, your time is not his to kill his boredom. If you really must text him just tell him to enjoy his journey and leave it at that.

Yes! This show him you gotz shit ta do aswell!!!