I think it's over...thoughts please?

This is my first time EVER posting here and its all thanks to a taurus man. I'm an aries with a cancer moon, venus in taurus as well as Mars in capricorn. He's a taurus with his moon in cancer, venus in cancer and Mars in taurus. Now we met a few weeks ago and he basically pursued me, I wasn't looking for anything serious (still not) but a few days into it all he started sending me pictures of apartments that he wanted to take a look at. He insuinated that he wanted us to move in together only to later on confirm thats what he wanted. I should've cut "us" off when I first saw signs of his controlling behavior (he almost got into a fight with someone because they touched my leg)

Now he made it clear he didn't want to rush things, and with that knowledge I didn't take the "moving in together" thing serious at all. I actually brushed it off. Anyway I got into a sticky situation and let him know I was thinking about roomating with someone else (a friend of mine who happens to be a guy) that ticked him off. We got into an argument and now he's pretty much been as distant as he's ever been. He use to call every night, text every day, and now all of that is null and void. I allowed that silence for about a week or so until I couldn't take it anymore. I'm quite straightforward and I can't deal with situations in that way. I saw him on Saturday to be exact and mentioned that things felt different between us somehow, he agreed that things indeed felt different and he went on to mention some things that we're going on his head and whatever. Understable. But I felt there was more there, so I kept digging until he finally revealed he still loves his ex wife and he's in a complete state of confusion. He said he still likes me and loves being around me but she has a hold on him. I got pissed off instantly. I'm pretty understanding and I'm almost certain if he would've laid that on the table when we met I would've handled it differently. Long story already long, I told him that I regret sleeping with him because if I didn't I wouldn't feel so hurt by it (I know I'm an idiot) he kept apologizing and I just turned to stone. I dropped him off at his house and he said verbatim "for what it's worth I'm sorry and i didn't mean to hurt that wasn't my intentions" I said nothing and drove off leaving him standing there. We haven't spoke since then. This got pretty long but I guess I'm asking for opinions. It seems done doesn't it? please go easy on me.

I actually met a Taurus male online.. except he's May 20 bull, and I am April 28 bullette..and 5 years older than I. He and I automatically clicked. .many values, morals, background exchanges, alot of communication and adapting..

Well I asked the questions before meeting up.. are you single, have or want any kids(said he missed his calling due to his age), our conversations are twin like spark ....he's alot like me...very emotional detached. Kinda didn't like that.

Well I am a Taurus so liked to know what you are feeling and doing all the time...well I pried it out. Finally I asked him who he was seeing, and how many dates? Hm he admitted he was stuck on his ex...and she has a kid but he felt he had to be there for her emotionally and physically and for the kid...Fuck that.. you are on a dating site looking for long term but starts out as friends first...

But I said in order to go out to meet in public he has to have no contact with his ex..that's baggage I don't deal with..
Well he did was supposed to meet however.. He tells me about an ex of his, how everything was great but she didn't make a stable life,(financial) broke up with her.. I didn't like that, and didn't like that the about his ex and he lied already, two flags right there....I proceed to talk to him because he let go of his ex to talk to me..I talked to him and it felt like he was really bummed.. I felt really bad but good so we can move on with the friendship...I accepted it.. ok talking for about 1 month or so non stop every day and night... same routine kinds of things we get comfortable doing..

Flash forward I told him about my financial stability and he offered for me to be his roommate and all I had to do was keep the refrigerator full and 400.. I barely know you and you have the idea I should move in..hm if I do that and everything hits the fan.. I lose my independence, my place I live now, and that's controlling.. you do this but I have to do that for you.. really....

Flash forward still haven't met.. he goes to vegas and drunk texting me his feelings..haha but the whole time not emotions nothing..that was a turn off..

So keep things light with him and take time to know him wholeheartedly to see what, how, why, he does and says the things he does...if you feel weirdly ask him.. we bulls are intuitive and sense when things aren't right we ask...

Why are you liking him?
Are there more red flags or gut instincts ?
How many times have you been out with him?

@firstdecantaurianwoman thanks for responding. Him almost getting into a fight because someone touched me was an extreme red flag because I'm not a possession or a property. He even said "I can't put you in a box or on a shelf" so that was a red flag that I looked past. Then the apartmenrt thing came up and he got upset that I was willing to roommate with someone else instead of him. I like his energy (besides all the controlling ways) and in the long run he seemed like he would be able to tame me, in terms of being in a relationship. I just saw him as someone I could eventually build with, YA know? But him disappearing and then reappearing to say he still loves his ex just threw me off because I would've muched rathered hearing that from the very beginning. I still like him a lot but I feel like we're done.

Damn that's worse than what I've been through..that's scary possessive shit. I get possessive but I also will let you do whatever.. I have no reason to doubt you..unless you are sneaky..

Well yeah mine was like move In with me so I can go to school. Hmm what I haven't even met you physically in person.. haha weirdo...

Yeah I asked mine early with are you seeing anyone. Haha didn't expect your ex in the picture..

Hmm I feel you.. you like him.. but there are standards I am all about. But when I met this twin like Taurus male..I was like I really feel like I have my panties up in a bunch and how I see people and myself changed my routine mind. I have a goal to be open minded more than ever...really I don't believe in controlling or abuse of any kind..or that emotional attached is scary.. no one I scare off some.

I learned something...just be friends and quit sex, get to know each other better, learn to compromise on what you think you need to..communication snd honesty.....other wise he will latch on to you and can get messy. He will always want you around and possibly home body style. Meaning don't want to go out or always want to do something with you...loyalty is key....

Oh mine told me to get on birth control..because loyalty is monogamous why wear condoms...so protect yourself..

Opps typo meant to say no wonder why I scare off some people with emotion..haha

Eyes wide open or shut...lol give or take..always work together never one sided..

I have emotion with my feelings they run deep, so my Aquarius moon helps with that and pluto in Libra makes me loosen up.. because everything else is earth fixed stellium placements...and I will tell what I feel up front in your face without alcohol breathe .. you shouldn't accept feelings under the influence..