I thought Taurus men weren't fans of one-night stands...

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Neither really! We were friendly and then we had sex, I had made clear I wasn't into one night stands and he agreed. But, what do you know, ever since he has been ignorant or nasty..I'm not bothered. But he lives round here and I saw him today, awkwarrddddd!!!
guys will say anything to get into your pants...

some even go far as saying they will marry you.
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That's why I'll have some innocent fun with them and leave them with blue balls. Not one ounce of sympathy from me whatsoever. I said from the getgo that I don't plan to be intimate unless I'm in a relationship. They say "yeah, sure, that's fine". Then will try to be guys and slither. I can play stupid too, but you're not going to like it. Stay blue and get it on elsewhere. -__-
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Neither really! We were friendly and then we had sex, I had made clear I wasn't into one night stands and he agreed. But, what do you know, ever since he has been ignorant or nasty..I'm not bothered. But he lives round here and I saw him today, awkwarrddddd!!!
guys will say anything to get into your pants...

some even go far as saying they will marry you.
That's why I'll have some innocent fun with them and leave them with blue balls. Not one ounce of sympathy from me whatsoever. I said from the getgo that I don't plan to be intimate unless I'm in a relationship. They say "yeah, sure, that's fine". Then will try to be guys and slither. I can play stupid too, but you're not going to like it. Stay blue and get it on elsewhere. -__-
LOL. .. I'm finally learning the game. Teach me your ways.. oh one who makes guys blue.
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LMAO!! My intentions are not evil, but maybe they think I'm all talk and no action, that I just "preach" about some of my morals but when it goes down, I'll put morals aside; fuck no. Either respect it or keep it moving. Not a prude, but I'm built to need and desire an emotional connection with someone I care deeply for. Can't go all the way with someone I barely know or care about. Things like that take time for me. Only way it'll speed up a little is if dude opens up to me quickly and keeps it real about it.
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All I said was "I thought Taurus men weren't fans of one night stands"..I have no reaction.
Youve called them snakes and said you you've lost respect.

You're annoyed, probably disappointed. It's not to say you are not right to feel that way but in order for you not to get taken in again next time, understand that you also played a part in this happening.

You told him you dont do one night stands and then proceeded to have sex with a guy who you said you were only friendly with. You behaved in way that said I have one night stands.

The blame doesn't lay solely on him. You also should take some personal responsibility in your disappointment.
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All I said was "I thought Taurus men weren't fans of one night stands"..I have no reaction.
Youve called them snakes and said you you've lost respect.

You're annoyed, probably disappointed. It's not to say you are not right to feel that way but in order for you not to get taken in again next time, understand that you also played a part in this happening.

You told him you dont do one night stands and then proceeded to have sex with a guy who you said you were only friendly with. You behaved in way that said I have one night stands.

The blame doesn't lay solely on him. You also should take some personal responsibility in your disappointment.
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How is this her fault?

Darn! It rhymes!!!
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Just because we're not fans of them doesn't mean we won't have them if we so choose. Even though we do prefer serious relationships where we can let our love and emotions free we can have one night stands because we know our role and know when to invest or not sounds to me like you didn't know your role like Jeane said you played your part in it happening.
Have you not heard a girl?

She disappointed in bad sex!

She is totally ok with everything but after him failed to deliver he is being nasty!

Probably embarrassed shitless!!!
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Just because we're not fans of them doesn't mean we won't have them if we so choose. Even though we do prefer serious relationships where we can let our love and emotions free we can have one night stands because we know our role and know when to invest or not sounds to me like you didn't know your role like Jeane said you played your part in it happening.
Have you not heard a girl?

She disappointed in bad sex!

She is totally ok with everything but after him failed to deliver he is being nasty!

Probably embarrassed shitless!!!
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oh didn't read the whole thing my bad still what did she expect especially after bad sex

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Just because we're not fans of them doesn't mean we won't have them if we so choose. Even though we do prefer serious relationships where we can let our love and emotions free we can have one night stands because we know our role and know when to invest or not sounds to me like you didn't know your role like Jeane said you played your part in it happening.
Have you not heard a girl?

She disappointed in bad sex!

She is totally ok with everything but after him failed to deliver he is being nasty!

Probably embarrassed shitless!!!

oh didn't read the whole thing my bad still what did she expect especially after bad sex

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I don't know but definitely for him not be nasty! Maybe make up for failure!
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All I said was "I thought Taurus men weren't fans of one night stands"..I have no reaction.
Youve called them snakes and said you you've lost respect.

You're annoyed, probably disappointed. It's not to say you are not right to feel that way but in order for you not to get taken in again next time, understand that you also played a part in this happening.

You told him you dont do one night stands and then proceeded to have sex with a guy who you said you were only friendly with. You behaved in way that said I have one night stands.

The blame doesn't lay solely on him. You also should take some personal responsibility in your disappointment.
2 pumps and a squirt

How is this her fault?

Darn! It rhymes!!!
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Yeah so he is rubbish in bed but that wasn't her primary complaint. She feels misled. She didn't think after agreeing that neither likes one night stands that it would be a one night stand. She is right to be aggrieved. I'm just saying, like she acknowledged, that if you don't want it to be a one night stand, don't sleep with someone until you are in a relationship.

People can be quick to blame the behaviour of others without recognising that they contributed to the situation too.

You can't control the behaviour of others. You can only control yourself.
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Posted by Manana
I wasn't talking about him specifically actually: I said I respect men more that are upfront about their intentions in general.

Disappointed, not really in a romantic sense, in reference to lack of respect as humans, yep! I also said I was half to blame, I accept responsibility for my actions and place no blame on the other.
Yea... it sounds like you are trying to have your cake or eat it too. You call him a snake, you make it seem that he was playing a game or being deceptive to get you in bed, but you say you place no blame? Uh....

You put it out there that you don't want anything romantic, just a FWB (I suppose), but you are annoyed that it was a one time hook up and not multiple hook ups? Wha?

Did you lay out these rules and restrictions to him or did you think he would assume he is special because you said you're not into one night stands, BUT you waived that rule JUST for him. I'm not sure YOU are being realistic in your expectations. Did you tell him your expectations, and if you didn't tell the man how would he know?

In my mind... if you wanted more from this equation you should have laid it out there before you guys went there. If you did not, then there was no contract for both of you to adhere to and you have no ground to get disappointed about.

He isn't a bad guy and neither are you. I just think you are being extremely unrealistic. That man owes nothing to you. Not even a second glace. Sometimes what you found interesting in a person disappears... this can happen before sex and after.

Regardless you seem sore about something that wasn't spectacular anyways...unless you are overcompensating... *shrugs*
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Lol i don't think it's good for us scorp gals to talk in taurus forum about a particular taurus habit with one unison voice ?

They'll consider it to be rude.
Exactly what I was thinking honestly —


Who cares what Taurus thinks when Scorpio is speaking? ?
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Yeah. Was it not clear this was the Taurus forum? The other sign forums are thatway. Some people try too hard.

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Calm down sissy!!
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Who you talking too? I wasnt talking about you. Some people have some nerve behind a computer screen. In person? not so much. All Im saying is people are free to pollute whatever sign they "prefers" board. To go out of your way to go to a board shows you care. Aint like we need that presence haha. Thats why Im a Taurus and no other sign so I can have calm and not be bothered. haha I could care less what the others are doing. Glad it's not me I dont want to know.
Bro, you quoted me...n I replied you quoting you..n now you didn't quote me n still are asking me who I'm talking to—? All that with your hahas?? I can answer you but I won't! Go continue haha-ing??
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Who you talking too? I wasnt talking about you. Some people have some nerve behind a computer screen. In person? not so much. All Im saying is people are free to pollute whatever sign they "prefers" board. To go out of your way to go to a board shows you care. Aint like we need that presence haha. Thats why Im a Taurus and no other sign so I can have calm and not be bothered. haha I could care less what the others are doing. Glad it's not me I dont want to know.
Bro, you quoted me...n I replied you quoting you..n now you didn't quote me n still are asking me who I'm talking to—? All that with your hahas?? I can answer you but I won't! Go continue haha-ing??
Yeah but I wasnt referencing your comment because you didnt even make a comment. haha. Anyway...I was just referencing the nonsense. No need to go out of your way to come to our board (there are actual Tauruses here like me and this is Taurus board...) to bring irrelevant nonsense. Thats why each sign has their board. Dont try to force or overcompensate. Of course that was to that poster and not you. Again thats one of the many reasons I love being my sign-the ability to mind my own and let others do what they do out there. If it doesnt involve me, fine then I shouldnt be bothered.

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Ok if that wasn't for me, we're done ?

I think you were implying @Gemitati . Maybe she has something to say.
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Who you talking too? I wasnt talking about you. Some people have some nerve behind a computer screen. In person? not so much. All Im saying is people are free to pollute whatever sign they "prefers" board. To go out of your way to go to a board shows you care. Aint like we need that presence haha. Thats why Im a Taurus and no other sign so I can have calm and not be bothered. haha I could care less what the others are doing. Glad it's not me I dont want to know.
Bro, you quoted me...n I replied you quoting you..n now you didn't quote me n still are asking me who I'm talking to—? All that with your hahas?? I can answer you but I won't! Go continue haha-ing??
Yeah but I wasnt referencing your comment because you didnt even make a comment. haha. Anyway...I was just referencing the nonsense. No need to go out of your way to come to our board (there are actual Tauruses here like me and this is Taurus board...) to bring irrelevant nonsense. Thats why each sign has their board. Dont try to force or overcompensate. Of course that was to that poster and not you. Again thats one of the many reasons I love being my sign-the ability to mind my own and let others do what they do out there. If it doesnt involve me, fine then I shouldnt be bothered.


Ok if that wasn't for me, we're done ?

I think you were implying @Gemitati . Maybe she has something to say.


Yeah exactly. I just quoted you because it seemed like same thing really. Thought my intentions were clear. Im not going back and forth with anyone I made my point. Thats why every sign has their own board. To talk about that sign. So my point was go do your thing, I wont know or care what is discussed over there if Im not interested in discussing that sign. Simple, straight forward and no you cant bring nonsense into the bull pen. bulldoze that out. Im a Taurus I dont even let it come around. Its kind of how I live in general. Ok...my point was made and it was all directed to that poster and not you...now that thats clear I guess thats it on that.

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LOL! That's ok..cool! I understand what you're trying to tell..but this is an open forum n ppl will want to give their opinions based on their experiences on every board. We can't keep taking offence everytime when someone comments against our sign. I mean you can but that'll be draining. As for Gemitati, she was only trolling ?
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Who you talking too? I wasnt talking about you. Some people have some nerve behind a computer screen. In person? not so much. All Im saying is people are free to pollute whatever sign they "prefers" board. To go out of your way to go to a board shows you care. Aint like we need that presence haha. Thats why Im a Taurus and no other sign so I can have calm and not be bothered. haha I could care less what the others are doing. Glad it's not me I dont want to know.
Bro, you quoted me...n I replied you quoting you..n now you didn't quote me n still are asking me who I'm talking to—? All that with your hahas?? I can answer you but I won't! Go continue haha-ing??
Yeah but I wasnt referencing your comment because you didnt even make a comment. haha. Anyway...I was just referencing the nonsense. No need to go out of your way to come to our board (there are actual Tauruses here like me and this is Taurus board...) to bring irrelevant nonsense. Thats why each sign has their board. Dont try to force or overcompensate. Of course that was to that poster and not you. Again thats one of the many reasons I love being my sign-the ability to mind my own and let others do what they do out there. If it doesnt involve me, fine then I shouldnt be bothered.


Ok if that wasn't for me, we're done ?

I think you were implying @Gemitati . Maybe she has something to say.


Yeah exactly. I just quoted you because it seemed like same thing really. Thought my intentions were clear. Im not going back and forth with anyone I made my point. Thats why every sign has their own board. To talk about that sign. So my point was go do your thing, I wont know or care what is discussed over there if Im not interested in discussing that sign. Simple, straight forward and no you cant bring nonsense into the bull pen. bulldoze that out. Im a Taurus I dont even let it come around. Its kind of how I live in general. Ok...my point was made and it was all directed to that poster and not you...now that thats clear I guess thats it on that.


LOL! That's ok..cool! I understand what you're trying to tell..but this is an open forum n ppl will want to give their opinions based on their experiences on every board. We can't keep taking offence everytime when someone comments against our sign. I mean you can but that'll be draining. As for Gemitati, she was only trolling ?
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No I was not trolling!

I meant every word I said!

(what did I say?)
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Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by Teena
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Who you talking too? I wasnt talking about you. Some people have some nerve behind a computer screen. In person? not so much. All Im saying is people are free to pollute whatever sign they "prefers" board. To go out of your way to go to a board shows you care. Aint like we need that presence haha. Thats why Im a Taurus and no other sign so I can have calm and not be bothered. haha I could care less what the others are doing. Glad it's not me I dont want to know.
Bro, you quoted me...n I replied you quoting you..n now you didn't quote me n still are asking me who I'm talking to—? All that with your hahas?? I can answer you but I won't! Go continue haha-ing??
Yeah but I wasnt referencing your comment because you didnt even make a comment. haha. Anyway...I was just referencing the nonsense. No need to go out of your way to come to our board (there are actual Tauruses here like me and this is Taurus board...) to bring irrelevant nonsense. Thats why each sign has their board. Dont try to force or overcompensate. Of course that was to that poster and not you. Again thats one of the many reasons I love being my sign-the ability to mind my own and let others do what they do out there. If it doesnt involve me, fine then I shouldnt be bothered.


Ok if that wasn't for me, we're done ?

I think you were implying @Gemitati . Maybe she has something to say.


Yeah exactly. I just quoted you because it seemed like same thing really. Thought my intentions were clear. Im not going back and forth with anyone I made my point. Thats why every sign has their own board. To talk about that sign. So my point was go do your thing, I wont know or care what is discussed over there if Im not interested in discussing that sign. Simple, straight forward and no you cant bring nonsense into the bull pen. bulldoze that out. Im a Taurus I dont even let it come around. Its kind of how I live in general. Ok...my point was made and it was all directed to that poster and not you...now that thats clear I guess thats it on that.


LOL! That's ok..cool! I understand what you're trying to tell..but this is an open forum n ppl will want to give their opinions based on their experiences on every board. We can't keep taking offence everytime when someone comments against our sign. I mean you can but that'll be draining. As for Gemitati, she was only trolling ?
No I was not trolling!

I meant every word I said!

(what did I say?)

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I think this "who cares what taurus says when scorpio is speaking"
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Who you talking too? I wasnt talking about you. Some people have some nerve behind a computer screen. In person? not so much. All Im saying is people are free to pollute whatever sign they "prefers" board. To go out of your way to go to a board shows you care. Aint like we need that presence haha. Thats why Im a Taurus and no other sign so I can have calm and not be bothered. haha I could care less what the others are doing. Glad it's not me I dont want to know.
Bro, you quoted me...n I replied you quoting you..n now you didn't quote me n still are asking me who I'm talking to—? All that with your hahas?? I can answer you but I won't! Go continue haha-ing??
Yeah but I wasnt referencing your comment because you didnt even make a comment. haha. But I understand that point it may have been confusing. Anyway...I was just referencing the nonsense. No need to go out of your way to come to our board (there are actual Tauruses here like me and this is Taurus board...) to bring irrelevant nonsense. Thats why each sign has their board. Dont try to force or overcompensate. Of course that was to that poster and not you. Again thats one of the many reasons I love being my sign-the ability to mind my own and let others do what they do out there. If it doesnt involve me, fine then I shouldnt be bothered.



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And you bothered...to the point that you want to be 'thread participation monitor'.

That's laughable. Riot even!
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Who you talking too? I wasnt talking about you. Some people have some nerve behind a computer screen. In person? not so much. All Im saying is people are free to pollute whatever sign they "prefers" board. To go out of your way to go to a board shows you care. Aint like we need that presence haha. Thats why Im a Taurus and no other sign so I can have calm and not be bothered. haha I could care less what the others are doing. Glad it's not me I dont want to know.
Bro, you quoted me...n I replied you quoting you..n now you didn't quote me n still are asking me who I'm talking to—? All that with your hahas?? I can answer you but I won't! Go continue haha-ing??
Yeah but I wasnt referencing your comment because you didnt even make a comment. haha. Anyway...I was just referencing the nonsense. No need to go out of your way to come to our board (there are actual Tauruses here like me and this is Taurus board...) to bring irrelevant nonsense. Thats why each sign has their board. Dont try to force or overcompensate. Of course that was to that poster and not you. Again thats one of the many reasons I love being my sign-the ability to mind my own and let others do what they do out there. If it doesnt involve me, fine then I shouldnt be bothered.


Ok if that wasn't for me, we're done ?

I think you were implying @Gemitati . Maybe she has something to say.


Yeah exactly. I just quoted you because it seemed like same thing really. Thought my intentions were clear. Im not going back and forth with anyone I made my point. Thats why every sign has their own board. To talk about that sign. So my point was go do your thing, I wont know or care what is discussed over there if Im not interested in discussing that sign. Simple, straight forward and no you cant bring nonsense into the bull pen. bulldoze that out. Im a Taurus I dont even let it come around. Its kind of how I live in general. Ok...my point was made and it was all directed to that poster and not you...now that thats clear I guess thats it on that.


LOL! That's ok..cool! I understand what you're trying to tell..but this is an open forum n ppl will want to give their opinions based on their experiences on every board. We can't keep taking offence everytime when someone comments against our sign. I mean you can but that'll be draining. As for Gemitati, she was only trolling ?
No I was not trolling!

I meant every word I said!

(what did I say?)


—?

/Dead

I think this "who cares what taurus says when scorpio is speaking"

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I figured! Wasn't sure it's this thread.

? I needed Laugh. Thanks
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