Important question for a Taurus Man

I needed some information; I have a Taurus male friend in my life right now who is going through career changes -- and a divorce.

Although I haven't seen him in years, we've been in touch via phone -- and sometimes email -- for over a year. We have a great connection and I believe he is my soulmate -- and I think he feels it too.

However, recently we had a misunderstanding -- through words -- and he suggested that we should not speak to each other and take a break. But it's been a few weeks now.

He is going through a lot and feeling stressed in his life right now; I'm wondering if our misunderstanding just made his stress multiply that day, and perhaps I'm just another stress for him to worry about that he can't deal with right now.

I'm not one to take things personal, but my important question is now, is he one to walk out of my life for good because of this misunderstanding, or is it because of all his problems at the moment.

The thing I don't get is if you had a little disagreement after a year of chating and he needs a break.Come on.Say you 2 have been living together for a year how long do think it would take before he told you he was leaving cause he needed a break.In a way with what was going on in his life you might of gave him that exta support for him to follow threw his problems,divorce ect.Here's a little story about me.My ex-girl was a rich pristine girl.She was on the verge of leaving me because I didn't make her feel good about herself anymore.She got comfortable with me and started gaining weight.I never ever dogged her she was still beautiful to me.She didn't look heavy @ all.Anyway another girl I met in the mean time kept going by my house.I didn't show my girl enough attention and she left me.I guess you figure out what happened next.The other girl couldn't get enough,,over every night.Now I know I wasn't going to be with her forever she was a fling.I didn't tell her that because I think she was in love with me.My exgirl had waited for me to go back to her.If this other girl wasn't around to fill that void a little I probably would be married to my first true love. I was still devestated and think of her till this day.Well my point being is that I am guilty of using girls for whatever reason.You would really know if this guy wanted you and only you.A true soul mate would never need a break it would hurt his heart too much,and would be afraid of loosing you for good.In my case I finally had a taste for freedom 19yrs old -23 was a long time having another mother ya know.On the other hand when the fun was over it was to late.That was the hardest lesson I ever had to learn.Now i'm with a aquarius and living together for 5yrs.I love her to death.She doesn't show how much she loves me ,even though she says she does.My postings are on the aquarius page.Check it out and you can really see what this real taurus is all about.Thanks talk to ya soon

Thank you Taurus, you answered my question too. I wish that he could have been that honest and told me i was just a fling, transitional woman or whatever you want to call it, instead of saying "just trust me".

Thanks anyhow but you have misunderstand a bit; And I didn't have time to post it all -- nor do I care to go into too much detail. But I am not in a relationship with this man; so his needing a break from chatting with a long distance friend would obviously be different. We haven't seen each other in years and live in different states.

And I'm not helping him get over his divorce as we have not been together intimately. He is already doing that with other woman and we speak about it.

My whole point in posting was trying to figure out his Taurus personality -- even in friendship, because thats all we have at the moment. I was wondering in our first disagreement or misunderstanding would he walk away for good and be the type to not communicate about it.

But since that first posting, we have spoken and have both agreed the break is good as he needs to run around and get over this divorce. If we are truly soulmates -- like we feel, we will be together when the time is right.

Maybe the disagreement scared him a bit and already shook his muddled world.

As a taurus male going through career changes and a recent divorce I could say he felt best to retreat. If you are good friends, he is not gone. He is simply trying to get life straight before talking with you. It is possible that the disagreement scared him and with everything else made him feel like he could lose something else - your friendship. His world has been seriously rocked and since we like stability, he doesn't want to rock it too much more.

Make sense?

Hi,

Yes, it does make sense. Thanks