Is my Taurus bored?

Hi guys,

i am a cap (22) and my taurus (22) are together for 2 years now. I love him with all my heart. Lately i unfortunately regocnized that he is not that attentive anymore. Like, he still tells me everyday that he loves me but it also became kind of a routine saying so to each other so i am never sure how serious he's really about it. Next thing is: somethimes he looks at other girls. I know, I know, this is sth normal...but sometimes he looks at them 5-10 secs and then I ask myself 'What te f*ck is so interesting about her?' like I get serious self esteem problems because actually i thought I am the one for him but doesnt is say otherwise that I am not 'the one' when he looks at other girls? Hope not....

Is it normal for Tauruses to look at pretty girls even if their gf sits right next to them?

Next thing is: I am going to spend a semester abroad and we are not going to see each other for a few month. So now I am really afraid if it is a good idea to talk with him about it (now) because this maybe creates trust issues or sth. Anyone who used to have this feelings as well or knows sth i don't? Am I overreacting? He also doesnt look for other girls constantly, it is more that I am paying such a high attention on 'WHERE IS HE LOOKING?!' damn i feel like a crazy bitch haha. At the start of our relationship it was the other way round.

heeeeeeelp please

btw i am from germany so sorry for mistakes.

He's not bored.

Just Venusian.

Like their Venusian counterparts, Libra, there would always be a need to observe things, people, etc, with an aesthetic eye.

It's an appreciation for everything and anything attractive.

This can also be stated for the senses, aromas, touches, pleasant voices, etc.

However, this level of admiration is NEVER done in the presence of our partners.

We're possessive by nature, but respectful in character.

Translation: We have a need to respect everything and every one that belongs to us, in a more traditional sense.

If he's behaving that way, he may not be all that invested.

And no, you're not overreacting.

I may sneak a subtle glimpse, but I NEVER disrespect.

If you catch him doing this again....

Mush him in the face....

Feel for you and I've been there.... I can speak from experience when I say these things usually mean bigger issues. I always try to give the benefit of the doubt but it usually rings true in the end that there's something bigger going on here.

You're feeling insecure and crazy only because he is making you feel that way. So get it out of your head right now that you are a nutcase... You feel things shifting. I like the mushing him in his face advice! 😄 Stand up against it now, hun, or he will continue to do it and things will snowball for you from bad to worse. Seriously. Stand your ground and let him know how you are feeling! You don't have to be mean or crazy about it. In fact, don't be. Be stern and to the point. If he respects you and what you've said and stops doing it - he is worth keeping around. If not, I would drop him like a bad habit.

Best of luck - I know where you're at and it's awful.

He's 22. You've been together since you are 20. He's going to look. There's a whole world of women out there he is currently shut off from.

I think it's unreasonable to expect him to be behave like a man who has the control to not ogle in front of his partner. He's a kid with high levels of testosterone coursing through his body. He's going to look. Don't take it personally. You even said you're driving yourself crazy with it and he doesn't do it constantly.