Is there still chance?

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misscap
@misscap
16 Years

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1st post here, please be patience with your response.

Long story short.
I am interested in a taurus. Been friends for a while, have started having feelings. Thought I would be nice to him by doing something for his bday april 30, turning 40 by creating photo book for him, pics of him and his family only.

So via facebook I sent message to his family asking for his baby pix, asking them not to tell him, as I wanted to be a surprise. But somehow, someone ended up telling him.

His family does not know me, I guess now they are questioning him about me. I think it is making him uncomfortable or something, he told me not to email his family anymore, and although he appreciated me doing something nice for him maybe I should not do it after all.

I am afraid, I might have lost his friendship. We haven't really talked after that, only via email.

He had mentioned before about us getting together but we never really got into a relationship, but remained really close as friends. We always said goodbyes with hug and kiss on lips, ended up making out a some times, obviously we both have feelings for each other.

For now I am just keeping a distance, and giving him space, until things cool down little bit, then maybe try to talk. I don't want to lose him. What do you experts think, have I lost him or is there still chance?

I told him my intention was only to do something nice for him nothing else.
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misscap
@misscap
16 Years

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Yeah I don't think he liked his family getting in this middle.
Well 2 days later I saw him around, I was talking to someone else, he was just passing by, smiling at staring at me. He actually passed by almost brushing me, his body was leaning towards me.

If he also wasn't having feelings, why else would he talk about us dating and being in a relationship? And when we depart to say goodbye, he would always go for kiss on lips, or just want to make out. The very first time when he went for kiss, I was hesitant b/c I thought of us only as friends, but I went along anyway, and yes it felt good.

These behavior puzzles me.
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CaplovesVir
@CaplovesVir
18 Years

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Nov_Scor, I guess being another cap I can understand misscap trying to being nice. We tend to do that when we like some too much. I don't even want to go there..the things I ended up doing for my Virgo. When we give ourselves to someone, we give 200% .

Anyway, in regards to your comments:
"I pegged her as insane and became suspicious of her motives immediately. "
What did you mean by this, "by her motives",
In my eyes it was just being overtly nice, but then again I am another Cap.