Besides being direct and saying I do not want to be with you anymore, don't call me and ignoring them what esle can be done or said to make them lose interest?
"he has probably ALREADY lost interest in you if you had done all such stuff you mentioned above. he isn't just showing it to you YET."
- This is what I was expecting to happen really, but it has been the total opposite....It is like he is no charging full speed ahead at me like an enraged bull to get me to see things his way...He is not backing down by a long shot...
I have done every thing...I have ignored him for days and he still will text and call me, this is after telling him that I don't want to see him anymore...
Maybe its because he knows he is in the wrong...IDK...I really do like and care for him but I cannot and will not deal with him, which is what I told him...
When I talk it just seems like he hears only his own voice...If I say I do not want to see you, he will follow thru with Why?....Let's got to dinner?....He will even tell me he is coming to my house?..
I think he has come to my house too when I was ignoring him because I have awoke to multiple missed calls or text messages asking Where are you? Come out side...Pick up your phone.etc...
I have never encountered someone so intent on having their way....
Yes he is a Taurus. I am sure of that....Everything was going great between us and bam....I felt as though he lied to me confronted him. I explained my reasoning for my decision and actions and that I couldn't get past the situation so I honestly told him that I did not want to deal/be with/have anything to do with him anymore....
That was like talking to myself because he basically feels like he explained the situation and I should take his word as is and we should continue on our merry way.....I do not think so....
He has pushed me back into my shell, where I am trying to regain some level of peace and comfort but its as though he is trying to crack my shell open although I am pinching his lil ass all up in the face and everything....lol?
Tell him there's someone else. If he doesnt get the hint he's definitely "stalkerish" I'm in a similar situation. He just doesn't get that I'm not interested and I don't want to get rude. :/
The problem here is your reasoning - he believes that under the circumstances he can change your mind. As long as the issue isn't that you simply don't "like" him he'll believe he can win you back. You have no choice but to patiently continue ignoring him and if he shows up where you are very bluntly tell him he's not welcome. It will take a while - we are stubborn as hell - but eventually he will give up; but not as long as he believes there is even the tiniest shimmer of hope. We just don't give up, and I don't just mean "easily" I mean we really won't give up..... not until we are 100% there's nothing to keep trying for. You just have to be as stubborn as he is; I'm afraid this one's not going away over night.
[I'm assuming by the way that we are talking about t2]
...we dont let go until we're ready....truuuust me. I cant let go *crying* we wont until we're ready cuz we have a small voice in the back of our heads that say "he doesnt mean it, she just isnt ready to accept this love"...especially if its a Cancer we're chasing lmao. Sorry homie I had to comment