Is this taurus guy leading me on?

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london_libra
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I just had this exact experience with a Taurus guy. It is a turnoff to behave in that manipulative way. Don't let it happen to you like it did to me.

Have a really frank conversation with, ask him out or if that's too much, ask him how he feels about you. Start off by being honest with him that you like him.

I really wish I'd done this with my Taurus months ago, it would have saved a whole lot of heartache down the line. The short sharp shock of rejection early on is much easier to recover from than the drawn out rejection after having been lead on for months.
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Posted by london_libra
I just had this exact experience with a Taurus guy. It is a turnoff to behave in that manipulative way. Don't let it happen to you like it did to me.

Have a really frank conversation with, ask him out or if that's too much, ask him how he feels about you. Start off by being honest with him that you like him.

I really wish I'd done this with my Taurus months ago, it would have saved a whole lot of heartache down the line. The short sharp shock of rejection early on is much easier to recover from than the drawn out rejection after having been lead on for months.
I second this post
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Posted by confusedaries7513
I have known this guy for about a month or two now through mutual friends. I send him a picture of a girl ( we tend to do that) and he goes "is that you?" I'm like no.. Why? Then he said that she is like my "alter-ego" and i look like her in every picture. Later on he asks me for this girl's twitter account.

For the fun of it we tend to dm these girls we find hot on instagram/ twitter but neither of them ever reply... Obviously cause neither me or him really post pictures of ourselves on social media.

I'm not getting my hopes up in any way. But the thought of this situtation sometimes keeps me up at night when i like to overthink. Because i can't make sense out of it.

If he liked me he would have asked me out right? And that means he is not attracted to me?

He has mentioned to me before that he might have led a girl on into believeing that he actually liked her and ended up breaking her heart which just really turned me off. And i cant help but wonder if this is what taurus guys do?
If he is dm'ing girls he finds attractive, it sounds like he is not into you.
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Posted by tiziani
I don't see anything in your story to suggest anything whatsoever really, sorry. I don't even know why people are saying he's not into you. There weren't any details that swung it in either direction. It sounds like a normal acquaintance. And you said you were turned off now, so no problem right? Find someone who's really clear about their interest, if that's the kind of reassurance you want from a man.

So as a guy, if you were interested in someone would you talk to them about pursuing other women? Saying you regret not making a move on other women and chatting basically like you would with other men?

Just interested in a guys point of view.

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Posted by jeane
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I don't see anything in your story to suggest anything whatsoever really, sorry. I don't even know why people are saying he's not into you. There weren't any details that swung it in either direction. It sounds like a normal acquaintance. And you said you were turned off now, so no problem right? Find someone who's really clear about their interest, if that's the kind of reassurance you want from a man.

So as a guy, if you were interested in someone would you talk to them about pursuing other women? Saying you regret not making a move on other women and chatting basically like you would with other men?

Just interested in a guys point of view.


Personally, I wouldn't even have that conversation with men because I don't relate to that.

What I read from her story was that they were finding attractive women on IG or something, and seeing how each other would hit on a woman. I've done that inside a relationship, I've done it outside of a relationship.

This very short story is inconclusive to me.

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The other men part is he jokes around with her like you do with a buddy. Calls her "mate", talks about chicks.

They weren't talking how they would hit on these women but rather she is providing photos and he is messaging them. This is the third thread asking the same question is about 2 weeks.
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OP, give up already.

How many desperate women in the world are there?

We have already advised you on your countless threads that this Taurus is not interested in you for anything more than friendship/light flirtation.

Get it into your head.

Accept it and move on.

You may see him as some prize you have to attain but he does not see you in the same way.

Please just move the hell on. He can probably smell your desperation a mile off.

Taurus men are particular about the women they chose for a relationship. But as we have told you before you don’t qualify.

He sees you as a platonic friend and that’s IT.

U r a fire sign. Know when you are a flogging a dead horse and MOVE ON.

Dont take any notice of London Libra as she is as desperate as you are.

Blame yourselves.

The tauruses in BOTH of your cases found neither of you to be attractive enough other than PLATONIC friendship.

Now swallow that damn pill and stop plugging our boards with your nonsensical threads.

How many posts are you two going to create and receiving the exact same answers:

HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.


NOW you are a guru of 'who is notninto whom'—

What ta heck are you doing giving your opinion like it's...valid! ?

So you have so many episodes guys being not into you so you can post walls of text because of it? Shut up!!'
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Posted by tiziani
Posted by jeane
Posted by tiziani
I don't see anything in your story to suggest anything whatsoever really, sorry. I don't even know why people are saying he's not into you. There weren't any details that swung it in either direction. It sounds like a normal acquaintance. And you said you were turned off now, so no problem right? Find someone who's really clear about their interest, if that's the kind of reassurance you want from a man.

So as a guy, if you were interested in someone would you talk to them about pursuing other women? Saying you regret not making a move on other women and chatting basically like you would with other men?

Just interested in a guys point of view.


Personally, I wouldn't even have that conversation with men because I don't relate to that.

What I read from her story was that they were finding attractive women on IG or something, and seeing how each other would hit on a woman. I've done that inside a relationship, I've done it outside of a relationship.

This very short story is inconclusive to me.



The other men part is he jokes around with her like you do with a buddy. Calls her "mate", talks about chicks.

They weren't talking how they would hit on these women but rather she is providing photos and he is messaging them. This is the third thread asking the same question is about 2 weeks.

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Jeane,

Are you keeping tabs on people?

Excel or Word? ?
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Posted by Maidemarilyn
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Maidemarilyn
OP, give up already.

How many desperate women in the world are there?

We have already advised you on your countless threads that this Taurus is not interested in you for anything more than friendship/light flirtation.

Get it into your head.

Accept it and move on.

You may see him as some prize you have to attain but he does not see you in the same way.

Please just move the hell on. He can probably smell your desperation a mile off.

Taurus men are particular about the women they chose for a relationship. But as we have told you before you don’t qualify.

He sees you as a platonic friend and that’s IT.

U r a fire sign. Know when you are a flogging a dead horse and MOVE ON.

Dont take any notice of London Libra as she is as desperate as you are.

Blame yourselves.

The tauruses in BOTH of your cases found neither of you to be attractive enough other than PLATONIC friendship.

Now swallow that damn pill and stop plugging our boards with your nonsensical threads.

How many posts are you two going to create and receiving the exact same answers:

HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.


NOW you are a guru of 'who is notninto whom'—

What ta heck are you doing giving your opinion like it's...valid! ?

So you have so many episodes guys being not into you so you can post walls of text because of it? Shut up!!'
Who the hell are you to tell people to shut up dick face.

My opinion is an opinion so that makes it valid.
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I can tell you to Fk off if it suits you better!

Your opinion is valid to you only!

So far you polluted this forum with so much crap and none of it valid nor makes sense. Are you that lonely? Or just learned how to type? Carpal tunnel syndrome isn't a myth you know...

Moron!
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by jeane
Posted by tiziani
Posted by jeane
Posted by tiziani
I don't see anything in your story to suggest anything whatsoever really, sorry. I don't even know why people are saying he's not into you. There weren't any details that swung it in either direction. It sounds like a normal acquaintance. And you said you were turned off now, so no problem right? Find someone who's really clear about their interest, if that's the kind of reassurance you want from a man.

So as a guy, if you were interested in someone would you talk to them about pursuing other women? Saying you regret not making a move on other women and chatting basically like you would with other men?

Just interested in a guys point of view.


Personally, I wouldn't even have that conversation with men because I don't relate to that.

What I read from her story was that they were finding attractive women on IG or something, and seeing how each other would hit on a woman. I've done that inside a relationship, I've done it outside of a relationship.

This very short story is inconclusive to me.



The other men part is he jokes around with her like you do with a buddy. Calls her "mate", talks about chicks.

They weren't talking how they would hit on these women but rather she is providing photos and he is messaging them. This is the third thread asking the same question is about 2 weeks.


Jeane,

Are you keeping tabs on people?

Excel or Word? ?
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Access
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Posted by confusedaries7513
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by jeane
Posted by tiziani
Posted by jeane
Posted by tiziani
I don't see anything in your story to suggest anything whatsoever really, sorry. I don't even know why people are saying he's not into you. There weren't any details that swung it in either direction. It sounds like a normal acquaintance. And you said you were turned off now, so no problem right? Find someone who's really clear about their interest, if that's the kind of reassurance you want from a man.

So as a guy, if you were interested in someone would you talk to them about pursuing other women? Saying you regret not making a move on other women and chatting basically like you would with other men?

Just interested in a guys point of view.


Personally, I wouldn't even have that conversation with men because I don't relate to that.

What I read from her story was that they were finding attractive women on IG or something, and seeing how each other would hit on a woman. I've done that inside a relationship, I've done it outside of a relationship.

This very short story is inconclusive to me.



The other men part is he jokes around with her like you do with a buddy. Calls her "mate", talks about chicks.

They weren't talking how they would hit on these women but rather she is providing photos and he is messaging them. This is the third thread asking the same question is about 2 weeks.


Jeane,

Are you keeping tabs on people?

Excel or Word? ?
Jeane's advice are actually pretty good 😛 i love that she keeps tabs on people

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Im kinda liking this idea that I am keeping a dossier on everyone. Unfortunately the truth is much more boring. I don't really read many boards. It's mainly Taurus and libra along with a few others.

People's stories stay in my mind so when another thread pops up by someone who had previously posted it adds to that context. Plus I like to give considered thoughts. Sometimes I will look back so I can get a better picture and then hopefully say something that is relevant.
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Posted by jeane
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by jeane
Posted by tiziani
Posted by jeane
Posted by tiziani
I don't see anything in your story to suggest anything whatsoever really, sorry. I don't even know why people are saying he's not into you. There weren't any details that swung it in either direction. It sounds like a normal acquaintance. And you said you were turned off now, so no problem right? Find someone who's really clear about their interest, if that's the kind of reassurance you want from a man.

So as a guy, if you were interested in someone would you talk to them about pursuing other women? Saying you regret not making a move on other women and chatting basically like you would with other men?

Just interested in a guys point of view.


Personally, I wouldn't even have that conversation with men because I don't relate to that.

What I read from her story was that they were finding attractive women on IG or something, and seeing how each other would hit on a woman. I've done that inside a relationship, I've done it outside of a relationship.

This very short story is inconclusive to me.



The other men part is he jokes around with her like you do with a buddy. Calls her "mate", talks about chicks.

They weren't talking how they would hit on these women but rather she is providing photos and he is messaging them. This is the third thread asking the same question is about 2 weeks.


Jeane,

Are you keeping tabs on people?

Excel or Word? ?
Access
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That's plain WRONG! ??
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Posted by Maidemarilyn
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Maidemarilyn
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Maidemarilyn
OP, give up already.

How many desperate women in the world are there?

We have already advised you on your countless threads that this Taurus is not interested in you for anything more than friendship/light flirtation.

Get it into your head.

Accept it and move on.

You may see him as some prize you have to attain but he does not see you in the same way.

Please just move the hell on. He can probably smell your desperation a mile off.

Taurus men are particular about the women they chose for a relationship. But as we have told you before you don’t qualify.

He sees you as a platonic friend and that’s IT.

U r a fire sign. Know when you are a flogging a dead horse and MOVE ON.

Dont take any notice of London Libra as she is as desperate as you are.

Blame yourselves.

The tauruses in BOTH of your cases found neither of you to be attractive enough other than PLATONIC friendship.

Now swallow that damn pill and stop plugging our boards with your nonsensical threads.

How many posts are you two going to create and receiving the exact same answers:

HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.


NOW you are a guru of 'who is notninto whom'—

What ta heck are you doing giving your opinion like it's...valid! ?

So you have so many episodes guys being not into you so you can post walls of text because of it? Shut up!!'
Who the hell are you to tell people to shut up dick face.

My opinion is an opinion so that makes it valid.
I can tell you to Fk off if it suits you better!

Your opinion is valid to you only!

So far you polluted this forum with so much crap and none of it valid nor makes sense. Are you that lonely? Or just learned how to type? Carpal tunnel syndrome isn't a myth you know...

Moron!
Dyke, just get on your bike.
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Keep deleting your threads miscarriage of the nature! Or better just delete your profile. You aren't gonna make it here.

??
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Posted by Maidemarilyn
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Maidemarilyn
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Maidemarilyn
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Maidemarilyn
OP, give up already.

How many desperate women in the world are there?

We have already advised you on your countless threads that this Taurus is not interested in you for anything more than friendship/light flirtation.

Get it into your head.

Accept it and move on.

You may see him as some prize you have to attain but he does not see you in the same way.

Please just move the hell on. He can probably smell your desperation a mile off.

Taurus men are particular about the women they chose for a relationship. But as we have told you before you don’t qualify.

He sees you as a platonic friend and that’s IT.

U r a fire sign. Know when you are a flogging a dead horse and MOVE ON.

Dont take any notice of London Libra as she is as desperate as you are.

Blame yourselves.

The tauruses in BOTH of your cases found neither of you to be attractive enough other than PLATONIC friendship.

Now swallow that damn pill and stop plugging our boards with your nonsensical threads.

How many posts are you two going to create and receiving the exact same answers:

HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.


NOW you are a guru of 'who is notninto whom'—

What ta heck are you doing giving your opinion like it's...valid! ?

So you have so many episodes guys being not into you so you can post walls of text because of it? Shut up!!'
Who the hell are you to tell people to shut up dick face.

My opinion is an opinion so that makes it valid.
I can tell you to Fk off if it suits you better!

Your opinion is valid to you only!

So far you polluted this forum with so much crap and none of it valid nor makes sense. Are you that lonely? Or just learned how to type? Carpal tunnel syndrome isn't a myth you know...

Moron!
Dyke, just get on your bike.
Keep deleting your threads miscarriage of the nature! Or better just delete your profile. You aren't gonna make it here.

??
"miscarriage of the nature" hahahaha

I think you better speak to your "frndz" about that.

I will be around for a while.

U wont escape me, afterall you are part of the entertainment and I am easily amused. 🙂
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I wish you were useful somehow but all you do is give unsolicited retarded opinion of yours in subjects you have no idea about. How bored are you and lonely really?
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Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Maidemarilyn
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Maidemarilyn
OP, give up already.

How many desperate women in the world are there?

We have already advised you on your countless threads that this Taurus is not interested in you for anything more than friendship/light flirtation.

Get it into your head.

Accept it and move on.

You may see him as some prize you have to attain but he does not see you in the same way.

Please just move the hell on. He can probably smell your desperation a mile off.

Taurus men are particular about the women they chose for a relationship. But as we have told you before you don’t qualify.

He sees you as a platonic friend and that’s IT.

U r a fire sign. Know when you are a flogging a dead horse and MOVE ON.

Dont take any notice of London Libra as she is as desperate as you are.

Blame yourselves.

The tauruses in BOTH of your cases found neither of you to be attractive enough other than PLATONIC friendship.

Now swallow that damn pill and stop plugging our boards with your nonsensical threads.

How many posts are you two going to create and receiving the exact same answers:

HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.


NOW you are a guru of 'who is notninto whom'—

What ta heck are you doing giving your opinion like it's...valid! ?

So you have so many episodes guys being not into you so you can post walls of text because of it? Shut up!!'
Who the hell are you to tell people to shut up dick face.

My opinion is an opinion so that makes it valid.
I can tell you to Fk off if it suits you better!

Your opinion is valid to you only!

So far you polluted this forum with so much crap and none of it valid nor makes sense. Are you that lonely? Or just learned how to type? Carpal tunnel syndrome isn't a myth you know...

Moron!
Dyke, just get on your bike.
Keep deleting your threads miscarriage of the nature! Or better just delete your profile. You aren't gonna make it here.

??
"miscarriage of the nature" hahahaha

I think you better speak to your "frndz" about that.

I will be around for a while.

U wont escape me, afterall you are part of the entertainment and I am easily amused. 🙂
I wish you were useful somehow but all you do is give unsolicited retarded opinion of yours in subjects you have no idea about. How bored are you and lonely really?
Stop stalking.
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Why are you crying about stalking??

Is this harrassment? Are you gonna report and ban her? Doing the same exact shit you want to paint yourself a victim of.

Just pointing out your hypocrisy. K bye.

Carry on.